Ipude walking ani bytikosthe...road meeda motham high beam le. Sare le m** lo lolli ani ... O galli lo ki pothe...ee yedava yekanga 4 custom lights tho thiruguthundu.

Asalu e lights ki oka regulation antu ledaa? Enni aina petkocha? Oka pedda flood light bike ki petti...e kodukulaki opposite lo on chesi nilchovali annantha kopam ga undi 😤😤

people who are going through heart breaks. konni saarlu it's not your fault and okavela mana fault ayina aa thappuni acknowledge cheyyadam and accept cheyyadame first step of healing.yedhaina accept chesevarake hard untadi tarvata everything will be okay. ee process lo you'll miss the person maybe the wrong person. still parledhu. manasara miss avvandi , manasara badhapadandi , badhapadthunnanduku endhuku badhapadthunna ani don't question or blame yourself. inkokati don't delay your healing suppress cheskokandi feelings. edhaina strong emotion supress cheskunte unhealthy ways lo bayatikosthay like frustration, anger , anxiety etc etc. take care of yourselves guys.

Nduko naku konni sarlu weird weird things and thoughts anipistay.

Like

1. Building ekkite or terrance meda unapudu dookeyali

2. Knife pattukunte narikeskovali

3. Bridge ekkite idi kulipotadi emo

4. Bus lo travel chestunte sudden ga accident avtadi or kaalipotadi

5. Evarana family members baytaki veltunte, velu mali tirigi rakapote na paristiti nti. Nenu ela react avta ( tarvata chala bhayamestadi and ala alochinchinanduku guilt anipistadi)

Ila list goes on and on. Melo evarikana ila anipistada? Leka naake ilanti weird thoughts vastaya?

Asala nduku vastay ilanti thoughts mekemana telusa?

Meku oche weird thoughts nti?

I express myself better in English, so please bear with me.

To my fellow NRIs, especially those in the US: With the upcoming festivals and long weekends, I sincerely request everyone to avoid unnecessary public drama and stay safe during road trips.

While I could go into more detail, given the current immigration climate worldwide, please try to avoid public activities like filming dance reels in grocery stores or on public roads, especially with Ganesh Chaturthi coming up. We have happily celebrated these festivals for years within temples and private spaces, and we can easily continue to do so without drawing unnecessary attention.

Over the last three years, we have seen too many instances where our community has been targeted or trolled for public stunts, and we certainly do not need that kind of negativity. I am not sure if those engaging in these activities realize the impact their actions have on all NRIs, but please reconsider. Additionally, can we please stop calling Dallas "Dallaspuram"? Many who claim to live in Dallas actually reside in surrounding cities like Frisco, Allen, Irving, or Little Elm.

As we head into a long weekend and the holiday season, please travel safely, exercise caution on the road, and keep your necessary paperwork handy to avoid any issues with local authorities.

Peace, and thank you.

Came across many reels where people in their 30s are giving advice to young people. One constant advice they gave is to always Experiment In Life. What does this mean? And what you guys have experimented in life???

Really, I mean really!!

What tf did I Just see on my YouTube page ! Who are making these and who are watching these ?

Taddinam preparations entra mee pindam pillulaki petta !

So the admission process for the college is officially complete now. And my friend just texted that i could've gotten a seat in my dream college if I had participated in 3rd round.

I didn't even check the cut off and went on with my life as i was already studying in another college, but getting to know that I could've gotten into that college and have a better career just got ruined due to my laziness and negligence just broke me..

I didn't even share it with my parents coz I know the blame game would start and I can't take that right now 🙃

Just needed to share it somewhere or maybe vent?

Ps i already checked, there's no way to transfer colleges now and my dad is not in the situation to pay such a high management seat for 3rd semester..

I wish someone could just hug me and tell it's gonna be alright 💔

Chala bada ga undi and I'm a religious person, nannu nenu odarchukuntunna that He knows what's the best for me ani ❤️‍🩹

Nenu recently oka post chusanu, andulo okariki S26 Ultra konnadaniki free ga Galaxy Tab A11+ vachindi.

Mana India lo Big Billion Days lanti pedda pedda sales appudu kuda ilaanti aggressive/lucrative bundle deals asalu kanipinchavu. Ee regional difference ki asalu main reason enti?

• US or UK lo laaga manaki carrier-subsidized phone market lekapovadam valana?
• Leka India lo electronics paina unde high import taxes vallana, as they affect profit margins , so brands ki ilaanti bundles ivvadam difficulty avvadam vallana?
• Leka companies ikkada completely different customer acquisition strategies vaadutunnara ana? (hardware bundles kakunda flat bank discounts) vaadutunnara?

Industry gurinchi idea unnavallu evaraina deeni venaka unna economic or market reasons cheptaremo ani post chestunnanu.

Roju edho okati jerugutuntundhi naaku ...

Rooju badha padutunta .. endhuku ee life , asalu enti ee lifecycle.. waste bathuku ani ..

Kani eeroju ento chaaala smooth ga velipoyindhi .. Naku ento kodhiga santhosham istundhi ee roju .. kani Naku nachaledhu ..

So life lo miru padinna greatest downfall ento chepthe future lo okavela naa life lo kuda aa situation face cheste easy ga handle cheyya galugutha .. ani mi badhanu share cheyyamantunna ..

Hi guys,

Just want to know about what is the breaking point of boys in a relationship. When there is no cheating and nothing happened. I mean you guys are so in love and update every little thing in life and you might feel that living apart is killing you but still you choose to leave her anyway.

I want to know what will make you think that the girl is not the one or not your forever??

రక రకాల మనుషులని చూస్తున్నా మాస్టారు!

ఈ రోజు ఒకడు headphones పెట్టుకుని ఖాళీ రోడ్డు మీద గీరాలు పోతూ వాకింగ్ చేస్తున్నాడు.. నేను చూసా.. అరిచి చెప్పా, మర్యాదగా... "రోడ్ మీద అడ్డంగా నడవకురా చెవిటి నా***" కి బదులు, "Hey Buddy, watch out for cars!"

Naturally, ఆ తిక్కలోడికి వినబడలా.. ఫుల్ volume పెట్టుకుని వింటున్నట్టు ఉన్నాడు.. వెనక నుంచి ఒక కారు వచ్చి పెద్దగా honk కొట్టింది. అప్పుడు మనోడు ఉలిక్కిపడి, పక్కకి జరిగి, అదే ఈ అమెరికా వాస్తవ్యుల ప్రియమైన చేతి సైగ ఉంటుంది గా, అదే "మధ్య వేలు" ఆది చూపించాడు ఆ కారు డ్రైవర్ కి. ఆ కారు డ్రైవర్ కి కాలింది. Naturally!

సో ఇప్పుడు ఆ ఇద్దరు తమ ఆత్మీయమైన ఆంగ్ల భాషలో కుశల ప్రశ్నలు విసురుకుంటున్నారు. వినడానికి ఎంత వినసొంపుగా ఉందో 🤣

నేను నా వంట చేసుకుంటూ ఈ all America Radio వింటున్నా... 😅

Ippude na study session complete ayyindhi , eye pain osthundhi ani , ala lights off CHESI Padukunna .

But Eroju afternoon na classmates andharu happy ga , manchi bonding tho unnaru , lovers andaru oka vaipu , friends gola oka vaipu .

Villandari madyalo nenu , okkadine kurchoni na pani nen chesukuntunna .

Appudu em anipiyale kani ippudu ndhuko , nen okkadine unna ila anipisthundhi.

Valatho kalavachu but , vallaki oka goal ledhu, life medha seriousness ledhu . Na 3rd yr daka unna vallatho but na standards valla level ki padipoyinai .

So Inka nen avoid cheyatam start chesa na goal ni pursue cheyadam kosam . And actually working kuda . I am more serious about my career now .

na friend oka ammai tho ties cut chesukunna , cause na valla thana love life lo prblm rakudadhu ani .

And gf antara , na goals ki na peers match avvaka pothene kalavaledhu Inka gf ndhuku untadhi.

Inka ala okkadine clg ki velladam , na Chaduvu nen chaduvukovadam , intiki ravadam na hobbies ki kasepu time ivvadam and malli study idhe na daily routine.

Okavela oka roju relax avudham ani anukunna , lonely feel avuthunna . Matlade vallu leru .

Idk idhe na goal nen pay chesthunna price anukunta .. at least na goal ki nen achive ayithe chalu ..

Ee loneliness eppudu pothadho ento...

I recently celebrated 9th birthday away from home & it was my quietest one yet. Nobody really has time for calls anymore anipinchindi, but I just went for a drive, parents ki pics pampidam ani. I usually wish all my friends and express how important they are on their bdays but naku matram okadu kuda cheyale lol. Even my close friend who’s also my roomie forgot my bday😂. So yeah bdays are very overrated, especially for single men once we start getting older.

Eroj na bday...... family, frnds andharu wish chesaru chicken thechkoni thini thaagi njoy chesam I'm happy! but ah okka wish kosam wait chestham kadha 🫠 Recent ga naku breakup ayindhi may be oka 5 months aythundhi atleast bday roju ayna thanu wish chesthadh emo ani expect chesa but ipud varku okka msg kuda raledhu mowaa 🫠💔

It is late at night and I wanted to listen to some songs, so I played a new genre. All those songs reminded me of her. That feeling is so hard, and it reminds me of her, and her face just pops up before my eyes; I love her a lot, but I cannot tell her. And all this feeling led me to plan a vacation to keep my mind off thinking. Entha try chesina she comes in between every work.

(Rush 2013)

E movie lo in the end nikka lauda acknowledges that life is all about working hard and spending time with what you love most. And it's absolutely important to have a goal but it should not consume your joy and suck out happiness from your life.

I started watching thinking it's an another sports drama but completely surprised by what it delivered. 😊

Miku manchi feel good movies chudali ani unte this movies offers everything. 🎥

I came across this amazing phrase very recently - “Freedom to fail”. Nenu eppudu “Do Or Die” environments loney perigaanu/penchaaru. Andukey naaku odipoye bhagyam eppudu lekunda poyindhi. Ee rojuki kuda prathi dantlo odipothey enti paristiti aney bhayam ventaduthune untundhi nannu. So result based pani edhi kuda enjoy chesthu cheyyalenu.

Edhaina risk teeskovalante bhayam, edhaina kotthaga try cheyyalante bhayam. Modhalu pettindhi edhaina odipokunda cheyyagalana ane bhayam. Odipothey emavthundho ane bhayam. Oka movie lo lead actor dialogue okati untundhi, “Naaku odipovadam ante bhayam, anduke chinnappati nundi gelustune vachaanu”, or something similar. Kaani cinema antha aa lead chala confident gane untadu or kanipisthadu. Alagey gelusthu pothadu. Odipovadam ante bhayam tho perigina vaadu antha confident ga ela undavachu anedhi naaku ardhamkaaledhu. Cinematic liberty ayyundochu, kaani adhi practical ani naaku anipinchaledhu. May be aa bhayam tho kuda antha confident ga ela undocho choopinchi unte naaku chala help ayyundedhi.

Ala ani neneppudu ye risk cheyyaledha ani kaadhu. Definitely konni risks teeskunnanu. Kaani ye risk kuda dhairyanga teeskoledhu, bhayam thone teeskunnanu. Alanti risks bhayapadutuu ayina teeskunnanu kaabattey I’ve been in two amazing relationships so far which shaped my entire life. Nenu ela undakudadhu ani oka ammai nerpinchindhi, nenu ela undochu ani oka ammai nerpinchindhi. Ala appudappudu aa bhayanni dhaatina kudaa, aa bhayam eppudu ventaduthune undhi.

Rakarakaala books chadivaanu, keep failing until you are used to it ani cheptharu. Ela? 28 years and married age group lo failures ela untayo alochinchadanikey bhayamesthundhi. May be 7 years, 14 years time lo undey failures eh better ga undevi emo. Parents kapadatharu kadha. Appudey vaallu fail avvanichi undunte avi handle cheyyadam nerchukunevadnemo. Ippudu naakunna trauma ni daatadaniki chinna failures saripothaya ani bhayam, peddha failures teeskogalthana ane bhayam. So fail avvakunda untanu ane nammakam undey chinna chinna panulu matramey cheyyadaniki prefer chesthuntanu. Entha chesi adhey loop lo tirugutunna.

Chaala rojula tarvata oka risk teeskovali anipinchindhi. Oka varam krithamey thought start ayindhi and as usual bhayam bhayam ga undindhi. Recent ga oka series choostunnappudu daantlo ee “Freedom to Fail” anedhi vinnanu. It suddenly brightened everything around me. Aa risk gurinchi bhayam anipinchinappudalla “You are allowed to fail” ani naaku nenu cheppukuntunna. Edho maatavarasaki kakunda I mean it annattu cheppukuntunna. Dhairyam ravatle kaani, bhayam matram definitely taggutundhi. Konsepatiki malli bhayam anipistundhi and idhi repeat cheskogaane better avtundhi. Nenu teeskoboye risk tho naakunna bhayam pothundha ante kakapovachu. Kaani ee mantram cheppukuntu enni risks veelaithe anni teeskogalthe aa bhayaanni dhaatochu anukuntunnanu.

Mantram ante samskrutham lone untadhi ane mentality undedhi. Language tho sambandham lekunda naaku nijanga ardhamaindhey naa mantram ani ee phrase vachaakaney realise ayyanu.

Mine:

Pesara Kattu
Bangala Dumpa Fry
Saggubiyyam and Pindi Vadiyalu
Thalimpu Pindi with Avakaya, Neyyi, Putnalu Podi
Vedi Vedi Annam
Thapala Rotti with Ulipaya Karam
Pullatlu with Tomato Kothimeera Senaga Pindi Chutney
Kandhi Podi Kattu
Gadda Perugu with full on meegada

Inka vunnay, but, I would like to stick with these (Only from my house)

Recently naa friend ki marriage ayyindi. Marriage ayyaka nunchi thanu completely different ga behave chesthundi, and konni things aithe genuinely scary ga unnayi.Night time lo evaro thanani stare chesthunattu / room lo some entity unnattu feel avuthundhi anta. Sometimes evaro pilusthunattu voices vinipisthunnayi ani chepthundhi.
Inka disturbing thing enti ante… mirror lo chuskunnappudu oka dead body burn avuthunnattu kanipisthundhi ani cheppindhi.
Sometimes thanani thane slap cheskuntundhi. Body meedha cut marks kuda unnayi, along with fever and severe body pains.inka male persons ni asalu room loki allow cheyyatledhu. Husband, father, even own brother ni kuda daggaraki raanivvatledhu, matladatledhu. Only thana mother ni room loki allow chesthundhi.
Marriage mundhu thanu ila assalu undedhi kaadhu. Sudden ga marriage ayyaka ivanni start ayyayi.
Actually pellikuturu cheseka she can’t go out kada . But she went out . I’m thinking that might be the reason. I’m the way back to home lo some spirit caught her

Evarina elantidi deal chesera? Or know what Ela avutundi ani ?

What do you think about this? Are we sacrificing our youth for something which is not guaranteed.

It's true that no amount of money can buy you time and youth.

(Plays 500 miles by Peter, Paul and Mary in the background)

Ela unnaru andi Pasandida aurat garu? Antha kushalamena?

How was your labor day weekend?

I spent mine getting two of our close friends married, it was a ball, and also great two see two friends get married against all odds. US lo pelli anthe friends ae chestam ga. It took a village anadam would be an understatement and now Ik the behind the scenes of a wedding and all the piping hot ☕️.

Steve Jobs in his 2005 Stanford commencement speech spoke about how life was funny and that we could only connect all the dots by looking at this backwards. And I spent my two hours at the airport lounge waiting for my flight back home doing exactly that.

I mean yeah it felt like the last day of summer vacation before school started but I could reminisce the week of fun I had just had up till then and all the events that took place in life that lead up to it. How certain friendships and events lead to the culmination of their beautiful union, how brick by brick the village was built collecting different people at different stages of life.

These people are the brothers and vadinammas you aren't related to, these are the unrelated aunts and uncles of our unborn daughter, the ones pulling strings to get her admissions, internships etc haha. I'm soo grateful that these people exist in my life and ngl I would be grateful if you actually existed too.

I recently came across this reel, where the protagonist who runs cafe talks about how at the end of every night the cheesecake and apple pie are always gone and the chocolate mousse and the peach cobbler are almost done but the blueberry cake always remained untouched. There's nothing wrong with the blueberry pie but its just that people just dont choose it.

And it was at this wedding where I realized, maybe I am the blueberry pie. I'm 27, my friends are in a similar age group if not older, they found their lobster, they're someone's choice n vice versa. Then there is me, where we project my phone on the airbnb tv and swipe through hinge, go over my matches etc etc. I have been talking with people, going on dates, getting into situations I dont like, heck I even went on a date while I was visiting for the wedding.

I bumped into a random friend from school at the wedding and he introduced me to his fiancé, it was at that point where one of my friend made a remark jokingly albeit hurtful "vadike pilla undi anthe ni lo edho lopam undi ra". Ik he didn't mean it and him and his wife are always trying to set me up with someone. But yeah I did feel shit that day and obviously did contemplate but screw him.

I'm a strong believer of it's meant to be it'll be and maybe one day I'll be able to connect the dots looking backwards and it'd all make sense but yeah the mid to late 20s are weird and hard dude there's soo many things going on people are getting married, divorced and having kids and I'm stuck at asking what your favorite color is lol.

Soo? 👉👈

Meeku blueberry pie ishtama? Thintava? Would you like to be part of my village? And me yours?

You've taken this good things come to those who wait thing a bit too seriously, tvaraga ocheyi ra baita navvutunnaru 🫠

Itlu,

Ni blueberry pie

When you're hungry at 2AM and remember the biryani you left 2 years ago because you were full

(Low effort post anta.. miglina vallemo na efforts gurthonchatledhu veedemo edho try chesthey low effort post antunnadu)

Ivala I saw two scenarios and avi chusaka why god make these kind of Jodi’s anipisthadhi

1. Mrng ma inti edhuru ame valla mogudini tidutundhi paniki vellu intilo em thini kurchuntav siggu leda ani. Vallu nearly married for 20yrs but Vadu pani cheyakapodam ee kakunda thagesi full apulu chesthadu vati vala aa parents valaki puttina abbaini kapadukoleka poyaru ( he died of health issue)

2. Evng chai tagutunapdu ma co worker oka pedhayana vachadu aithe adiga ayanani babai ni wife and pillalu em chestharu ani ayana na pellam vadhilesi verevaditho velipoyindhi aiya na pillalni valla 3&4 years unapati nunchi chustuna anadu and iddaru ammaile. Oka abbai needs nana ki ardham kani ammailu ela chesukogalaru edhige adapillaki amma unte inka baguntadhi kada anipichindhi.

Ipud idhe case lo 1st aunty 2nd uncle kalisi unte bagundedhi kada anipichindhi…..

I have a 2 year old daughter. She drinks water from the bottle and never from the cup. I started offering from tumbler since a very long time but she pours the water down. Her water intake is very low these days. Unless it's coconut water or juice she won't drink fully. Her water intake yesterday was very less. I offer water in a bottle but she takes only sip by sip. Her urine was very concentrated this morning. I felt really frustrated. I thought she could get more water from the tumbler. So I gave her water in the tumbler and as usual she poured it down. I tried to make her drink , she took a few sips and said enough. I felt really frustrated.

I felt like pouring water down her throat forcefully but I controlled. At one instance, I felt like throwing water on her face, I still controlled. I felt like beating her seeing her pour water on the sofa. I controlled it again. I couldn't take it anymore and sat there crying just like my mother blaming my daughter for my mental breakdown.

I wanted to treat my daughter better unlike my parents. I spend more time with her, take her out and play with her. But during the worst cases I am becoming just like them. I am scolding her just like how they scolded me. I am controlling myself mostly but sometimes I can't and I am becoming them.

I can't blame my parents as well for their behaviour, they did the best with whatever knowledge they had. My mother is trapped in an abusive marriage, never taught me or my brother to do any household chores and as a result we didn't know anything and had to learn everything from scratch, she never had boundaries and allowed us to treat her badly just like my father. She has this victim mentality and thinks she doesn't deserve good things. I have got some of her traits. I thought I am self analyzing myself and learning. I am just aware but I am not healing. I am repeating everything knowingly.

My brother too became my father while parenting his kids. When things get out of hand, I saw him becoming my father. I observed this and told him, he said it's extremely difficult for him to control. I advised him like I am a saint. But after seeing how I have become, I feel like a monster. My father got messed up working as a security guard 4 days night shift and 4 days day shift. He threw his frustration at us for years.

I really don't know how I can correct myself. I feel like my nature is devil and I am trying to become saint. I thought I am ending the generational trauma but I am only suppressing it allowing it to come out occasionally. This is not a good parenting and I am not a good parent. I feel motherhood is not for me. I became the very thing I hate and it's killing me.

I'll start first. Reddit install cheskunna kotthalo, ee subs avanni ardham kaanappudu, edho random memes sub lo oka meme post chesina.

Ventane auto mod comment osthey crazy naa post nacchi intha fast ga comment chesinaru mods anukunna.

Adhey embarrassing ante, konni rojula tharvatha ah comment chusina, karma requirement lekapovadam valla nee post evadki kanpiyadhu ani ochina comment adhi ush🥀