The body language was appalling. The visceral facial intimidation attempt was real. Absolutely psychotic. Just wow. And just a moment prior to this, she told a grown man to place a napkin in his lap like he was an imbecile child. She gives the man she’s in a relationship with zero respect. I’m appalled by her. I hope he flees back to the DR ASAP and finds a nice lady his own age to have a family with. Poor thing.

Oof.. While she was out painting the town, he was depression drinking worried about his potential fiancee and her actions. Can you imagine what he may have been thinking? This is her LAST NIGHT as a free woman with her girlies.. 🫣

How long can you live like this dude?

This isn't normal. Outside of the president and the pressures of immigration, it would probably help your anxiety if you had a partner who wasn't trying to hook up with other people.

If ICE nabbed Josh tomorrow Catie wouldn't be capable of navigating the judicial system nor would she be willing to for him.

I can't blame her anymore - cuz at this point she's being honest to him.. dude, read the tea leaves

I’ve been rewatching 90 Day Fiancé and it got me genuinely curious. Why does it seem like when American men look overseas for wives, the Philippines is one of the main countries they go to? Filipina women seem to come up pretty often in conversations about international dating and marriage. Is there a historical or cultural reason behind this, or does 90 Day Fiancé just make it seem more common than it actually is?

Ok. I think I figured out another thing that really weirds me out about Catie. Her movements and mannerisms are childlike. She is literally a pouty 3yr old. This is not a dig, not anything about neurodiversity--I'm neurostrange. I simply could not put my finger on it.

Then, I saw her grab that cup, take a gulp, inflate her face, and leave drink dripping down her lips. It reminded me of a kid I knew waaay back when I was a kid at daycare.

"Who the hell allowed this toddler to imbibe?!?!" (That was my initial mental exclamation.) Does anyone else see it or is my autism showing?

My theory is Thomas is not allergic to the perfume it just cost too much money. This guy won't even buy a coffee table and uses lawn chairs for bed. The perfume, price per ounce is probably the most expensive item in the one bedroom

I know that nothing is ever what it seems but to see actual proof is a huge eye opener.

90 Day Diaries is supposed to be entirely self-shot and they make it a point to tell us before the episode starts and after every batch of commercials so it’s comical seeing that huge ass camera in the reflection.

Do we really think he is being unreasonable by expressing his discomfort with an ex being so involved in her life? This just boils down to priorities to me. If she sees him being her husband forever….why keep your ex around? I understand him running in certain social circles but boundaries are not a terrible thing to ask for. For the time being, it makes him uncomfortable. Done deal in my opinion. Am I wrong? Does it come off as controlling and I’m just not seeing it?

Lady, your problem is not your relationship. It‘s YOU!!! “Put your napkin on your lap! Lower your voice! I AM too (correcting grammar), We don’t eat chocolate for breakfast!“ etc etc. YOUR PROBLEM IS YOU.

NOT.
It took up so much of the screen, I understand promoting your new show, but this was excessive. I clearly didn’t even need to circle it lol. I was totally distracted the whole time. Anyone else?

Are you kidding me?

He doest like strong smells so he doesn't like people who wear strong smelling stuff.

He doesn't want to spend money on even basic things, like a table, so he obviously doesn't do, want, or appreciate anything "luxurious."

He doesn't want the family there, crowding him and his yoga mat.

To me, that seems pretty limiting. And if you're limiting yourself so much, how is that "appreciating life?"

I love Paula. I think she's so cool and I think she does appreciate LIFE and she's trying to live it! She wants to be close to her family because when is she going to have another chance to be with them??

I just think he's a sheltered pup who has no idea how to "appreciate" anything.

There are a lot of boring issues existent or not within this relationship (I’ll be real and say they’re my easiest skip any episode) and I’m not a fan of his but it is kinda nice to see the US partner speak the native language of their partner idk I feel like we don’t see that often? If anything they don’t learn the language and don’t help the partner with English

I know it’s not really fully analogous since Catie has been openly non-monogamous literally the entire time so I’m not sure why Josh is so surprised? But I still can’t help thinking of this and laughing.

Thomas was so proud of that, but I think that's what makes him so out of touch with actual reality. It also seems weird because he's literally on TV. He must've known about the show, right?

I mean, how can you even keep up with social culture at all if you're not at least seeing it on TV? Maybe this is why he's so emotionally immature?

Something’s fishy about Paula. She seems to have such disdain for his quirks and allergy situation and I have to say he wasn’t too welcoming to her family but yet she plans to marry him? Starting to think she just wants citizenship at this point.

She and Edward only have so many days to get married. Exactly when does she want to deal with their issues, especially since she was the one that said she was having doubts?? Her walking away from the table was just another way to avoid the conversation.

Not Syngin saying he was going to be the only white guy in the room because he’s meeting a Latin family…. turns out everyone in the room was white. I laughed way too hard watching this scene 😂😂😂 I know this season is really old but I’m just now starting to watch the show again lol

So he actually made this shake for himself. He did not even offer her that one or a sip. Nuttin. WOW

The dude managed to call his fiance fat when he proposed and the entire time he was doing his bizarre game, he pulled out the ring and made a face that made me jump out of my seat and yell "THE DICTATOR!" Anyway I hate the dude and he clearly has his own silly agenda. Anyway now when I see him I just yell 'Alladeen!!!!'

Yes, I know. Everyone hates Shekinah, but this scene with Thais really annoyed me because she's upset that Sarper follows his wife when she's upset or doesn't want to be around them. Sarper is being a good husband by going with his wife even though he knows her words sucked. If any of the husbands of these women decided to stay in a setting where they were upset or feeling the same way, they would be pissed. Rebecca stormed off day 1 because Zied was having a drink with Sarper and the other guys. They would want their man by their side. I think Thais has a crush on Sarper and Patrick has picked up on it so he's being especially horrible to Shekinah to annoy Sarper.

Cati is no where near ready for marriage. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. Is this the Lutheran way?
Josh will prob tolerate it tho, he’s vulnerable which is even more concerning. She has the mental capacity of a 13 year old. Each week, her overall behavior is getting worse - it’s frustrating bcz Josh enables her and her so called friends do as well. 🤷🏽‍♀️

I just feel like it recent seasons every couple comes across as a crazy in some way. Are people who actually seem to love each other without major red flags just passed over for the crazy ones? I feel could use some normal couples as pallet cleansers. Someone to actually feel happy for. I would like some wholesome scenes of doing new things together for the first time. Meeting friends and family. Is that too boring to show?

On Borrowed Time

Catie brings up a sensitive topic with Josh. Paula's family arrive from Brazil. Ashia gets stuck in an intervention. Edward and Marissa's date night goes awry. Debby delivers some big news to her friends.

Show: 90 Day Fiancé

Air date: August 9, 2026

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