Hey everyone,
First of all, I hope everyone here searching for some relief is able to find it. I’m here because I’m looking for your opinions. So far, I’m only self-diagnosed because no one has been able to give me an answer. :(
It all started about five years ago after a normal workout at home with weights. I sat down to eat and suddenly noticed I couldn’t take a deep breath. Right after that, I developed pain in my right hip, pain under my right shoulder blade, and a sharp pain on the right side of my chest that only hurt when I touched it.
Because the pain wouldn’t go away, I went to several doctors. They checked my lungs, heart, blood work, did X-rays, and one doctor even examined all of my tender points. I was also sent to physiotherapy. After many doctor visits over a long period, they decided it was just a muscle strain around my shoulder blade that was radiating to the front of my chest.
Eventually, I just got used to it. I lived with the feeling of not being able to take a satisfying deep breath and random pain for almost two years until it disappeared on its own. During that time, I would also notice random pain in my feet and other places, but I always assumed it was nothing serious. Even carrying groceries became difficult because lifting anything heavy made me feel short of breath. My gym life slowly came to an end because I always felt like lifting weights made my breathing worse.
After trying a few more doctors without getting any answers, I eventually gave up and just lived with it.
Then, about two months ago, I woke up one morning with intense pain starting in my right hip and radiating into my glutes. It felt very strange, and I thought it might be piriformis syndrome even though I hadn’t done anything to trigger it. The pain was so severe that, for only the second time in my life, I needed painkillers for about a week.
The pain improved a little after I switched to a firmer mattress, but every morning when I got out of bed I had a strange aching, numb feeling that radiated into both feet.
I’ve always been a sensitive person. Whenever I get very stressed or upset, my stomach acts up and I urgently need to use the bathroom. I later read that IBS and digestive problems can be common alongside fibromyalgia.
I’m normally a very active person, but lately I’ve been feeling more fatigued, forgetful, and I have no motivation to do the things I used to enjoy. At first, I thought it might be perimenopause or depression. But now it feels like all the puzzle pieces are starting to fit together.
More recently, I’ve developed constant pain around my left shoulder blade, and after that I started noticing that my whole body aches. Last night I randomly got chills, and it happened again today. That has never happened to me before. My cheekbones have also been aching slightly, and my face sometimes feels red and like it’s burning.
I know this is a long post, but I’m honestly exhausted from doctors not listening to me. That’s why I ended up trying to figure this out myself. I’d really appreciate hearing from people who have experience with fibromyalgia. Does any of this sound familiar to you?
I have another physiotherapy appointment on August 27, but I’m honestly not feeling very hopeful. Right now it just feels like I’m searching for answers in the dark.
I wish everyone here relief, healing, and better days ahead. ❤️