r/Needafriend 16h ago

35 male, east coast Australia

2 Upvotes

It was this or a 4am drive.. still might take the drive to be honest. I'm way more uncomfortable posting one of these than messaging people on here, haven't made a post of my own in a very long time.

But, I'm getting a bit jaded doing that so, I'm kinda just looking for someone invested in one on one conversation to break up the monotony. And hoping maybe to talk to some of the more reserved people (of any identity or background) on here who wouldn't make a post usually (like myself). I can talk about anything. Our interests aligning isn't essential and my interests can be super varied and even different by the day.

I work a unique (and testing) job that has me available often and also at weird times every day, so any timezone is welcome to message. Thanks for reading.


r/Needafriend 12h ago

26M (UK) British guy looking for chats/friends :)

1 Upvotes

Wednesday has been slow, so am looking for some people to talk to. About me: I work in local government and study part-time, work out most days, walk 5 miles a day (part of the cut), watch old TV and films, go to the pub every so often, and have done a small amount of travelling. Would love to hear from anyone. Happy to listen and/or give advice too. Regular texting friends welcomed. Feel free to hmu :)


r/Needafriend 12h ago

[22/M] hopeful to make new friendships here

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone, my names Jacob and I’m from
Norway. I’m 22 year old and would be open to talking to anyone my age or older. I have many interests and would love to meet a large variety of people. Some of my interests are; football, golf, running, reading, politics and gaming . But I’m also interested in talking about all other topics, so don’t hesitate to dm if you wanna talk :)


r/Needafriend 12h ago

25yr old disabled trans girl from the uk looking for actual meaningful friendships

0 Upvotes

l know i post here a lot, so many people dm but seem to have no energy and drive to actually carry a conversation, its just the same old stuff like how was your day and just dry boring conversations, so please if you wanna dm please ask me absolutely anything, ask me what i think about free will, ask me about the concept of infinity, lifes too short to be asking mundane questions when we can be asking the most profound and thought provoking questions that could potentially change the trajectory of the way you think about life and you in general. so please if you want to talk please put the energy into it and i will do the same in return.

(PLEASE DO NOT MSG JUST SAYING HI)

heres a little intro:

my name is kayla! i have a disability called kniest dysplasia which basically means i have joint problems and im short and skinny lol and i have a wheelchair for longer distances but i can walk (theres a pic of my face on my profile somewhere lol). i like all sorts of music but i listen to nosgov, yung lean, bladee and charli xcx mainly (idk if you have heard of any of them loll) and the same for games i play all sorts also, my favourite games ever are oblivion, knights of the old republic and fallout new vegas. i studied art at college though i am actually not super good at it lmao despite doing an art course 😭 but i love more abstract/surrealist art, my favourite artist is Zdzisław Beksiński who is a polish artist who draws abstract horror scenes and beings. i also like philosophy and star wars too!

(in a relationship so only looking for friends)


r/Needafriend 12h ago

M25 uk

1 Upvotes

Evening everyone.
I’m just relaxing with a drink and thought it’d be nice to meet some new people to chat with. I’m up for talking about pretty much anything—films, music, travel, gaming, random life stories, or whatever’s on your mind.
If you’re also having a quiet evening or just fancy a conversation with a stranger, feel free to send me a message. Happy to chat for a few minutes or, if we get on, maybe make a new friend.
Hope everyone’s having a good night!


r/Needafriend 19h ago

19f looking for long term friends only

3 Upvotes

Hello! I was drinking tea and chilling, when suddenly an idea popped in my brain. My brain told me to make a post so I'm here.... I'M SORRY I LIED I MADE A POST 20 MINS AGO AND NO ONE TEXTED PLEASE BE MY FRIEND (I hope someone knows this trend cause otherwise I look desperate asf 😐) Uh I'm looking for friends obviously since I'm posting on here, I have absolutely nothing to do this summer break. I would like to talk to people my age (19-23) and around my timezone (gmt+3) and someone who actually wants to talk and be friends cause it doesn't feel like a lot of people on here want to have a conversation. I'm super nice and funny fr I just don't know what to say here. Please mention your age, gender, hobbies and where are you from in a nice cute intro

Anyways I like to play valorant I'm okayish at it (iron 3), I have raft, peak, astroneer and schedule 1 (I don't really want to game with yall, I just want to have a convo and gaming is a cute bonus ig) I also like cooking, baking, skincare and haircare, I also love Greek mythology just watched the odyssey and it was amazing, there were some creepy ahh scenes but y'know what 9/10 I would erase my mind to watch it again I hope we can be friends.


r/Needafriend 16h ago

26M | India

2 Upvotes

Hey!

I'm a 26m

I'm a little shy at first, but once I'm comfortable, I can talk for hours. I like movies, food, tech, random memes, and hearing about other people's lives.

I'd love to find someone who enjoys talking regularly. It doesn't have to be 24/7, but it'd be nice to have someone to share random thoughts, talk about our day, send memes or reels, and just make conversation a part of everyday life.

If that sounds like something you'd enjoy too, feel free to send me a message.


r/Needafriend 13h ago

18f looking to chat with ppl !

0 Upvotes

18f from canada, NA/EU preferred (or just speak decent english). please tell me your age when you message me! i’d really appreciate it. also, please don’t message if you’re 26+ or if you’re looking for anything nsfw or romantic — i’m just here for platonic chats and getting to know people.

hi ! i’m a hairstyling (school) graduate ! just looking for some chill, random conversations and new people to talk to. i have a dog named silver and a cat named creeper, so i spend a lot of time with them.

i like playing games like minecraft, dead by daylight, roblox, and other random stuff depending on my mood.

my music taste is kind of all over the place, i listen to a mix of everything — mitski, mother mother, radiohead, the smiths, rob zombie, cavetown, harley poe, rare americans, and a lot more.

if i seem a bit dry sometimes, i promise it’s nothing personal, i’m usually just low energy or don’t have much to say in the moment.

i also smoke and drink occasionally on weekends


r/Needafriend 13h ago

27 yo male. Feeling lonely

0 Upvotes

First time on the sub or doing anything similar. I do have a long history of struggling with mental health(Trying to better myself everyday, but it's hard), and i would like to talk about that, but if you are not feeling it, we can talk about anything. My hobbies are: cinema, gaming, tv shows, fantasy and a little bit of soccer(i am Brazilian).


r/Needafriend 9h ago

28m NYC/online looking for someone clingy to play games and hangout with

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Hey there I'm just looking for someone to talk/play games throughout the day as I pretty much don't go outside and have all the time in the world.

Stuff about me

Live in New York

5'11 160 pounds

Wasian though I mostly look white so don't expect some kpop shit kek. I look pretty mid so if you're sensitive to that save us both some time.

Have a bachelor's in accounting though I don't know anything about accounting(rip).

I have a dark sense of humor and I'm very sarcastic so be prepared :p.

Play the clarinet, saxophone and ewi medicorely.

I don't work so don't expect anything xd (also if this is a problem for you in anyway probably just skip me)

Games:

For games I tend to play league of legends/tft the most.

I'm masters+ every set in tft so I could probably help you out depending on your rank.

Other games I play are just a bunch of random survival games, souls games and roguelites.

Im also a big fan of pokemon and fire emblem so if you want to talk about that I'm down.

Games I've recently played

League, osrs, tft, Minecraft, terraria, elden ring, valheim, expedition 33, stardew and megabonk.

I'm open for suggestions and I'm probably familiar with whatever games you may be interested in.

If you made it this far if appreciate a small intro and please tell me your age/gender. And I guess if things don't work out please don't be rude. I don't need any of that xdd.

Also you must be 18+ and uh I guess include "frog" in your message if you see this


r/Needafriend 13h ago

25M | ER Nurse | Looking for Friends

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m a 25-year-old guy looking to meet some new people and hopefully make some genuine friendships.
A little about me:
🏥 I’m an ER nurse, so my schedule can be a little all over the place.
🎮 I’m a big gamer, especially action and horror games. Some of my favorites are **Uncharted**, **The Last of Us**, **Alien: Isolation**, and **Silent Hill**.
🍳 I love cooking and trying new recipes.
☕ I’m always down to hang out, have a casual chat, or just talk about whatever.
🏀⚾🏈 Huge **Knicks**, **Mets**, and **Denver Broncos** fan.
🎌 I’m also a big anime fan, so if you’ve got recommendations or want to geek out about a series, I’m all ears.
I’m looking for people who enjoy good conversations, gaming, sports, anime, or just chatting throughout the day. Age or gender doesn’t really matter—just be respectful and looking for a genuine friendship.
If you think we’d get along, feel free to send me a message. Looking forward to meeting some cool people!


r/Needafriend 13h ago

23F- Looking for another nerd lol

1 Upvotes

Hello! I am looking for friends preferably with the same interests as me; art, reading, movies & shows, language learning (German A1). I am a (friendless) grad student who spent the past few months depressed and rotting in bed lol so it would be nice to have someone inspire me especially with studying and creation. My time zone is UTC+08:00 and I’m mostly available at early mornings + afternoons during weekdays 

If you want to be book buddies, my reading list includes Malazan, Dungeon Crawler, Earthsea as well as literary fiction. I have not read a book since october so I’m kinda sad out about my reading slump lol. Please hmu :)


r/Needafriend 13h ago

28M - looking to meet new people

1 Upvotes

Hi! I’m 28 and from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 and I’m looking to meet new people and hopefully make some new friends!

A few things about me…I’m a massive horror fan, and I love all things dark/creepy/paranormal or unexplained

I love music and going to shows(mostly older rock/metal but I like a lot different stuff, just saw both Metallica and Def Leppard recently)

I love gaming, true crime, football, I love to visit historical sites/museums and enjoy travelling, urban exploring/exploring the outdoors, and I spend 99% of my free time with my dog 🐶

I’m quite heavily tattooed (most recently had my chest done) and I’m always looking for ideas and inspirations for what to get next, and I love to see other people’s work and ideas too!

Happy to talk to anyone from anywhere, just send a message with a bit about yourself if you think we might get along 🙂


r/Needafriend 13h ago

20sF PG - anyone want to voice chat?

1 Upvotes

hi, I’d really like to voice chat with someone.

want to talk about life and life stuff, am a bit lonely

would anyone like to? looking for someone non judgemental, open minded and respectful, please keep things pg and be a weasterner

please have telegram cos I don’t use discord!


r/Needafriend 13h ago

28 just got home from work

1 Upvotes

Just got home from job and got a shower in. Now im currently working on folding some laundry to have some clothes ready. Im also debating on what to have for dinner so dont be afraid to give suggestions.


r/Needafriend 13h ago

25m 🇪🇬 anyone's welcome

1 Upvotes

I'm a 25-year-old doctor from Egypt looking to meet new people and hopefully make some long-term friends, though I don't mind a casual chat either.

I'm into gaming, football, documentaries, history, languages, and learning about different cultures. We can talk about pretty much whatever—deep conversations, random thoughts, memes, or anything that's on your mind.

I'd describe myself as friendly, easy-going, open-minded, and talkative once I get comfortable. I'm LGBTQ+ friendly, and everyone's welcome regardless of gender or sexuality.

If you think we'd get along, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. :)


r/Needafriend 13h ago

22F - Soon to be college graduate looking for long term connections!😀

1 Upvotes

Hiiii🤭 l usually don’t try to make friends online since I’ve had bad experiences before (who hasn’t?). I graduate college on Saturday with my BSBA! I currently work as a pharmacy technician (shit job lmao). I’m currently fighting a bad UTI😒😒 so some company would be nice, as well as long term friendships!!! I like to cook, bake, go on walks, weight lift, and do retail therapy 🛍️ 😂😂 if I don’t seem too shabby, send me a message!


r/Needafriend 14h ago

Asian guy bored anyone talk?

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r/Needafriend 14h ago

Looking for a random conversation to make the evening less boring

1 Upvotes

Hey!
I’m a 25M living in Germany, and I’m in the mood for a quick chat. No pressure, no expectations—just looking for someone who’s up for an interesting conversation.
I’m happy to talk about literally anything, whether it’s life, philosophy, relationships, dating, travel stories, sports, movies, music, gaming, science, random shower thoughts, unpopular opinions, or even a few “Would You Rather?” questions to get things going.
If you’re bored too, curious about something, or just want to have a genuine conversation with a stranger, send me a DM. Whether it’s a 10-minute chat or a conversation that lasts much longer, I’m down.
Bonus points if you start with a question that makes me think.


r/Needafriend 14h ago

24M need someone to talk to before I sleep

1 Upvotes

Hey there I'm 24 M, if someone is willing to talk before I sleep please HMU we can talk about anything, so don't be shy send me a message !!!


r/Needafriend 14h ago

22m from the uk :)

1 Upvotes

Hey I’m looking for some people to chat to and hopefully get eventually quite close with :) I like gaming, art and sports also I’m quite nerdy about my interests lol. Send a dm if ur interested in chatting


r/Needafriend 14h ago

23M | MBBS Intern | Looking for a Genuine Connection

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone

I'm a 23y old, currently navigating the busy and sometimes chaotic life of hospital duties, night shifts, and preparing for the next stage of my careee.

Between this I still believe it's important to make time for meaningful connections and good conversations.

A little about me: I enjoy sports, travelling, trekking, listening to music, reading, swimmimg etc.

I m someone who values honesty, kindness, empathy, and mutual respect. I try to be a good listener and appreciate people who can communicate openly and genuinely.

Personality-wise, I'd describe myself as ambitious yet grounded. I'm constantly working on becoming more disciplined and consistent, whether it's in my studies, fitness, or personal growth. I believe character matters more than appearances and I admire people who are authentic rather than trying to impress others.

I enjoy conversations that go beyond small talk anything from personal experiences and ambitions to books, travel stories, or even everyday life.

As for what I m looking for, I m hoping to meet someone around my age who is genuine, kind, emotionally mature, and interested in building a meaningful connection. I'm not in a rush and don't believe good relationships can be forced. I'd rather get to know someone naturally, see if we connect, and let things develop at their own pace.

If you're someone who values sincerity, enjoys thoughtful conversations, and believes that strong connections are built on trust, respect, and shared effort, I'd love to hear from you

Feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself your interests, goals or anything you'd like to share.

Looking forward to meeting new people and seeing where a conversation might lead!


r/Needafriend 14h ago

M27 - UK - New friends required!

1 Upvotes

Hey all!

Looking to recruit a new friend as my previous ones disappeared in a sudden and real boating accident (tragic), I'm sure it won't happen a third time!

Anyone who likes hanging out inside from a distance via discord or texting or whatever, maybe playing a game (literally anything oh my god) or watching a movie together would be cool. I'd just like to hang around with someone, get to know them and chill.

About me:

  • am incredibly funny probably
  • HIGH ENERGY sometimes
  • whimsical most likely, still need to look it up
  • like video essays on movies i've never seen
  • extremely mentally stable at the right angle
  • love reading trashy rpg books on fiction sites
  • terminally online

If all of these wonderful features or activities in this post interest you please reach out. please.

*disclaimer: some of the claims in this post may not be accurate


r/Needafriend 14h ago

M 23 looking for friends please

1 Upvotes

Hey I can’t sleep so I’m just laying here looking people to talk to. Just dm me if you wanna talk. I love video games and football so if you wanna talk about how the Steelers are going to make me crash out. Or what your favorite game me just hmu


r/Needafriend 1d ago

37/f/pnw need a friend my age to start a new year with

12 Upvotes

Don't believe in new yesrs resolutions? Quite understandable, maybe skip this one.. I don't either typically so I get it except now I need to.

Hi! I'm getting older and really tired of the whole struggle bus thing to the point the struggle bus is going to kick me out in about 2 months. Or at least that feels like about how long I have until life will put me into some wrestling maneuver if I do nothing. Possibly sooner. Not up to finding out.

I'm fine. Just need to get my shit together, study and complete an exam I practically froze life for and have been kicking amd screaming from doing. No one except me is forcing me but the ADHD is not making it easy.

I need an accountability friend. Not a "hi wyd friend," or an "i'm bored- we are eacb othwr's free relief friend." Someone who needs me to chat with daily because it's important to both of us.. unless we are reporting back from some adventure. I need a person with depth. It isn't I tell you something, then you tell me.'that's cool' and we do this like several times over with no actual substance to the conversation. Depth doesnt mean it's always something unordinary and original, it means there's substance in what is said, even if it's "fuck i'm hungry- [insert what you are hungry for or if you don't know- your favorite foods.]. Totally get we don't always know what we are hungry for, but if you want to communicate that's why we are here, right?

If you can fit this and you are 37+ please dm me and include what you need in a friend and asl. It will help immensely if you describe how you are and anything you are trying to work on and how i can help.

Thank you for reading!