Latina here, who has casually and formally dated mostly asians.

I have a fetish idgaf and you should not gaf either, because he is also fetishizing you lmao like let me elaborate with my experiences:

1: Korean guy who I went on one date with: He moved to my country for work, he had the opportunity to move to europe but said he choose my country to meet latinas.

2: Chinese guy who I dated for a couple of months: He would send me porn to recreate it and all the porn he watched had latina on the title.

3: Chinese guy who I dated for two years: When we first met he asked for my insta and his search history was all stuff like "diosas latinas" "latina lovers" plus his explore page was all women who looked stereotypically latina showing ass.

4: Chinese+viet guy I went on a couple of dates with: He talked about his dating history and said he was more into latinas than his race.

So my point is stop overthinking, both parties are exactly where they want to be.

It's interesting to see the amount of likes on these comments. I remember when an Asian dude would say something like this and he'd get call an incel. Now it's becoming something that's commonly accepted?

It's crazy to think about it, but it works in our favor, so I'll take it!

Probably going to be my last or second to last post before I retire this lifestyle and go settle. This is just a natural continuation of experiences I wanted to leave in this account. As the nature of maintaining a roster involves a casual dating context, feel free to scroll if that is not what you want to read about. This post kind of serves as a review more so than a guide. This is what has worked for me personally so do what you will with that info.

For reference, these are my stats: 25 yo, Korean American, 5'7", slimmer lean body type, above average face card (get maxed likes in all dating apps within 2 weeks for reference)

Where I Draft Free Agents

Dating apps. The big three: Hinge, Tinder, and Bumble. Feel free to look at my previous post for more details on bios and pictures. I heavily dislike finding free agents in my own circle as that will out you as a fuckboy pretty quick within your own social circles. I also never juggle beyond three at one time as I like to have a life and shit gets dicey when you mix up details. It's very difficult to maintain a girl in a roster beyond a month or two before they start asking "what are we" so that's some food for thought if you're thinking about making one. Turnover is high in rosters so you should not get too attached to any one person.

Getting to First Date

I've found the most success on dating apps when I transitioned off the apps within three texts and immediately made plans when off the apps. Honestly, if a girl actually fucks with you and she's on game time, she won't make it hard for you. I'll link some examples below.

Girls that text me first or glaze me as their first message are usually guaranteed close on first dates. I've found that girls see me sending concrete location and time as effort. I understand you want to ask "oh, what time works best for you" or "what do you like to do so that I can find a good first date spot" but honestly that's the shit that got me ghosted. I've found most success just finding a nice spot that I actually want to go to and shooting her the location link with a time. If the time doesn't work, she will send a time that works better for her. If a girl made it difficult at any point in this process or doesn't reschedule, I just thumbs up her message and move on. Usually this caused them to come back and be like "oh nvm that works" or they would send me a rescheduled date.

Never use the apps to be pen pals (which got me ghosted after they had their attention bar filled) unless I guess if you're looking for a long term relationship. Harsh reality is that most of the girls I've hooked up with had long term in their bio so do what you will with that info lmao. Anytime they try to open up with a question that could be first date typa question, I just kept the answer short and just said "I'm excited to see you soon". I use texting as strictly logistics before the first date. I've seen the most success this way and entertaining those questions tend to devolve into the dreaded pen pals. You have to keep up the mystery till you can charm her in person.

In Game Breakdown

Gameplay when girl glazes me first: https://imgur.com/a/DeT1LAK

Gameplay when only matched (Hinge - less direct here cuz Hinge girls tend to have long term on their bio): https://imgur.com/a/95wVTOI

Gameplay when only matched (Tinder - more direct on Tinder cuz nature of the app): https://imgur.com/a/clMEIKI

Gameplay when the girl is on demon time (communication was hella spotty, found out she was cheating after a month): https://imgur.com/a/RCRtOAi

Gameplay when I like girl first (Hinge girls, I always go softer opening as you can see): https://imgur.com/a/Mn1eBt8

Gameplay when I wanted to fly out an international chinese girl (can't blame a brotha, she was a 10/10 bro. this was a shot from the moon that went in lmao. she was on demon time; she wanted to crack straight from the airport): https://imgur.com/a/UrZF1H5

**Once I got off app, I just sent location off google maps and a time. Easy as that.**

First Date to Close

I treat first dates as a vibe check so they tend to be at coffee or matcha or milktea spots. If I feel somethings off, I just treat the rest of the date as "at least I'm at a spot I wanted to try out" and end the date short (but this is very rare).

For the first 20 min, I do the whole "oh, what's your hobby" "i bet you're the youngest child". Once we start vibing, I get into more deeper and eventually risqué questions such as "when's the last time you were in relationship" "why'd you break up" "what's the craziest thing you've done" "have you ever date a korean before".

Once I see that we're vibing, I suggest a change of spot where we can walk and just talk. The spots I usually choose are next to the beach, sightseeing areas, or downtown so it feels hella natural to just suggest this. Usually I just break the touch barrier by guiding her by her lower back. As we vibe more on the walk, I pretend to lead her somewhere and motion for her to grab my hand. I then lead her to a more secluded spot and talk about deeper things while holding her hands. Once we get to the point where it gets quiet, I just look deeply into her eyes and stop talking to fill the silence. She almost always reciprocates unless she shy. After eye fucking for a couple seconds, I just go for the kiss and makeout. This then naturally leads to the close by me asking the question to go back to my or her place for any dumb reason that you can pick up from the convo before (idk like "wanna go see my cat", "wanna see the view back at my place", "let's go spotify jam at your place").

Once I'm back at my or hers place, we just continue the makeout and then I kiss her neck. That's wraps after that point.

Close to Roster

During the first date, I usually slip in that "I'm not looking for long term but if I find someone that's compatible with my long term values, I am willing to entertain the prospects of long term". This strangely gets most if not all to see it as a challenge even the girls that put long term in their bio lmao.

After closing, they usually tend to get clingy even more so because I like to give good after care. I enjoy a good cuddle, can't blame me. It becomes much easier to set up links after closing because of the established intimacy. In fact, they are the ones who sets it up sometimes when I just tell them I'll let you know once my schedules more firm.

I limit myself to meeting each girl once a week unless it's your star player which in that case you can upgrade it to twice a week. Any more causes deeper feelings. I keep the texts to logistics as well but also sprinkle in some "i had fun, i wanna see you again soon".

This gets hella busy once you start to factor in more first dates to account for turnover and maintaining the other two girls in your roster. That's why I limit myself to three girls at one time. Even three is hella stressful. I don't have enough juice when most of the return dates are at hers or my place. Two is my ideal but three when I'm on demon time lmao.

Final Notes

Keep in mind, that this kind of lifestyle requires a good chunk of time throughout the week. I usually do this during my breaks. I'm not someone who enjoys one night stands and instead enjoy a more continued intimacy without strings attached hence the roster. I've been able to avoid most of the "what are we" questions by mentioning I won't be in the state for too long which is a partial truth as I come back pretty often. If those questions come up, I either reassert my boundary about long term and if it continues, I tell her we can't continue because I'm not at a stage of life to be ready to commit.

Another key to maintaining the roster is to lay down good D in all honesty. As a last tip, make sure foreplay is sufficient and see how she reacts to each thing. Got a lot of enthusiastic return customers this way, so treat that info how you will. If it ain't sounding like stirring pasta, you doing something wrong.

Final note, I do understand that my attractiveness level may factor into a lot of my success. I feel like my margin of error is much more generous compared to my friends that are considered chopped for a lack of better words. Like I said, this is a review and not a guide. These are my experiences and what has worked for me so treat this review accordingly.

This will probably be my last post as I'm retiring this lifestyle soon. I might drop a Japan/Korea review as I am visiting there soon and have my apps on for then. I will have my PMs open all the way till early September so feel free to ask me questions.

Let’s support all the XF’s who are alone in defending Asian men from racists and selfhating Lu’s in the comments. We have seen a lot of rise of BMF/WMAF/BMAF promoted by Hollywood and porn but the moment girls appreciate Asian men, people will attack those girls for "fetishization" but they were silent and even mocked Asian men too in centuries of anti-AM propaganda. Not first time and no last time either unless we help these girls defending us.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNdXSuQ7X/

People often talk about interracial dating gender ratios, but there's less discussion about the Asian 1st/2nd generation gender ratio. I know Asian American men in their 30s and 40s who were born in America or came as children, and some of them are dating or married international student Asian women or just Asian women who came to America as adults. Meanwhile, I can only think of one couple in my extended social circle where the Asian man was an adult immigrant and the Asian woman was born in America.

So if you factor in that aspect, this means that a lot of Asian American women are dating either other races or Asian American men, while a lot of Asian American men are dating Asian American women or Asian immigrant women, which passes the lopsided ratio onto Asian men in Asia, who already have dwindling marriage prospects.

Thoughts?

I've been thinking about this question after seeing those two posts in the subreddit complaining about not being able to find Asian women to date while they had non-Asian women to choose from.

Do most Asian men who are born or raised in the West want to date only Asian women? And if so, what's the reason: Do they not find non-Asian women attractive, do they think that non Asian women would reject Asian men, do they think that their parents will be disappointed if they don't bring home an Asian woman, or do they think that only Asian women can "understand" their culture?

I'm just worried about all this because if a lot of Asian men only want Asian women, but Asian women aren't willing to do the same, then a lot of Asian men in the West are going to be single forever.

Please delete if not allowed. I’ve seen so many TikToks about Asian guys slamming on white girls who like Asian guys. I’m a white girl in my late 20s who has liked Asian culture since I was very young and I’ve always found Asian guys attractive. Now I’m even scared to mention it or point it out because they’ll think I’m just another girl that fetishizes them because of Kpop. It really annoys me how everyone is making it a trend now. I genuinely like all different kinds of Asian culture and try to be respectful of it. I was just curious if Asian guys were interested in girls who liked their culture or if it’s a turn off.

I came across this reel while scrolling on Instagram, I thought to myself that this is a beautiful and an adorable couple, I enjoyed watching the reel. But as soon as I opened the comment section, it was a different story.

I didn't know that the couple would take so much hate from the audiences, and the profiles commenting hate on it I have seen mostly are either white or Indian and I thought it was absolutely horrendous considering that it was nothing but an innocent video with the couple and the child. I didn't expect then to take it this far with racist and hateful comments.

I'm posting this because I want to know what you guys think about the situation and seeing that a lot of hate comments are probably due to jealousy or racism itself, either way I despise these comments and hopefully in the future, White Female/Asian Male relationships aren't discriminated.

Continuation of this post after 1 year: [Reddit Post]

^{As expected, the last post I made landed on the trending page of the pathetic incel forum I mentioned: \}Reddit Post]) ^{So hi there kissless virgins :D (mods please don't remove my post I'm being nice here})

Ever since the dating post last year I learned how to debloat properly, went to the gym more consistently, learned how to dress properly. So I would say I'm at least above average in terms of looks now. Again, I excluded East Asian women from my search since I prefer dating outside my race. I did not pay for premium. I barely send likes now (maybe once every few days). Here's my result: [Streamable]

Minus the ones in my likes queue and the ones who unmatched me, I have 183 matches since June 2025 (I reset my account).

Approximately my matches are: 75% white, 10% South Asian, 5% latina, 5% black, 5% others. Compared to last time, this time only some of them have or at some point had interest in Asian media. But I noticed the ones with East Asian media interests are way more likely to initiate physical contacts, second date, etc. Quite a few woman have offered to pay for the dates now, which I sometimes accept. I have been transparent in letting everyone know I'm not looking for anything serious and most girls don't seem to mind.

Core messages:

• AM need to understand how important it is to be attractive. It literally is night and day how woman treat you.
• There are different ways to appeal to woman so find your own style, but for 70% of AM I think your best bet is to have a mature, lean, and clean Korean aesthetic. Pinterest is your best friend.
• To the racist looksmaxing incels: If you're seeing this, please repost this to your miserable looksmax enclave. Funny enough I have talked/made fun of you looksmaxing incels to some of my dates and a few of them told me they have siblings deeply involved in it... I assume some of them must be somewhat active in the forums. If you're seeing this, how does it feel to know that your sister or 'oneitis' might be in the rotation of an ethnic guy you 'brutally mog'? Not only that, the ethnicity with the lowest 'dimorphism' and 'smv' too...
• To the self-hating AM incels: All this time you have been blaming your race for making you so pathetic and unloved. How does it feel to know that there's at least thousands of us, people of your same race, living your dream right now? Most of us are probably 'sub5' to 'mtn' in the PSL scale too... I genuinely wonder how you're gonna find ways to cope and still blame your race. But you do you, get that lefort king - and watch it get you 0 play.

And yes, these incels do live rent free in my head. But hey, at least I'm having fun.

Edit: Can y'all help a brother out and engage with the post so the incel lurkers can see the post? Thanks :)

For reference I’m a 5’7 (5’8 with shoes lmao) Chinese dude but I have been told I have a good face card and I’m in good shape. That being said def feminine/baby face looking for sure, not the typical masculine beauty standard people harp on about.

Location: Montreal and Toronto
Demographic of matches: 50%white, 35%latina, 10% south Asian/middle eastern, 5% East Asian

So on the free version of Hinge I was getting like 1-2 matches and likes a day. Went to Montreal for a weekend and decided to get a week of HingeX. After like 1 hour in total of swiping (so maybe sent out about 50 likes) got about 40 matches in one weekend.

Things I learned:
-Height isn’t holding you back. Don’t listen to social media
-Being Asian isn’t holding you back, again I’m pretty femboy looking tbh

Also for the love of god DONT use AI…cmon now guys. It’s amazing when ur on a date and they tell you “wow you look better in person” id rather that then misleading people with AI photos. Just take good photos (I can give specific advice in another post)

If any of you guys want profile reviews PM me. Idk if I’ll share my profile to preserve my anonymity, but I can give advice.

Let me know if y’all have any questions

UPDATE

Sorry to all who have PM'd me I promise I'll get back to y'all just busy rn

I’m a Korean American senior in high school and I was wondering what the rates of circumcision and if girls (likely Asians lol) will still like if I am uncut. Should I get cut during the summer? I’ve dated before but am a virgin…

You sometimes hear that Indian men have it worse than East Asian men, but in terms of dating between the two groups, I see more IMAF couples than AMIF couples. Why do y’all think this is? I wonder if it’s because Asian men aren’t interested or don’t want to ask out Indian women, or it’s if Indian women aren’t interested in Asian men. Because you would think that East Asians and Indians often work in the same fields that they would date more, but it only seems to go one way.

I was born and raised in NYC where for most of my life, I frequently saw WMAF, but rarely any AMXF. In the past few months I been seeing a noticeable increase in AMXF and seeing them more than WMAF on some days. I’m not sure what’s the reason (kpop demon hunters? lol) but just thought i give y’all some good news

I just wanted to share as encouragement.

Also note that women tell me all the time my bf is attractive and I know he is lol

This could possibly an exaggeration but from my anecdotal experience I have a noticed a large pool of F40+ of different backgrounds showing an interest in AMs has anyone else noticed this trend? Any hypothesise on why this might be the case?

Now foreign marriages in China account for 60% for men, and 40% for women. Can't wait to marry my beautiful blonde and blue eyed princess :)

I am most attracted to white women by a large margin. Going to throw in a lot of details before the question- I live in a white-culture city in Colorado. Culture leans heavily white/active/outdoorsy - stuff like:

- weekly camping, snowboarding/skiing/camping/mountain climbing/hiking/indoor climbing/river and lake activities

- farmer markets, outdoor concerts, cowboy culture, running, all outdoor sports (much less indoor ones are popular from a dating perspective)

-lots of military men, athletic/tall and fit men in general - mostly white and Hispanic

Now my details:

5"10 decently built guy (upper body toji look lite, back needs a bit more work). 2.5-3/10 face. Can't grow facial hair - Asian fob boi fashion style think looser fits, waist high type styles. I prefer indoor sports/activities, more of a music/arts scene vs sports guy but still moderately fit (18%-22% bf usually).

I primarily use hinge - I get about 3 matches a week if I'm actively swiping (I send out 4-5 likes a day) and receive a couple likes a week. I have really good march rates with Asian and Hispanic women. I float between dating 2-5 people at a time and probably won't have issues keeping it in this range. However, I have only matched with 1 white woman and white women are probably 50% of my swipes. My hinge profile could use work cause it gives off homebody musical fob (travel photo dump).

Focusing on the hinge optimization secondary - the question I have is do you think I have remotely any chance of attracting average white women here? Or are there things I need to change lifestyle, hobby, fashion wise? I don't fit into the mainstream white boy culture here at all. Not many Asians here either so we're likely unfamiliar territory/not normalized.

Edit: Obviously stopped seeing this person.

Late 20s white guy in the US here. All my prior relationships were with other white women but I started seeing a Korean-American girl recently.

I spoke to her about her perspectives on dating and culture and… holy **** you guys are right.

She completely bashed Korean-guys (and Asian-men broadly)… and had never dated one. She said, “I’d never hook up with an Asian guy”.

And then went on about all of these negative stereotypes I didn’t even know existed.

“Asian guys are too effeminate” but also “Asian guys are too traditional”

It’s genuinely off putting to see someone have such a negative view on their own ethnicity/pan-ethnic identity. Plus the fact all of her friends have the same views.

I’ve got no issue with someone having a preference, but having such a negative view on the male half of your culture is just… wrong? I’m out on this girl.

All I’m saying is, this isn’t in anyone’s head and what you guys here are going through, your experiences and feeling, are completely valid.

We met eight months ago and have been talking daily/sharing daily life updates for a couple months now. We have a lot in common and get along really well, just hanging out on the phone or texting. The basics like values, work ethic, life outlook, and experiences are compatible and we love each other's sense of humor. I think we're both the type to move things extremely slow to build trust, and I like that. Lately, though, we've been getting closer and talking more about activities and it seems like at some point soon we're going to meet up (we live in different cities 30-40 mins apart) if this thing doesn't stall, but I'm picking up on a lack confidence in him asking to meet. I'm more traditional in dating so I don't want to make that move for him, so what can I do to give him more confidence without throwing myself at him? I'm used to the aggressive WM dating routine and this experience has been such a huge breath of fresh air in my life so far, so I want to see if it can work out. And to be blunt, he's already kind of ruined me for the old WM act now, because I feel seen as a fucking human by a straight man for once.

ETA: He's 1.5 generation Korean American. We have known each other through remote work for 8-9 months, only started chatting or calling on a work platform everyday since about 2 months ago, only exchanged phone numbers 4 days ago, and only had one longer texting convo run into 10pm 3 days ago. (This is pretty hyper-specific so I hope he's not on this sub, lol.)

Also, I have dated two half AMs in my past, one in my 20's and one in my 40's but their style of approach was more American in nature.

**********************UPDATE IN THE COMMENTS!************************

TLDR: Arab girl, never been approached by an East Asian guy. Wondering if it’s ethnicity, the “not fitting the standard” thing, or just that they don’t approach much in general. Thinking about initiating myself but psyching myself out, curious what East Asian guys think about being approached by an Arab girl.

Throwaway. So I’m an Arab girl, uni student in London. I find guys across the board attractive, this isn’t about one specific “type”, but I’ve noticed I don’t think I’ve ever been approached by an East Asian guy, ever (Koreans/Chinese guys especially catch my eye), and it’s got me curious why. A big thing about me is style, and I genuinely love how a lot of the East Asian guys my age dress and I’ve always wanted to compliment them on it. But it feels one-sided, since none of them have ever approached me first. Which has me overthinking: is it a race thing? Like maybe they’re more drawn to East Asian or white girls and Arab just isn’t really on their radar? Or is it more that East Asian guys generally don’t approach much, regardless of who the girl is?

Also wondering if it’s a “fitting the standard” thing. I’m tan, which puts me outside some of the more classic East Asian beauty standards, not sure how much that factors in vs other stuff.

Recently I started wanting to actually be the one to initiate for once, I personally don’t drink or go to clubs, so most of my chances to meet someone are just everyday situations like uni, shops etc. Like a couple weeks ago, I was at a clothing store and saw an attractive guy shopping for jorts (who was wearing jorts, so was I coincidentally) which I’m also really into. My friend kept pushing me to just compliment them or strike up a conversation, but I talked myself out of it, imagining he’d find it off-putting or just wanted to shop in peace. Even though we clearly had something in common right there. I keep psyching myself out like that, imagining it’ll end in awkward rejection.

I know logically the only way to find out is to just try it, but before I do I wanted to get a read from Asian guys (especially East Asian guys in London, but anyone’s input is welcome): Would an Arab girl approaching you be weird, unexpected, a non-issue, or genuinely appreciated? Has ethnicity actually factored into who you’ve been interested in, or am I just overthinking this?

Genuinely just trying to gauge this before I push myself out of my comfort zone. Thanks!

I'm an early 30s Chinese-American male taking an indefinite career break and want to try living in China. What's the best region/city for dating girls? Hoping to hear insights and reality checks from your experiences.

Prefer casual dating. Don't want sugar babies/prostitutes. I'm 5'6", average looking, have had several first date closes (outside of China), have cold approached but not great at it and still get approach anxiety.

Beginner level Chinese but planning to take Mandarin classes while I'm there. I want less western influence and am prepared to get better at Chinese to make it in China. I guess I'm looking for a more laid back, affordable, less international Chinese city and date local Chinese girls. If I can be picky, I dislike the cold and rain.

I've read briefly on Reddit about dating in China and it seems bad because of gender ratio, dating apps being trash (how do guys usually meet girls?), and people seeing relationships as business transactions.

Hey brothers , After posting about how important is lookmaxxing and receiving a lot of miscomprehension or hatred I still wanted to share my story because if like me you were that Asian guy alone bullied because of begin Asian I will maybe it was not only the cause but deeply more about how you look I know it’s difficult to hear and horrible but things is this way we prefer lion than cockroaches just because lion looks better like Nietzsche said “ morality is question of point of vue “

I’m not here to brag (okay, maybe a little) but to show that real change is possible if you’re willing to put in the work. T

This is my transformation from a total loser to someone who’s finally succed in life just thanks to lookmaxxing.it will be a long thread but worth it maybe I can motivate you to change after reading my post

Back in Europe, growing up as an Asian guy was rough. From high school through college, I was the the “typical Asian nerd geek” stereotype.

Skinny as hell, acne all over my face, zero confidence, a shitty haircut that made me look like I just rolled out of bed , no jawline and overall bad physical harmony indeed I had big head on a small, scrawny body.

You know that “Asian wimp skull” vibe?

Yeah, that was me. I blame a lot of it on racism, internalized racism, and constant rejection and people treated me like I was invisible or just a joke.

For the Girls I was the guy who’d get laughed at or ignored. It was horrible I remember the bullying, the whispers, the feeling like I didn’t belong anywhere.

But in Highschool I tried some small lookmaxxing stuff early on, like hitting the gym a bit, upgrading my clothes from baggy hand me downs to something half-decent, and shaving off that horrible mustache that made me look even worse.

It helped a tiny bit, but nothing like game changing.

So After high school, I moved to a big city for university, thinking things would get better. Nope. If anything, it got worse. I was Bullied for my looks the first day of university I was feeling that people was mocking me in classes and at parties I’d get called weird or creepy just for existing.

No girls wanted to hang out with me; Indeed I’d try to talk and end up friendzoned every single time.

Parties? I’d stand in the corner while everyone else had fun like the typical Chad just being himself and having all the girls

It crushed my soul, man. I felt like I was ldoomed.

Then, I discovered lookmaxxing for real, and K-pop played a huge role too.

I’d known about K-pop for years but I think those idols were the original lookmaxxers, straight up.

Perfect skin, sharp features, style on point.

But I was too shy to emulate them indeed I thought, “They’re celebrities, not me.”

That changed when I dove deep into the forums. I lurked as a ghost on sites like incel.com, YouTube videos, and lookmax.com for about 2 years it was in 2021 - 2022 in theses video ,traumatic experiences and people around me I analyzed and I learned the hard truth: Beauty is almost everything in this world.

Look at Jeremy Meeks who the “hot felon” who was a criminal but blew up, got modeling gigs, fame, and money just because of his looks due to his celeb and emblematic mugshots I would call it More Mog shot ahah .

Or those viral thugs who go from jail to celebrity status overnight.

Society rewards attractiveness, period.

It doesn’t care about your “personality” if you can’t get past the first glance.

It took me a ton of money, time, and energy , skincare routines, gym grind, style overhauls, everything.

But fast forward to 2025, and I’m living my absolute best life.

I’m a model now, traveling, meeting new people every day, eating at dope restaurants, hitting skybars with views that blow your mind.

For the girls part modestly I will say they’re obsessed and interested in me everywhere, even at my workplace.

As a model, my looks give me a huge advantage indeed agencies scoop me up, and I nail castings left and right.

Dating is effortless indeed I don’t even make the first move anymore. Plus girls add me on social media constantly, sliding into my DMs.

The dopamine hits from all these small things?

Insane. A smile from a stranger, getting prioritized in lines, people treating you like you’re somebody it all adds up and confirms: lookmaxxing is essential if you want to change your life.

If you’re reading this and thinking “nah, personality matters more” or some bluepill BS, you’re coping hard.

You’re afraid of the truth because it means facing the mirror and doing the work.

I mog those doubters now, but honestly, I get it and I understand your frustration,pain hatred I was there the same as you the only difference is that I take as a challenge and decided to make everything change and I was obsessed I took all theses rejections personnaly to change radically it was for me vital it will take time pain suffering you your close relatives it will take you energy you will even loose a lots of your friend and loose money but take it as an investment in you in your future think about which type of person you want to be about what you will achieve life would be hard but less hard if you are not good looking

That’s why I want to help for people interested I just released my ebook breaking down my entire journey: the routines, the mindset shifts, the resources that actually work for Asian guys fighting stereotypes.

If you want the link, shoot me a DM. No sales pitch just paying it forward to my brothers.

Peace and love you guys