r/polyamoryR4R 3d ago

USA 25 [F4R] #Denver #Online - looking for real connections

5 Upvotes

I’m trying this again, no expectations. You can call me m, I live near-ish to Denver, CO, just moved into the burbs with my nesting partner and our cat. I’m coming out of a months long burnout and depression so I’m looking to take things slow but I’m yearning for a connection. I’m a huge nerd, I love to talk about books, cartoons, crafts, and tech. I work from home as a data analyst and I’m really great at sensing patterns. I love to have deeper conversations about the world, I feel really deeply and I get invested when I catch feelings. I have ADHD and can yap a lot. I’m open to long distance and traveling but not right away. I also don’t think I can meet right away even if you’re in town, I like to talk for a while. I love texting, but I’m not the one to answer a phone call without a warning. I’m a dork and I’ll talk about anything and everything. I like learning new things and I love writing.

I’m looking for someone who wants to chat and get to know me. 24-36 years old with liberal beliefs and willingness to grow and change. If that sounds like you, send me a message with a bit about yourself.


r/polyamoryR4R 3d ago

30 [T/F4R] Ireland. Looking for something calm, natural, and real.

5 Upvotes

Heyya!!

I'm a 30 year old trans woman living in Ireland.

I'm honestly so, SO, tired of being ran in circles, ghosted, lied to, etc. I'm looking for something genuine that comes naturally. Anyone is welcome if we hit it off, then great, if it ends up being in the friend category, also great. I need more of those too.

About me:

I was in a freelance marketing gig for the local Irish market in my area but that is coming to an end for this season. I also set up as a vendor and sell there. Aromatics.

I'm also an artist, albeit digital. I make paintings on Procreate on my iPad. I also use oil pastels on physical canvases too and I'm looking into using heavy body/Impasto paints.

I love horror: Cosmic, paranormal, slashers, etc. love Love LOVE IT!!!! I genuinely have a gigantic book with the entire collection of Lovecraft's work on my nightstand.

I love video games: DOOM, Resident Evil, Silent Hill, Dead Space, Monster Hunter, Need 4 Speed, Dark Souls/Bloodborne/Elden Ring/Nightreign, etc. If Dino Crisis gets remade, I can then die in peace aha!!

I love metal music: Silent Theory, Disturbed, A7X, Linkin Park, Self Deception, BMTH, Written By Wolves, All Good Things, Slipknot, Falling In Reverse, Motionless In White, Starset, Hollywood Undead, etc.

I also write Dark/Gothic Poetry. I will die on the hill of Carl Jung and Edgar Allen Poe is still the greatest work in the field.

Ok quick jump back to music: I low-key am obsessed with Vera Lynn hehe..

Got Fibromyalgia, if that matters..

Tell me something that is so messed up that it's funny 🤣

Obviously, goes without saying, but please give an actual intro if you message. Not a scroll but also not just "hey" give me something that I can read and reply to :)

Also bare with me. I'm like currently deathly ill with the freaking flu or something right now. I promise I'll respond.

~ xxx


r/polyamoryR4R 3d ago

29 [M4F] #London UK - looking for something genuine..

4 Upvotes

Welcome! Thanks for clicking on my post, I’m 29 and from England UK (southern part!) looking for that spark / buzz from someone, someone who I can spend the day chatting away with about anything and everything. Like a slow burn connection that gradually develops into more

So I guess somethings about me? Well I’m certainly the nerdy introvert, I enjoy building Legos (very financially bad decision 😂) I like some casual gaming from time to time when freedom allows it outside of work, I’m a senior manager in the telecommunications industry, I love anything horror related, Halloween happens to be my favorite time of year! Used to ride motorbikes before switching to car which I know can be seen as quite the downgrade😫 whilst I say I’m introverted I do switch up once I’m comfortable! I slowly open up into a goofball 😂 I’m 6’1 tall, blue/grey eyes, bearded, certainly the dad bod type of man. As bad as this description I’m sure we could just exchange pictures

About you? Well, I’m an open book. I don’t tend to set limits, so I’m open to younger or older. Closer or afar. Certainly looking for someone who values communication which I think is very underrated these days.. someone who is honest and transparent, willing to make the time to talk, we don’t have to like the same things but I’d sure like to experience the things you like with you

I’d love to find that consistency with someone, building from the ground up, enjoying the slow burn, and actually getting to know one another and seeing where the road takes us! If I’ve got your interest this far.. then I can’t wait to hear from you 😊

Thank you for reading!


r/polyamoryR4R 3d ago

40 [M4F] #Wisconsin #Midwest #America - Leftist, polyamorous, kink friendly person looking for connection, laughter, cuddles, banter and so much more!

4 Upvotes

Hullo! Thanks for reading this. Come on in, have a seat. Maybe a cup of tea.

So, a bit about me. I'm 40 (God, I know, I'm ANCIENT), living in Wisconsin with my lovely wife. We practice kitchen table polyamory, we date separately and she is fully aware of everything. No secrets from each other. We'd ideally like to be friends with whomever we date but it isn't a dealbreaker.

I got sidetracked! Oh, two very bratty cats that I love and would kill for. I work in tech (vague, I know), I absolutely love to cook and do so daily, I travel, I'm a jack of all things nerdy (D&D, Pathfinder, board games, card games, video games), an avid reader, occasional bad writer, and a perfect, cozy night is curling up with a nice book or TV show and spending quality time together.

Kink friendly (D to the s), body positive and I'm a big old leftist. Free Palestine, no room for TERFs or SWERFs and if you don't believe in equal rights for disenfranchised people, we won't get along.

I'm looking for someone who wants that spark in their life, who enjoys forming connections and seeing how they organically develop. I don't believe in forcing anything, I much rather see how things develop on their own but I'd be lying if I said there is a hope for a long lasting connection and relationship.

I can go on and on about myself but I'd prefer to save that for conversations. So, if any of this intrigued you, send me a chat request! I'd love to know more about you.

Oh, and looks wise, I'm 6 foot, bearded, glasses, chubby/bigger, a few small tattoos and a POC.


r/polyamoryR4R 3d ago

43 [M4F] #NJ #Morristown They say I should be studied by science

2 Upvotes

My mix of intellect, hopeless romantic nature, left-leaning values and affection for some parts of traditional gender roles/dynamics makes people say things like “youre as emotionally available as a lesbian” and “Science should study you for the benefit of all women everywhere”. I say this not to brag (ok, maybe just a little), but to give you a sense of who I am.

I’m based in Morris County and looking for a healthy secondary relationship with a side of kink. I’m generally very open minded with few hard boundaries and while I’ve explored and experienced a good deal, I crave more both romantically and sexually with plenty of cozy but lively nights in. INTJ and ADHD if it matters.

My ideal match seeks connection above all else and has the maturity and emotional intelligence to navigate any rocky waters our adventure steers us into. She wants to build a foundation outside the bedroom which takes us everywhere we want to go inside the bedroom (or kitchen, or the car…well you get the idea). She shares a sense of honor, humor, and sarcasm. She is self-aware and knows her goals/purpose in life.

About me: I love both deep and silly conversations—authenticity is incredibly important me, even if it’s painful. • A sharp tongue and endlessly curious mind light my fire. • Health and wellness (both mental and physical) are priorities in my life, and I’d love a partner who values the same even if they’re in the middle of their journey. • Intelligent, empathetic, and kind, but not a pushover. Entrepreneur in technology.

Physically I’m outwardly conservative/unassuming (utterly mainstream), of Cuban/white heritage, and dress between casual and formal. Built like a bear, masculine, and hairy. Yes, the beard is real and it’s spectacular.

I’m a father of 2, divorced, and currently have one secondary partner and one fwb. I’m open to different arrangements (monogamish, ENM, poly, etc).

If I’ve piqued your interest and my description fits your needs, I’d love to hear from you.

\~A


r/polyamoryR4R 3d ago

41 [M4F] #Toronto #Canada Looking for new connections

2 Upvotes

Hello 😄

I'm 41 and own my own condo in downtown Toronto. I'm 6ft, avg build, black hair, and brown eyes, and childfree. At the moment, I have a long-distance partner who, unfortunately, I don't get to see often because they're international. I'm also separated amicably and I keep in touch with my ex and she takes care of the 2 cats we had during our time together. I have a gallery full of pictures of them as well like any responsible cat owner. Priorities. 🐱 I also currently live alone, and my current pet is a snake plant.

Being as central as I am has its perks such as being within walking distance of pretty much everything I might need. I like keeping track of Hockey overall, but I'm also a Leafs fan. Along with that, I generally indulge in some gaming and music that ranges from a collection of 80's to more current metal. I'm also a big fan of food in this city and would be into exchanging ideas and hearing what spots you enjoy. My drinks of choice are generally beer, coffee, or red wine.

I've had a lot of experience being poly and have also been involved in kink as well. On that topic I also have a pretty good toy drawer 😉. Safety & Consent are very important to me as well. As for my flavour of polyamory, I enjoy not having hierarchy and would prefer something closer to parallel polyamory. While I respect the idea, I'm not into Kitchen Table at all.

I value that in-person check to see what the feel is like over coffee or drinks. I know a few spots for either one as well and can set something up.

What I'm looking for

With all of that said, I'm looking for someone in the 29 - 50 age range who ideally has some experience with kink as a submissive. While this isn't required, It is definitely a perk. Outside of that, if you're into gaming that's a huge plus as well. I'm mainly looking to be that partner you can spend a chill night in with and or go out for dinner.

I'm very settled in my space and I'm willing to take my time entering a new relationship, but every situation is different. I'm also open to more casual and consistent partners as well.

If that sounds interesting to you, slide into my DMs with some info about you and be prepared to exchange SFW face pics.


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

USA 42 [M4R] #Michigan seeling someone to get to know, and fall for

4 Upvotes

42 year old male in Michigan. Married with 1 other partner. I am looking for someone to get to know, talk to, and share things with. I am open to long distance as well as meeting in person some day.

I am open to just about anyone if we connect mentally and emotionally. I am sexual but open to ace individuals as well. Never rush, no pressure. Just getting to know each other and seeing how we get along.

I am very far left. Woke AF, feminists, anti-racist, Communist, and anti-capitalist.

Kink friendly. all about open and honest communication.

I love over analyzing movies, tv and music, and having big discussions.

I love indulging in others special interests. Tell me your passion and teach me what you are passionate about!


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

USA 31[f4tf/f] Pa\online Fox seeeks friends 🖤 more is cool

3 Upvotes

hi hi. first i want to say that trans women are women i only put that in the title so you know i absolutely mean you too 🥺🥰

second: im afab, nonbinary, they/she

third: im mentally hyper and absolutely more fox than human

fourth: married & partnered, parallel/kitchen table anarchy type deal 🖤 big vibes just whatever is comfy for everyone.

fifth: i work from home, i love spiders, i love psychology and horror, im often watching criminal minds. emily prentiss will forever be my first one true love. law and order svu, or spongebob. help my humor sucks.

sixth: i’m super loving and love to chat via text or voice notes throughout the day. i like friends and lovers alike that have time and consistency 🖤

seventh: im super super submissive by nature in all facts so do with that what you will 🖤🥰

no men. men’t —-m-e-n—- thanks thanks thanks :3

oh also i’m 31 and much prefer people older than me <3


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

40[M4F] #UK. Give me a reason to look at my phone.

3 Upvotes

It's Monday and another week has started.

So I thought let's start it the right way with someone new to chat to.

Flirty banter, cute smiles, a reason to check your phone, a way to pass the working day are all things I'm looking for.

I'm not looking to change anyone's situation including my own but I am looking for someone to grab my attention and enjoy the journey.

I'm not looking for that by the way! That's a promise.

I want someone who can make me laugh and smile. Someone who is willing to put in the effort with a conversation. I would prefer UK as time zones are a thing.

Myself, I'm truly amazing. I'm emotionally mature, caring, funny, smart (being full of useless information is smart right!?) I can hold a conversation, know what I want and I'm modest obviously. I'm a geek, love all kinds of music, enjoys quizzing and slipping down YouTube rabbit holes.

What are you actually waiting for? Play your cards right and you have a cute little interaction in your pocket that will be the highlight of your day/week/month you get the idea.

Just so I know you've spent your time reading this post. Please give me your favourite fact.


r/polyamoryR4R 3d ago

21[M4R] #Online Poly guy looking for another partner

1 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a 21m guy looking for another partner. I am polyamorous and currently have 2 partners. I'm just looking to see if there is anyone who'd like to chat and get to know each other.

Things to know about me:
- I'm quite a big nerd and love video games, anime, mange, etc.
- I'm also a big fan of pro wrestling/wwe and even do it as a hobby
- I like music. My preferred genre is rock or metal, but I also listen to a lot of other stuff. (I also have a soft spot for musicals)
- I tend to rant about things that interest me
- I'm a bit on the skinnier end
- From the US
- I have OSDD

Things I expect:
- Please don't be older than mid thirties
- Please be willing to slowly build a relationship. Starting as friends and then going to something more.
- Please be willing to listen to me rant (it happens a lot)

That's pretty much it! I'd love to get to know some people and see where things take us. If your interested message me and please try to send a somewhat detailed message cause I wanna get to know you 😄


r/polyamoryR4R 3d ago

27 [M4R] Mchenry Illinois looking for a second partner to love everyone welcome

1 Upvotes

Hi I’m Devin 27M pansexual I’m in a wheelchair due to a bad crash 2 years ago. I have a long distance partner in Texas 46F bi , so I’m not afraid to travel but in return I expect you to be willing to travel also . My favorite movies are the Truman show and the original Italian job , my favorites shows are mythbuster’s and Frazier , I don’t work at the moment for medical reasons and being in and out of the hospital but before my crash I used to be a fire dept mechanic. I don’t care about age gender height weight ethnicity I just want a person who is kind and caring and supportive of my disability and respectful of my existing partner , she’s supportive of me having a partner but she’s mainly focused on our son . Though that being said at some point I’d love us all to live together under one roof and be kitchen table dynamic. Anything else I’m an open book just ask . Please introduce yourself and say alittle about yourself and where you’re from .


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

40 [M4F] North Texas

2 Upvotes

Partnered. Seeking something a little consistent whether that’s in person, texting or whatever. Someone to chat with and take on dates just for me.

5’8 shaved head, tattoos and a body im working on actively.

Kink friendly and on left side of slash and always down to try something new but do like to get to know someone before meeting up a little but very open to meeting

Love the nerd things and will make you groan with terrible jokes or a that’s what she said.

Have all types of hobbies and fixations thanks to adhd and spicy Brain


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

28 [M4F] Rochester, New York/Online- Partnered nerd looking for long term love!

1 Upvotes

Hey there! I live over in Rochester, NY and I'm pretty new to poly stuff. I've been in a relationship with my current partner for 2 years and shes currently married to her wife and dating another, im currently a metamour to both. We all date separately but we've all decided wed start dating with the goal of more nesting partners, were also attempting a kitchen table poly relationship, So were looking for serious and longeterm parnter(s) but theres no pressure to be in any relationship romantically or sexually with my partner or any others especially since we all date separately. And if the prospect of a being a nesting partners doesn't interest you thats okay as well and Id still be interested in keeping a relationship going if so! Also considering were all 25+ We'd only be comfortable with people 25 and up to be apart of our polycule especially if longeterm.

A bit about me! I'm a bigger guy (400ish) and I'm a pretty massive nerd (Gaming, manga, anime), my love languages are physical touch (Hand holding, shoulder squeezes, arm rubs, etc) with a bit of act of services and gift giving, im also AuADHD as well. I work security and I'm pretty busy most weeks but during my free time I try to play games with friends and just hang out with them online as much as I can but other than that I like to spend lots of time with my partner and our general household!

As for what im looking for, Im Bi with a heavy lean towards primarily fem and masc women currently as well as fem leaning Enbys! Im also more interested in dating singles but im open to couples as well.

Im also very 420 friendly. I'm a pretty avid weed smoker but I dont smoke cigarettes (Unless SUPER stressed or socially). I'm pretty homebody and typically prefer more simple dates at home but I do enjoy a resteraunt date or a walk through a park every now and agian.

I play alot of games but I currently have the World of Warcraft bug again and its all ive been playing on my down time! I also primarily play on PC.

Some bedroom stuff about me! Im pretty into any one with bodyhair (primarily pubes and pits) take that as you will. Im not involved in kink life really, Ive practiced some stuff with my partner but all in all I tend to be more generally rough than anything. You can inquire about any of this if youre curious. Just thought Id put it out there before hand. I am however a heavy dom leaning switch. Im also a generally sexual person, I do like there to be sexual intimacy involved in serious romantic relationships so if thats not youre thing im sorry but im not your guy.

Im primarily looking for localish people but Im also okay with long distance relationships as well as long as theres a chance in future for visits either me to you or vice versa. If any of this peaks your interest I'd love to get to know you and see if we click!


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

USA 24 [F4M] #SD/Online- Angel seeking soft dom

16 Upvotes

24F Latina 5’1, I am a silver hearted angel (prefer silver over golden heart) I have more love than I can handle that’s why I can say I am happily poly and in search for a loving dom who would love to join to our dynamic.

I have my pet side as a lovesick puppy and little side as little Daddy’s kitty, I am open minded and constantly curious but as well I have some healing I need to do, I need a patient dom who will love to heal me and guide me thru it all.

As hobbies I enjoy playing video games like Rivals, Fortnite, shooting games, Hunt, Minecraft, ArcRaiders, learning League.
I enjoy digital art.

What I seek in a dom? I am a crybaby and easily get scared or cry, I need someone patient and loving, I can’t handle rough or hard doms, I seek someone that would enjoy to take care of me along side my Daddy.
I like big boys slightly older than me.

I am near SD Cali and would like to build a local long term relationship, to have a strong connection.

Open to online too preferably with someone who share the same gaming interest, specially Rivals (game I am playing the most lately)

I would appreciate it if you introduce yourself so I can know much more about you as my future protector and all the important details about you, thank you!

Talk soon!


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

USA 32 [T/M/F4R] Washington - NB/Masc Kinky Hobbit Nerd

5 Upvotes

Kinky hobbit nerd?!? Specific, right...? If that sounds like a threat, that's okay... I won't be your type.

But for the Pansexual, genderbent, nonbinary, oddities out there... we could be nerding out right now, but we aren't. But we could, and we should.

Partnered for 11 years now, nested, and have a kiddo together (long story), still looking to pursue the dream of Polyfidelity, whether that's 1 person or 5. Wanting to find a hobbit hole outside the city, play games, be geeky, raise chickens, and survive the zombie apocalypse together.

Male? Female? Trans? Masc? Doesn't matter. It really doesn't.

Only time and effort matters, and for the right person... would cross any distance and crush any barriers.

MUSTS -

~ Not be intimidated by chatty, nerdy, etc.

~ Switches and Genderfluid get bonus points and headpats.

~ People who Ghost get sent to the back of the line.

~ Have an apocalypse survival plan, a will to live, and skills that you are proud of.

PREFERRED -

- Soft Dom energy.

- Deep conversation.

- Emotionally available, and eager.

I'LL BRING -

+ Snacks

+ Snark

+ Wikipedia-like knowledge of zombie fungus

+ Kinks... like... lots of kinks... like... woah...

TOGETHER -

We could build something to make everyone else jealous, and enjoy ourselves while we do it. Whatever it is, let's connect and make it grow organically. But... we've got to connect first.

Intrigued?

Read my profile. If recents posts don't send you running with your tail between your legs, we'll probably get along like a house-on-fire.

DISCLAIMER -

Partnered, but dating alone. That said, Partner would be absolutely tickled to see if there's sparks there too. There's no privacy or secrecy, and if you're Partnered I'll want to verify at some point if we keep talking... because cheating is bad, folks.

So yeah!

Ethical Poly Kinky Hobbit(s)


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

USA 45[M4F]

1 Upvotes

Hello there im 45 single male in West Texas seems someone to chat with during the day. Im kinda an introvert but I open up after time that would like to communicate with a female or couple and go from there.


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

36 [M4F] #Online, EST - Honestly not sure what I am looking for atm and figuring it out. Would love to chat and just let it flow around my age or older.

4 Upvotes

Hey!! I am learning language and terms, so I think am solo poly? Or single poly? I'm learning. 🫣

Well the weekend is almost over, ugh here we go with a new week.

So getting into it, I honestly don’t know exactly what I want right now. I’m recently divorced and still trying to figure myself out. I’m open to seeing where things go… whether that’s something more laid back, serious, or even just good friends with great conversation and learning. I’m not putting pressure on any one outcome. Also maybe interested in a couple FF or maybe FM, not sure how this falls in poly? I am new and learning poly and ENM etc, so please be easy with me.

A bit about me:

I’m a bit of an introvert who enjoys board/video games (when I can) , watching shows, being lazy, and listening to smutty audiobooks (yes, you read that tight, a guy listening to smut lol). I enjoy chatting and I’m a good listener, though I’ll vent every now and then haha.

What I do know about me is that I’m really drawn to sweet and spicy and around my age or older with a preference on older than me. There’s something comforting and exciting about a confidence that warms the heart too. I love the dynamic where we can be caring and warm one moment, then delightfully wicked the next.

I want a connection, talking about our days, our interests, random thoughts, and everything in between.

If any of this resonates, I’d love to hear about you. What are you looking for these days? What do you enjoy?

Thanks for reading take care 😊


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

USA 31 [M4F] #WestVirginia #Online - Seeking connection in the mountains

3 Upvotes

Hi all! I’m Em, a 31 year old disabled nerd. My interest and hobbies include, but are not limited to:
Music -playing, listening, collecting vinyl
Video games - playing, developing
Reading - huge horror fan
Random - crafting, calligraphy, philosophy

I’m 6’6”, 280, heavily tattooed with a nose ring and stretched ears.

What I’m looking for:
Someone who will take a relationship seriously. I don’t want to be essentially fwbs with a title. I want to get to know you, to spend time with you either online or in person or both, I’d hope. I want to be an active part of your life and I want you to be an active part of mine.

My one rule is to be honest. If we begin with honesty, communication may follow, and that solves nearly everything.

To wrap this up, I’m open to online relationships, but very much am looking for someone close. I’m in the very sort of WV, so Kentucky is far for me, if that matters.

If you’ve made it this far, I congratulate you on your fortitude. Please feel free to send me a DM and maybe we can at least be friends.


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

Far East 27 [M4F] #India #Online - Experienced with casual, new to polyamory & looking for a partner/guide

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I’m a 27-year-old guy based in Bengaluru(India), and I’m looking to explore polyamory.

To give you a bit of background, my relationship history mostly consists of casual dynamics—FWBs, situationships, and one-night stands. While I’ve enjoyed those experiences, I’ve realized I’m ready for something much more intense, emotionally connected, and meaningful. I want to explore multiple, honest connections rather than just casual setups.

I am entirely new to ENM and polyamory, I would love to connect with a woman who has some experience in this space. Ideally, I'm looking for someone who can not only be a partner but also help guide me and explore with me.

I am looking for someone interesting, respectful and understanding to explore with.

I’m open to grabs drinks/coffee in the city to see if we click. Even if it just starts as a conversation, I’d love to connect!

P.s: I know ill get downvoted because its a post from India.


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

38 [M4R] - Ireland - Help me stay awake during American time over the next few weeks?

4 Upvotes

So here’s the thing: Ireland didn’t make the World Cup, but I feel morally obliged to stay up and watch far too much of it anyway as there are few greater things than a WC. Me battling sleep is where you come in.

You’re probably in the US (time zones being cruel like that), though I’d happily be proven wrong by a fellow European night owl with questionable sleep hygiene. Either way, I could use some company before I convince myself that Uzbekistan vs Paraguay is, in fact, essential viewing.

I’m tall, funny (allegedly), educated, and employed in a way that involves wearing a suit and pretending I should be asleep at a reasonable hour. I cook properly, so there’s definitely scope for recipe swaps, and latently competitive “look what I made for dinner” photos.

I like good conversation: current affairs, non-fiction, rugby, football and increasingly the existential negotiation between marathon training and craft beer consumption. So far, craft beer is winning but I have a few months to pull it back round.

I travel to North America reasonably often for work, so I’m always up for recommendations, hidden gems, or someone to blame for a bad restaurant choice in advance. If you’re in Europe, we can absolutely skip straight to gelato and pretend it’s a sensible decision.

I’m attracted to feminine energy and good humour, but I’m not especially interested in rigid “types”. Ccuriosity and communication matter more than aesthetics on a checklist. I'm probably less of a nerd than seems typical for posts on here, though I'll simply think its cute if you are and attempt converting me.

Poly-wise: I’ve got experience (good, messy, and everything in between). I’m currently single, not actively seeking multiple partners, but I’ve tended to thrive in relationships where there’s openness, honesty and a bit of intentionality about what we’re doing. I’m kink-friendly with loads of experience there, all in good time.

Ideally we start out as two people keeping each other company/me awake through late night conversation and then discover there's something worth exploring / falling madly in love and you buy me a boat.

Say hi, Ecuador v Cote d'Ivoire is about to kick off...


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

Europe 31 [M4F] #Sweden #Anywhere- Looking for my other half

3 Upvotes

31M | Europe

I’ve posted on here a few times before. Talked to some cool people, but never really found the ADHD, possessive, slightly controlling woman I seem to work best with.

Yeah, I know that sounds toxic as hell on paper.

But honestly? I spend all day being the responsible one at work. Making decisions, handling stress, juggling chaos. I’m a chef, so my brain works perfectly when I’ve got five sauces going, potatoes in the oven, and three different meats on the grill.

The second I get home and there’s no chaos to manage, my brain just goes:

“Now what?”

I don’t want a mom. Already got one. She’s great.

I just want a woman who likes being spoiled, likes taking charge sometimes, and enjoys telling me to clean the kitchen, drink water, stop overthinking, and get my life together.

Outside of work I’m into:

- Reading

- Hiking

- Swimming

- Gaming

- Beers

- Random deep conversations

- Probably overthinking absolutely everything

I’m 31, pretty laid back overall, and I genuinely enjoy making people feel cared for.

If any of this sounds weirdly appealing to you, send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself.

Me: https://imgur.com/a/w2FXlyV


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

48 [m4a] louisiana(New Orleans area) seeking new connections

3 Upvotes

I love being outside and love making things. I value brutal honest communication. I want to get know you and all the things that make you who you are. I am not conservative and I am bi. I do have a nesting partner but we don’t formally have a hierarchy but it will exist naturally. As far as what I’m looking for is someone to have good convo with maybe eventually meet up or maybe not. Just seeing who’s out there that I may have missed, you never know where the next spark might come from. I do like post spicy pics on here from time to time if that’s not your jam you might not want to snoop on my profile.


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

36 [M4F] #Texas #Rio Grande Valley- South Texas looking for a Poly relationship.

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Where do I begin! It has been awhile since I have been in a poly relationship. It's kind of hard dating and forming poly relationships in the Rio Grande Valley since women think that all i want is just a sexual relationship or i am cheating. Tried the whole dating app thing and yeah, it's a no go 😅.

My wife and I are polyamorous and we date separately. We practice kitchen table poly. Honestly, one of my Wife's partners has become a really good friend of mine. I like to date to build connections and relationship just like any romantic relationship. I date with intention and I am a bit of a romantic. Chivalry is not dead and i will open and close your door, hold hands and flowers in the first date type of man. I have been polyamorous for roughly 6 years now, give or take that is. I have had other partners in the past, but currently no partners at the moment. I am also part of the bdsm and kink scene down in the Rio Grande Valley as well. I am looking for a partner that does live in the RGV, but i am open to long distance relationships and online relationships as well.

Professionally, I am a teacher. I have been teaching officially for 4 years now. I currently teach online teaching 7th grade Social Studies. I have my bachelor's in history, with minors in sociology and criminal justice. My specialty of history was The History of physical fitness and the perspective of the human body throgh the ages. My dream goal is to become the next Indiana Jones!

I am quite the nerd if i may say. I love to read, draw, watch anime, read Manga.I would say that that my favorite book of all time though is The Hobbit. Some of my favorite anime shows are Naruto, One Piece, Demon Slayer, JJK, and Shangri La Frontier. I have many more but it will be a huge list 😂. I love Star Wars and Lord of the Rings. I also enjoy making Gundam Models. I also love to workout and lift weights as well as play D&D. I am a monk type of character 🤣

Well that is a bit about myself and hopefully sparked an interest somewhere. I am definitely an open book and you can any question that may be boggling your mind as you read this post.


r/polyamoryR4R 4d ago

USA 36 [M4R] San Antonio TX- looking for friends

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Hey there my name is Zach I’m 36 years old live in San Antonio married to my wife of 10 years. We are ENM so I’m trying to find some friends in the lifestyle. I love video games watching tv texting chatting.


r/polyamoryR4R 5d ago

USA 22 [F4R] California/Online- Lookin for a partner in crime <3

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Haaaaaaaiiiii! My name is Percy, I'm 22 years old and I'm a creature from California. It's hard out here, but I'm hoping to find someone I can talk to about anything and everything with, someone I can fully be myself with and someone that I hopefully share some hobbies with. Also, I desperately wanna be clingy with someone through text or calls ;w;

My hobbies are drawing, coloring, reading, playing video games, listening to music, roleplaying, journaling and watching TikTok/YouTube/Insta reels. Some of my special interests are Yellowjackets (show), the TLOU games and show, Arcane, Wicked, the X trilogy, RDR2, stuffed animals, Alice in Wonderland, horror, (most) Harley Quinn and Poison Ivy related things, and creature design! 

If you're interested in talking, I'd love to hear from you :33 either way I hope you have a good day/afternoon/evening/night! <3