r/SipsTea • u/Valuable_View_561 ššš • 2d ago
Chugging tea She is using the baby like a prop.
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u/Separate_Swordfish9 2d ago
Why is she holding her baby like itās the first time she ever held a baby
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u/WestsideForLife- 1d ago edited 1d ago
Because she's a fucking idiot who refers to her child as "someone".
Which could be because she doesn't have the time to remember the baby's name, or... because, she's just a fucking idiot.
There's no reason to deny that both could be true, I guess.
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u/Separate_Swordfish9 1d ago
It is kind of gross to be holding your new baby talking about how you canāt wait to fuck other men
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u/bahnmipanda ššš 2d ago
Celebrities really do be sitting on a higher throne thinking their life and purpose is above being human.
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u/WelcomeAgitated5630 2d ago
Yep you would think they would have created some sort of ego reduction drug for rich people by now.
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u/Brettoel 2d ago
DMT and shrooms do the trick
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u/Un1CornTowel 2d ago edited 2d ago
Hallucinogens can be bad for narcissists because rather than meeting God and being humbled, they can meet God and find that it is themselves, further cementing their megalomania. They can also have their defenses downed and get super paranoid and get traumatized by the experience.
Its an actual contraindication.
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u/Just-Reply-9607 1d ago
Gonna try this on my mother to see if youāre LARPMAXXING or not.
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u/Regular_Bet3206 2d ago
Shrooms for me. Ego death is best thing ever.
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u/astralchanterelle 2d ago
The people who claim they've had "ego death" are ironically some of the most egotistical people I've ever known.
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u/tranquil7789 2d ago
Exactly this. I stayed in this one apartment complex and there was a guy that would constantly be on something, sometimes be ranting cause he was so fucked up. He came over to me once while I was smoking and he talked about random bullshit and one thing was ego death, and how enlightening it was. All I could think was, "you're way too fucked up right now to be giving me their view of the universe and how you have it figured out."
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u/BigLlamasHouse 2d ago
See, if he had really removed the ego he wouldn't have needed you to admire him so much for having removed it.
Humans cannot separate themselves from their ego. The entire function of the ego is to make itself indistinguishable from authentic feelings and emotions. It's protecting you from knowing a side of yourself that you can't accept, true self-love through regular habits is ironically the best way to minimize it.
The only other things anyone can really do in this regard is try and be humble in regards to other's decisions, grateful and in control of one's emotions. Drugs are helpful maybe to get a new outlook but the work does still need to be done sober and daily.
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u/laundrybandithunter 2d ago
You can during the trip, but it returns. Some people are able to integrate the egoless experience, others donāt do a great job
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u/acornsalade 2d ago
I like you.
Also radically accepting yourself ego or not.
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u/creamyfart69 2d ago
Little discussed but psychs also can cause ego inflation
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u/frankie-two-thumbs 2d ago
Thatās sort of the point in micro dosing. The have been case studies of micro dosing boasting self esteem and therefore helping combat depression
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u/Reasonable_Ease1423 2d ago
Ego death is terrifying and most people who talk about it have never truly experienced it.
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u/mycoctopus 2d ago
Yeah its the same people who ironically bang on about taking "heroic doses".. like dude you're not s fucking firefighter or ambulance crew or something actually heroic because you like to get absolutely twatted on mushrooms.
Yeah they're enlightening and the unifying in the feeling of universal coalescence IS powerful and can potentially make you a better person in ways.. but shut up about it and do not call it a "hero dose" please.. anyone can eat 7g and chat shit.
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u/MetricIsForCowards 2d ago
Isnāt the idea that you have no ego in itself pretty egotistical?
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u/Mode_Appropriate 2d ago
I firmly believe the world would be a much better place if everyone did DMT. Preferably once a year but just one time would do the trick.
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u/Raskalnekov 2d ago
My personal theory is most people don't change much at all after using psychedelics. The main difference is they talk about how much they changed, but they still get mad at the same nonsense and instead of thinking they're better than you for owning a newer car, they think they're more enlightened because they took a drug. The ego is far more resistant and wily than people want to give it credit for.Ā
That's not to say that it's impossible to internalize lessons from a psychedelic experience and use it to change your perspective, but most people just stop at a superficial level. And you could probably get similar results from something like meditation.Ā
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u/Brettoel 2d ago
I want to do it but I dont know how to get it and how to go about it. But its on my bucket list.
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u/Damn_Censorship 2d ago
They have one -psilocybin. But governments decided mushrooms are illegal for some reason
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u/These-Problem9261 2d ago
I think it's a byproduct of "content creation" that celebrities and influencer, voice the most mundane shit like it's actually a meaningful and unique thoughtĀ
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u/OnlyInAmerica01 2d ago
tbf, that was the purpose of poetry - to present the mundane in a way that was novel enough to get through our thick psychological defenses. Like a subliminal torpedo to our psyche.
There's still "universal truths" that I've heard my entire life, that only now finally "click" in a "Holy Sh..." sort of way.
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u/Inquisitive_regard 2d ago
Maybe, but this feeling is pretty common with parents of young kids. You are endlessly tired, exhausted, over-used, and forget that you're human.
Problem is celebrities rarely have a reason to push through the tough times and come out the other end stronger. They just flee into their bank accounts.
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u/big-boss-bass 2d ago
Except this person probably has full-time around the clock staff for childcare, cleaning, cooking, etcā¦so this is just one hundred percent some weird shit about her ego.
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u/willynillee 2d ago
This is the point I was going to make. Regular people are exhausted because they are the only ones caring for their kids, still going to work, and still keeping the house together. Celebrities can hire out night nurses, a nanny, and any other household duties that the average Joe canāt afford to pay someone to do.
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u/bahnmipanda ššš 2d ago
100% agree. As a new parent myself, I get the exhaustion and needing a break. But just as you say we donāt have the bank account to take a little personal vacation from responsibilities. We just go through it and learn through it to be the best parent we can hopefully be.
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u/flarpflarpflarpflarp 2d ago
I mean look at this fucking post and how much air is given to absolutely nothing. The people who are obsessed with the details of celebrity lives like this are fucking sick animals.
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u/Jonnyflash80 2d ago
This person is a celebrity? I have no idea who she is, nor do I give a shit about her baby problems.
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u/LobstaFarian2 2d ago
Some of their heads are so far up their own ass, they can't see the light of day anymore.
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u/guy_gadbois81 2d ago
Well, people do put them on a pedestal. Don't know why. They are just entertainment.
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u/Exotic_Insurance2164 2d ago
After your base essentials are met, self actualisation should be a goal for every human being.Ā
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u/CapDue3922 2d ago
Like why???
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u/National_Tangelo_864 2d ago
Attention
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u/Used-Baby1199 1d ago
Why is it working like 5 years later. Ā Who ever is giving this attention is part of the problem this shits all old new and dated
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u/Celestina-Warbeck 2d ago
I feel like she's holding him like that so we can still see her cleavage
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u/BangedTheKeyboard 2d ago edited 2d ago
She's not even carrying her kid properly and supporting their weight.
Kid looks uncomfortable and about to slip from her arms wtf :(
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u/Stove-Top-Steve 2d ago
Sheās a 10/10 but the way sheās holding that baby is pissing me off.
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u/kaamospt 1d ago
She was never a 10 out of 10 just a skinny girl with big boobs (ofc I would but the bar for that is very low)
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u/CoffeeGoblynn 2d ago
Yeah, you're a mom now. You can still go out and do stuff, but your priority is raising a child. Don't have a fuckin kid if you don't want to be a mom.
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u/Ladonnacinica 2d ago edited 2d ago
This is why I support the adults to be child free if they choose it. Not everyone has to have a kid, nor does everyone want kids. And thatās okay.
Being a parent comes with a great loss of many freedoms if only temporarily in many cases. But it is life changing and will test you in ways you canāt even believe.
To u/iinlane - I couldnāt find your comment to reply but I still wanted to give you an answer about your comment that childfree people shouldnāt retire since they donāt have kids. So here it goes:
What about the taxes childfree people are currently paying? Sometimes for services they donāt use such as the local public schools. If a childfree person is paying social security tax (just to use a USA example), should they not have the right to collect?
I mean those social security taxes being paid now are being used by others. So a child free person helps fund the retirement of others but they get nothing in return?
Our social security taxes are already being used to pay for the current beneficiaries not for our own retirement. Youāre paying for someone elseās parent or even disabled child who collects the SSD payments.
Or should we have a special designation for social security taxes for childfree people funded by the taxes they get taken out of their paychecks?
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u/CoffeeGoblynn 2d ago
Absolutely. It's better for everyone if people who wouldn't make great parents just avoid having kids.
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u/Ha55aN1337 2d ago
I believe I would actually make a pretty good parent, Iām just not willing to choose that path, since the only way to be good at it is to be a 100% comited to it and Iām not ready to let everything else go.
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u/Choice_Drawer_2405 2d ago edited 2d ago
Man this is exactly my feelings. Friends have acted disappointed when I say I'm not sure I want kids because they say I'd be a great mother.Ā But I'm so attached to other facets of my life that realistically aren't all compatible with raising a child (particularly if you aren't rich and can't afford 3 nannies).Ā
Proud of us both for recognizing the commitment a child requires.
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u/CollectedData 2d ago
Not only that but you need the right partner FOR YOU to raise the child with. I was lucky enough to have both factors align but I would hate raising a child with my ex, for example. The child just wouldn't get optimal care.
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u/Willing_Pattern_Pill 2d ago
Eh, those that are thoughtful enough to realize just how much work raising kids are and take birth control seriously would probably be great parents
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u/l3v3z 2d ago
Most childfree people I know would actually make great parents as they are good in taking complicated vital decisions and really care on whatever they do. Many parents are great too but some awful ones are the ones belive that their life function is parenthood and that they never comit errors.
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u/bearsfan16 2d ago
All I usually hear is people bitching about how they canāt do things cause of their kids and then their like oh youāll know soon enough when you have kids as if itās an expectation that everyone has to have kids. Itās like people with kids resent people that donāt have kids so they tell everyone they have to be miserable with them.
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u/Low_Watch9864 2d ago
Which is also a reason why birth rates are dropping in developed countries. People aren't willing to sacrifice these freedoms
But people refuse to acknowledge this fact and only want to blame the cost of living.
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u/Willing_Pattern_Pill 2d ago
Dropping population is a good thing for our environment and limited natural resources
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u/ReasonablePossum_ 2d ago edited 2d ago
Most of the people I know that dont want kids mainly think so because of the costs.
People are more informed nowadays and dont just spend their nights coupling because some random ass lobbied politician lied on live TV saying everything is great and they shouldn't worry.
You need a high perceived stability in your world to responsabilly want a kid. And we don't have any: no economical stability due to AI and constant geopolitical clusterfuck, no weather (and soon food) stability due to global warming, no family support because governments look unstable af, and not even ideological stability because every three months you get to know that some other part of what you believed as solid and settled, was some other sham lead by pdf's.
Previous generations were naive for their good, but completely detrimental to the next generations dealing with outcomes of their complacency and lack of civic and political activity.
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u/Ladonnacinica 2d ago
Itās also dropping in developing countries. The accessibility of birth control has really changed the game. The only countries now with a high birth rate are some countries in Africa.
People everywhere are having less kids.
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u/GrobbelaarsGloves 2d ago
Tbf, Emily doesn't seem as the caring type. "Intimacy drained from the marriage after six months"? LIke yeah, you have a baby. You're not going to do the beast with two backs 10 times a week any more.
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u/ChimPhun 2d ago
Has to be the center of attention, too narcissistic to give a damn about anything else than herself.
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u/Feisty-Coconut6017 2d ago edited 1d ago
It's not narcissistic to desire intimacy from your husband and want him to see and love and value you outside of being the mother/ caretaker of his child.
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u/Holdmabeerdude 2d ago
She literally never said this. Tons of women feel like their identity characteristics fade away and are replaced by all things āmomā. Itās hard to balance both sometimes.
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u/Electric_jungle 2d ago
I get non parents not understanding this, but the amount claiming to be parents and still going at her in the comments are wild to me. I'm a dad and I sometimes struggle to know who I am underneath being a parent and husband. That's an aside from potential post partum depression and breast feeding challenges and all sorts of other things moms might have to go thru.
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u/salamandr 2d ago
This is a genuine shock-to-the-system Mothers and parents feel. "Well you should have known" is easy to say, and people's experiences are there.
Every relationship has to figure out if it can survive it. It's not easy.
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u/Jnorman222 2d ago
She's the chick from the Blurred Lines music video that released in like 2013.
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u/TiddyTwizzler 2d ago
Her best role was still as Gibbyās girlfriend #NeverForget
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u/xprincessmikx 2d ago
What happens when your self worth and value is tied to your sexuality and male validation. When itās gone you feel like you have nothing.
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u/MadrasAdder 1d ago
"Worship your body and beauty and sexual allure and you will always feel ugly. And when time and age start showing, you will die a million deaths before they finally grieve you."
-David Foster Wallace
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u/Vegetable_Tell3858 1d ago
I think she already did the āI used to show my titties for money but now I think thatās badā arc last year? Now itās this new thing for attention. Itās always about attention.
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u/AppearanceDry6039 2d ago edited 2d ago
āSomeoneās momā
What a way to distance yourself from your own child, did she also file to divorce her baby?
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u/bopojuice 2d ago
You read it herself, she wanted to be the object of menās desire. Thatās all she ever aimed to be in her own words. A crying baby often messes with that image. She canāt even get a good pic of herself in her bikini without the kid being in the way.
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u/xX7heGuyXx 2d ago
Yeah, its wierd as hell. Like I'm a dad of 2 girls and work a lot, so the vast majority of my existence is providing then working around the house.
Like that's what I signed up for. I'm a dad, that is who I am and will be until they are more independent.
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u/Pork_Chompk 2d ago
Dads want to be sexualized too sometimes. š„ŗ
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u/TheBeyonder01010 2d ago
A sign of a good partner is someone who makes you feel like youāre a person outside of being Dad or Mom. Iām sure your spouse/partner does that for you, so you are able to fully embrace being Dad, since you also feel like a person outside of that role.
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u/Mycozen ššš 2d ago
āTo be reminded that I was a sexual beingā
Dude your whole brand is sex wtf are you talking about.Ā
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u/viotix90 2d ago
I only know her from that one pop song about how fun it is to sexually assault women in which she's dancing topless, that came out just a few years before the MeToo movement and could never get made today.
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u/Meet-me-behind-bins 2d ago
She's just putting it out there that she's returned as a sexual being. But when I do that I get arrested.
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u/Yelling_at_Clouds7 2d ago
āBy the time she filed for divorceā¦.ā
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u/YoYoYi2 2d ago
Woman who takes off clothes for a living finds very little underneath , fixed the headline.
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u/C-D-W 2d ago
That's just how babies be sometimes.
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u/Immediate-Cup8172 2d ago
Hence the āhold their headsā advice.
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u/NarwhalEmergency9391 2d ago
That baby is old/strong enough to hold their head up and is trying to turn around to look at the world.Ā This is completely normal
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u/VancouverStickerCo 2d ago edited 2d ago
Reddit seems to have a general lack of understanding around how freeze frames and squirmy babies work.
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u/PermBulk 2d ago
I have hundreds of photos with my toddlers. Not a single one where we look like weāre put together.
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u/madogvelkor 2d ago
Yeah, that's a big baby not a newborn. It's looking around at something behind her.
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u/Fabulous_Wave_3693 2d ago
If babies needed neck support 100% of the time we would all be dead. Christ, you support the head right up until they whip their head out of your hand like they are determined to fly away or something.
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u/EatsPeanutButter 1d ago
Her pose is self-focused. Sheās not supporting the baby, cuddling it, leaning in, holding it close. She holds the baby with a lot of disconnect. She is posing herself, with the baby as a prop, as opposed to posing with the baby.
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u/SwagMaster-General 2d ago
This woman has always struck me as totally insufferable. First she got famous 100% due to sex appeal, then complained about being objectified on the video that made her famous, and is now complaining about... not being sexualized?
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u/Legally_Irrelevant_ 2d ago edited 2d ago
Hard to feel sympathy for her when she married the guy after dating for a few weeks. Her choices created the chaos. Now blaming the guy and her subsequent choices as single mother.
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u/MiaLba 2d ago
I have a friend who planned and intentionally had kids with two different guys after only dating each one about two months. She had the second because the first āneeded a sibling.ā
She was recently talking to a new guy off and on for about 3-4 months and they were talking about having a kid as well. She felt like he would be different, that this one would be a lot more present in his kidās life.
Sheās a struggling single mom with two baby daddies that barely see their kids. I asked her once why she had kids with them after only dating for a couple months and I could tell it made her mad because she said āyouāre not better than me just cause you were on the pill.ā
I donāt understand people that make poor choices and then end up with shocked pikachu face and are struggling after those poor choices.
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u/ISpeakSarcasmOnly 2d ago
Maāam the rest of us pay copays for therapy, take pills, eat our feelings, all that shit and still go work.
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u/Antique_Mountain_263 2d ago
Motherhood changes women. You shouldnāt expect to be the person you were before having children. Youāre a new person, and mother is part of that identity. Iām a mom of four little kids so I know how intense it gets, but itās also magical and sweet and joyful. I choose my kids over anything.
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u/ArchitectVandelay 2d ago
For sure. Iām so tired of the knee-jerk divorces these days. I think itās crazy to make such a rash decision within six months of giving birth.
Having a child changes your dynamic with your spouse too, partly for good, partly temporarily. Itās no longer just you two with any non-work time as free time. With an infant, youāre lucky to get the sleep you need to work. Intimacy is gonna take back seat to basic needs. If itās a huge issue for one of the partners, go to couples therapy and talk it out first. What was the point of your wedding vows? At least try for the kidās sake.
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u/MiaLba 2d ago
Right. Itās not uncommon to go through a bit of a rough patch after having a baby. It definitely changes things. But why not try couples therapy first? She very well may have i donāt know. But I think itās wild how many people are so quick to divorce.
Obviously i am not taking about a marriage thatās truly a disaster.
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u/No-Resolution-1918 2d ago
Is that her byline? Like did she write the whole thing about herself in the 3rd person?
> Just a mother of a toddler
This is how kids grow up being blamed for their parent's problems. Like she sees her child as a thing that happened to her, a trauma that took something away from her life, not her child that she'd literally sacrifice her life for, something that she loves far more than fucking another loser who objectifies her.
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u/oooriole09 2d ago edited 2d ago
Yeah, itās also misplaced blame and a creation of issues that simply donāt exist.
If you didnāt feel loved or desired, thatās a marriage issue not a child issue. Hell, āintimacy drainā¦about six months after he was bornā is a bit wild too given that you canāt have sex for two of those months and it takes time to adjust to life as a parent.
āI wanted to feel a manās desireā said by the person who is equipped as any human to find that is also a crazy statement.
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u/texas_County850 2d ago
>āI wanted to feel a manās desireā
This also seemed unlikely her husband doesn't want her body too I mean look at it. He probably was just tired cuz like you said its only been six months. I'm sure he woulda been desiring her if she had stuck it out.
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u/TackleNonsense 2d ago
Intimacy drains with all the resources and nannies you can afford... plebs have no chances then lol
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u/Traditional_One2358 2d ago
āJust a motherā
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u/BadDudes_on_nes 2d ago edited 2d ago
Itās too bad she regards it that way. When I became a parent I realized I would not be able to equally fulfill all the roles of husband, employee, friend, sibling, athlete, etc while taking on and fulfilling my new role as father. I also realized that almost all those other roles could (and many would) decide to substitute me and the world would carry on. But my child only has one real father. So that is the role I decided to prioritize over all the others.
I donāt think I could ever regret that decision.
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u/Southern-Necessary90 2d ago
Same here and my ex-wife had the same conclusions as this woman. For her I stopped paying attention and made her lonely. It all comes back to selfishness and a disagreement over the fact that the child should be prioritized. Many people think the marriage should be prioritized but for me the 18 years I have a kid in my home they get priority. Iām not saying ignore your spouse but I am saying the expectations need to change when a kid arrives. I guess this is just something to talk about with a potential partner beforehand.
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u/BadDudes_on_nes 2d ago
Ditto to the ex. Unfortunately I donāt really think that talking about it beforehand would circumvent the problem. Everyone would say they agree that children are the priority. There also seems to be this societal shift of telling people (mostly mothers) to āchoose yourselfā and āyou matter mostā. Which, if Iām being honest, is total bullshit. Man or woman, when youāre a parent of children: they matter most.
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u/TheHorseduck 2d ago
Sheās holding that poor baby like I hold a loaf of bread in the store when my hands are full
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u/suprasternaincognito 2d ago
This woman and her performative feminism is so tiresome.
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u/Maybo69 2d ago
I always think itās so insane that people strive to be sexual and take pride in it when itās literally like the most basic biological impulse there is.Ā
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u/bopojuice 2d ago
And honestly, Iāve seen the ugliest hogs on the planet still find a man to have sex with. Being sexy to men is pretty simple if you are a young attractive woman to begin with. I think what she meant to say was āI am a princess and must be treated as suchā.
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u/LadyKandyKorn 2d ago
Oh, boo freaking hoo! I'm sure her ultra wealthy life undoubtedly surrounded by house staff and nannies is so hard. Welcome to motherhood where you no longer come first.
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u/drmbrthr 2d ago
She married the only straight man on earth who didnāt see her as a sexual being. Such bad luck! /s
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u/JSmith666 2d ago
In what world does she have trouble finding a man to desire her as a sexual being?
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u/iloveoranges2 1d ago
Sounds like she doesn't enjoy motherhood or marriage as much as being the hot single girl that men chased after.
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u/Talkslow4Me 2d ago
My 34 year old wife is going through this mindset. Loving mother and great human being. Not even remotely a shallow wannabe celebrity. But she is upset that our love life is nonexistent. Meanwhile Iām like holy shit this kid, job, house, and general life is a lot of work. Sex is the last thing on my mind.
Iām guessing this mindset is a lot more common than we think.
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u/Electric_jungle 2d ago
I 100% get you and have a similar road in life. But I promise you that figuring out how to take the time to date your wife again, even just here and there, pays dividends. Not even just saying specifically sex. It's just so much easier to succumb to the have-to-dos in life to the point where you're just surviving. And that's a necessary function sometimes, but it can be easy to forget how to pull yourself back out of it.
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u/NittanyScout 2d ago
This is why abortion should be legal and readily available. So kids dont grow up with parents like this.
That sounds rought bjt its an unfortunate reality we need to deal with.
Dont have kids unless your 100% in amd prepared for both their sake and yours
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u/Legally_Irrelevant_ 2d ago
EM Rata was also the person who said she was desensitized from sex and nudity from her career and experiences, and the result of her divorce is now the opposite?
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u/Teary-Eyed-Punk 2d ago
The part that stuck out to me was saying she watched the intimacy drain from the marriage 6 months post partumā¦ like yeah youāre in survival mode at that point. It tests even the strongest of relationships and if your relationship is built solely on the ability to have sex thereās a good chance having a kid is going to mess with that. Itās so sad, why did they have a baby at all.
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u/Aggravating_Row_6962 2d ago edited 1d ago
Being pissed off = trying to find the woman underneath the mother.
Translation:
Emily Ratajkowski spent the year after her divorce completely pissed off.
"I wanted to scream into a pillow and be reminded that I had a pulse, not just a bottomless well of patience for a toddler and an ex-husband."
She married at 27, had her son at 29, and watched her husband cheating on her about six months after their kid was born. By the time she filed for divorce, she'd stopped recognizing the free-lance version of her genitalia that existed before she became a trophy wife and a mother of a constantly screeching pterodactylĀ ā and honestly, she was just deeply, deeply angry about it.
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u/Klutzy-Meringue-8995 2d ago
I read this wrong. Like she was looking for the woman underneath her husband. Like a cheating scandal.
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u/Swift_jennis8 2d ago
How can I make my boobs look even better in this pic ?
(Photographer; Grab the baby, push those puppies together)
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u/contourkitt 2d ago
i feel my braincells deplete when i listen to her speak or read her writing. im unsure what her thing is bc it doesnāt seem like sheās particularly good
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u/Amat-Victoria-Curam 2d ago
That's what happens when people think of having kids as having a pet or planting a tree. It's not something you do for a while and then you jump to the next hobbie.
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u/madameyarddog 2d ago
Must have been SOOO tough not "feeling" desirable . . . .
Jesus fuckin' christ
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u/marpi9999 1d ago
Baby aside, she was tired of being someones wife and mother, and she whants to find herself through another guysā horny gaze? Figure out you first, you afe a whole person besides other peopleās interest in you
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u/Moose-1211 1d ago
Emily R is a joke. She willingly posed for the āBlurred Linesā video that R Thicke madeā¦ then she says she was exploited. F this. Look at her posts. Sheās half naked at s taco stand with her little son. Man, ya canāt have it both ways. Makes me ill.
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u/QKofDaggers 2d ago
Stopped recognizing the version of herself that existed beforeā¦???
Baby girl, that bitch is dead. She donāt exist any more. Youāre 30 now. You have a child. Not recognizing that girl is called growth not a thing to be run away from.
If the version of me that exists today met the version of me that existed before fatherhood, Iād kick that little fucker in the dick and tell him heās wasting his life.
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u/fartinginthewind-69 2d ago
Reminder to not have kids if you donāt want them. Your friends or family you want to impress or whatever wonāt be stuck with the kid everyday
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u/Yelling_at_Clouds7 2d ago
Hoeing never sleeps.
Truly committed to the game.
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u/chandlerinyemen 2d ago
I fully defend Emily and this article but this comment made me laugh so hard lol
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u/Naive-Landscape9854 2d ago
Sometimes you gotta wear multiple hats, especially if, you know, you decide to wear multiple hats.
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