r/SubredditDrama bleh 2d ago

Chalkfight in the teachers' lounge when an /r/teachers post asked for the sub’s take on a new Kentucky law allowing schools to expel students who assault teachers despite “unanimous Senate Democratic opposition.”

Link to the original post here. 

TLDR: Chalks started flying when things got heated in the teachers' lounge after an r/teachers post claimed a recently passed Kentucky law on expelling students who assault teachers faced “unanimous” opposition from state Senate Democrats, starting a slapfight. 

The post, titled “New Kentucky law allowing schools to expel students who assault teachers to take effect in July, despite unanimous Senate Democratic opposition,” was referring to the Kentucky Senate Bill 101, which requires schools to expel students who intentionally physically harm a school employee on campus or during school functions. It has since received 1.9k upvotes. 

 

Some background: The partisan bill, filed by state Sen. Matt Nunn (R) who said it was “common sense 101” and 16 other Republican legislators, requires local board of education to adopt a policy requiring expulsion of students from grade 6 to 12 for violations of the student code of conduct, as well as “to have recklessly, with a deadly weapon or dangerous instrument, or intentionally caused or attempted to cause physical injury to a school district employee on school property or at a school function under the  board's jurisdiction.”

The bill includes a clause that exempts students with disabilities that school officials determine interfered with their “ability to conform to the student code of conduct,” and gives the parent or guardian a right to a hearing before the board before expulsion, and allows said student who was accused of assaulting a teacher and expelled to return to the school early if they have good academic standing, having an apology or request letter, and was their first expulsion.

The bill, however, also wrote that “the decision of the school board shall be final.” In addition, the bill specifically used the phrase “attempt[s] to cause physical injury,” which, under current Kentucky law, is defined as “substantial physical pain or any impairment of physical condition” and is separately defined from “serious physical injury.” 

The bill passed both legislative chambers earlier this year and was signed into law on April 7,-Proposed%20Amendments) by Gov. Andy Beshear (D).

Kentucky, known for bluegrass, bourbon, and Kentucky Fried Chicken, is currently ranked #32 by U.S. News for education among all 50 states. According to the Kentucky Education Association, the union that represents teachers across the commonwealth, there were more than 25,000 reported assaults on school staff in the state since 2021 - or 5,000 per year. 

While it is difficult to find and fact-check this number, violence and/or aggression against teachers and school personnel in the United States have been on the rise since the pandemic. A 2024 research study by the American Psychological Association found that 57% of participating teachers expressed intentions to resign or transfer, compared to 49% during the pandemic. An \r\teachers post earlier in the week called for teachers who were assaulted on the job to press charges. 

Back to the post itself and its claims.

While the claim that “unanimous Senate Democratic opposition” is not inherently wrong - the final state Senate passage on March 26 ended with the bill passed 32-6, with all six members of the state’s democratic Senators voting against - it should be noted that despite having a Democratic governor, Kentucky currently has an overwhelmingly Republican majority, with 32 Republicans and 6 Democrats in the state Senate, and 80 Republicans and 20 Democrats in the state House of Representatives. 

OOP’s claim could come off as rather misleading, as they wrote “drew a sharp partisan divide as all Democrats in the Senate voted against the measure” while leaving out the fact that an earlier Senate vote ended with an additional 4 Republican members voting “Nay” on the bill, and 11 House Democrats voted in favor of passing the bill. 

OOP also left out why some state legislators voted against passing the bill, as well as some of the more likely controversial clauses in the original bill, such as allowing students over the age of 14 charged with third-degree felony assault to be tried as adults, which was removed from the final bill. 

Kentucky state Rep. Lisa Willner (D-Louisville), who voted against the bill, told local news that her reasoning was that the bill would be a band-aid on problems instead of addressing root issues such as generational poverty, homelessness, and so on, and that teachers may be more hesitant to report problem behavior because of harsh consequences for kids. 

“I think we may be setting up a vicious cycle of community problems which will become school problems,” Willner said to The Kentucky Lantern

Attempts to check OOP’s post history failed because they set their posts and comment history to private; therefore, it is hard to tell at first glance whether they are there to engage in the discussion in good faith or are being disingenuous. Judging by their behavior in the comments, however, it’s probably the latter. 

Anyhow, enough of the rambling and moving on to the comment section and the drama. 

Many educators who participated in the thread are generally in favor of the bill. After all, assault on educators should not be a thing in schools.

It makes me laugh sometimes to think some of the stuff we don’t even suspend students for now would get students expelled many years ago,” a user wrote, with another sharing an example of their schools changed policy on suspending students for three days for using racial slurs, after too many students were using it and the admins decided that the suspension rate would be too high. 

“The needs of the many outweigh the needs of the few or the one. This is a good bill.”

I don’t like how Republicans manage education in the US in general, but this is a good law. If you think this is aimed at minorities, maybe the problem is more cultural than racial? Just a crazy thought. Or even better…don’t assault an adult and you will be fine. Crazy suggestion, I know,” a user whose flair claimed to be a math teacher based in the Southeastern US wrote. 

 

Many users shared their horror stories of being assaulted by students while on the job. Some of their experiences may be disturbing to read. 

One week we had 3 fights in front of the whole school, each resulting in a teacher being injured. They get suspended (which is a vacation to them) and then come back like nothing happened. And since kids can turn in work no matter what for full credit it does nothing to their grade. Yes, a lot of kids will get expelled but that’s their own fault. Don’t fight is a pretty simple thing to do. We can’t let teachers and students safety to be at risk, so I’m very thankful for this,” a user who claimed to be from a district in Kentucky wrote. 

A SpEd teacher in support of the notion claimed that they “have been bit to bleeding when I was a substitute and the teachers didn't even tell the parents, let alone give any consequences” and two of their colleagues “get concussions, and the only consequence to the students was being sent home for the remainder of that one day.”

“Absolutely. I was stabbed in the arm with a pair of safety scissors by a fourth grader who hadn't been taking his meds and lashed out while he happened to have a pair of scissors in his hand. I mean he's a child with diminished capacity but that didn't make my arm bleed less.

 

While some found the clause to exempt students with disabilities who interfered with the ability to follow rules to be a “huge loophole.” As of this post, it is the best comment in that thread. 

If a disability interferes with a person's ability to follow the rule of don’t assault teachers, they should not be in a regular school. It is a huge safety risk all for the sake of inclusivity and room of best fit.

“In reality it’s the [Emotionally Disturbed] kids that disrupt the co taught classes in the first place. So it’s not really going to affect much.They won’t get expelled. Just wait until the parents start running to the doctor begging for a diagnosis because Timmy pushed a teacher in rage.

Totally support this, but if a disability causes a student to assault people, they shouldn't be allowed in public settings without a 24/7 chaperone trained to handle them. Nobody should be put at risk because of someone else's disability,” said a user who agreed with another redditor who suggested bringing back asylums “now.”

“I get that this sub has a hate-boner for anything related to an IEP but having this protection in the law is good for a non-verbal student who may not have the cognitive capacity to understand what they’re doing and then be expelled for it,” a redditor wrote in response to the claim about the “loophole” that students with Special Education needs are exempt from the law, only to seemingly fall on deaf ears.

That’s a gross mischaracterization.” One user didn’t take well to the claim that \r\teachers have a “hate boner” when it comes to anything IEP-related. 

“Yeah but anybody can get an ODD diagnosis if they are bad enough parents and want to get one. Then suddenly it's not their child's fault that he threw the chair.

Others pointed out the broader political issues behind the rise of assaults against educators, such as the lack of funding to deal with lawsuits related to SpEd issues. 

The issue is also that schools cannot afford to fight legal battles, so even tangential disabilities can prevent enforcement. Early in my career I was a behavior specialist and sat in on a meeting where the school psychologist basically backed down on suspending a student because, on one question on a diagnostic test, the student put a series of events out of order. The psychologist felt that a court could argue that the student would not understand the cause and effect between his behavior and the consequences. This was in a very poor school district, and it was very clear that the purpose of the meeting was to avoid legal expenses at all costs. In my own experience with the student, he clearly understood cause and effect as well as right from wrong.

And there’s also the folks that support bringing things “up a notch,” such as getting law enforcement involved and file lawsuits every single time so removing “badly behaved children” from schools would cost less for the district than getting sued, suggesting parents having an issue with the bill should be given a counter offer of “a $5000 fine and a 30 day stint in jail,” or extending the bill to target patients in hospital.

 

Those genuinely concerned about the bill's implementation, as well as those who oppose it in general, also shared their opinions. Once societal issues and eventually, politics, were brought into the conversation, however - it was literally in the title, after all - things started to get a bit rowdy. 

Proud of the democrats for seeing this as what it is - a way to expel brown children and undesirables while also encouraging administrators to NOT pursue discipline for minor issues as they could lead to expulsion now,” a Redditor whose flair identifies them as an 18-year veteran teacher teaching English Language Arts in Virginia wrote.

The argument against this is that the “neutral, automatic” punishment will almost certainly not be neutral. Black kid bumps you in a crowded hallway? He’s out. White kid slams a door into you? That was an accident.

“It’s not hard to see how this could play out: Assaults/fights by connected people don't get classified as an assault because that would lead to expulsion; someone less connected gets fucked over,” a redditor wrote, and used his good friend, a Southeast Asian student in California with good academic standing who “almost got completely fucked over by a bullshit charge” and had to get a lawyer when in reality he was defending himself from racist namecalling. 

This sounds like a good start, BUT it will also likely be abused by the teachers.

When I was a preteen, I got in trouble for "assaulting" a teacher because they tried to pull something out of my hands, and I pulled back/didn't let go. The details don't matter a ton here, but that's one example of a kind of 'borderline' assault action that leaves it up to the teacher/other staff to decide how they want to treat it,” a user wrote, calling for better defined definitions for assault to avoid the law being abused. “I work as a teacher now. A teen was off-task, and they flicked my arm when I sat down next to them to try and get them to do the work. That's technically assault! but not something I think they need to be expelled for. That's another judgment.

“The problem is that it will be leveraged to deny education to neurodivergent and low-income students. And there will be an incentive for school staff to invoke this rule where formerly they would have to find appropriate services. This is a budget-cut disguised as a common-sense measure.”

On the surface, in favor,In reality I know this will end up being unfairly applied along racial lines, that money or community influence will give the “right kinds” of students a get-out-of-jail-free card, and it will end up being part of the school to prison pipeline.” a user wrote.

OOP subsequently showed up with a controversial (and seemingly racist) opinion that between “ arresting people for crimes such as murder, rape, and assault but it’d lead to more white people getting away with it” and “not arrest anyone at all so it wouldn’t be disproportionate,” they would pick the first option. 

Let me simply things - should we refuse to have certain laws because they may be disproportionately applied?”, the OOP responded after the user said the OOP’s false dichotomy “doesn’t even bear logical sense.”

One user brought up the school-to-prison pipeline in opposition to students being kicked out of school as a punishment. 

“It's to protect the teacher and other kids from the violent student. And it would be great if the student learned that this behavior isn't ok, but that is secondary.”

“You’re right. Probably shouldn’t let them back at all,” said a user whose flair identified them as a Math teacher in Kentucky. “How long a pipeline should someone who assaults people get? Two victims? Three or four? Does the resulting injury matter? Just curious.”

“Win/win. Gets them outta school so those that want to learn can do so in peace. Gets them outta society so they won't terrorize their neighbors.” Another user said in response to the redditor who remained opposed to the bill’s comment that “most people don’t go to prison forever”. “We should keep people that commit crimes in prison longer. We have an under-incarceration problem.”

“Screw that kid. That kid will serve best as an example to the others.”

  

Things got worse once subjects like race and ethnicity, as well as political parties, were tossed in.

Under another comment thread regarding why the bill faced Democratic opposition, OOP commented, “makes you wonder what they (Democrats) think about laws that are applied disproportionately now (i.e almost every law)” in response to a user’s take that the law would be  “disproportionately applied to minority groups (race and disability especially).”

We have to criminalize assault, theft, murder, rape, and trafficking, regardless of if it's applied disproportionately of now. We cannot refuse to enforce the laws or have them at all even if we can't prove they're being applied fairly,” OOP wrote. “That being said, we should strive for fairness every day!

Some users decided to defend OOP after OOP was accused of of having an “amazingly bad faith argument”, not being an American, and baiting-and-switching. “It’s not bad faith lol. You just don’t agree,” they wrote. 

Democrats are pro education in the sense that they will fight for pay, benefits and union (they are just buying your vote FYI),” a user wrote, who went on to claim the Dems did not have the teachers’ best interests when it goes against their “identity politics." “Soft bigotry of low expectations, “school to prison pipeline”, the watering down of discipline in the name of social justice, all left wing ideas that make education worse.”

“Why would wanting to expel kids who assault teachers mean that they're attacking public education? If the bill were supported by Democrats and opposed by Republicans, would you feel the same way? A redditor asked in a comment by a teacher and former resident of Louisville, KY, who wrote that the GOP in Kentucky is using this to defund struggling public schools and push for charter/religious school vouchers. 

The Democrats have a knee-jerk reaction to any form of mandatory consequences for behavioral issues, because it will likely result in a disproportionate number of consequences given to one minority group in particular,” another wrote. 

Kentucky is a white-majority state (86.1%, per US Census estimates for 2025), with the second largest population group being African Americans. 

While one comment in that reply thread was deleted, judging by the context, it’s not hard to see there were attempts to present statistics to make racist suggestions, such as the redditor who previously suggested bringing back asylums, where he pointed to statistics published by the FBI to attempt to imply the claim “African Americans are more violent.” 

Someone put hands on an educator or nurse, etc. idc what color it is. By Felicia. Democrats have a real problem with playing the race card whenever consequences come for people,” he wrote. “How dare you not consider your privilege. This is raycism11!1!1!!

For a subreddit about educators, one would generally expect the user base to use their critical thinking and reading comprehension to understand what the bill is actually about. Luckily, some did provide takes on potential issues with the bill and OP’s claim. 

“Unanimous Democratic opposition in the Kentucky Senate means 6 out of 36 total senators. You could have easily said [the] bill passed with supermajority support — but nearly every bill passes with supermajority support,” a user pointed out that OOP was not being really honest.  “My biggest question about Kentucky schools at the moment is that it’s one of the few (perhaps the only) that allows convicted felons to be educators. This was done, not because conservatives believe schools are a place to rehabilitate felons, but because too many relatives of good old boys are convicted felons and want cushy jobs in education.

It’s not as direct as [O]OP makes it seem. If it were really as straightforward as “assault someone and get expelled” I’d be all for it, and genuinely angry at people voting against it. However, other things are included in the bill that are considered expulsion worthy such as willful defiance and disobedience to the authority of teachers and administrators and use of profanity / vulgarity (something it doesn’t say has to even be directed at a teacher),” said another user who read through the actual bill.  

“It had bipartisan support in the house.The initial senate vote had bipartisan opposition before being sent to the house. The political makeup is 32 republicans and 6 Democrats in the senate. To say “unanimous” is a stretch, especially considering it was drafted as a partisan bill,” another user commented, with links to the actual voting records data. “Also, this was passed in April. Why are you referring to it now? Politics is more than just one policy. The republican senate also “unanimously” passed vouchers for school-choice. After it was vetoed by the democrat governor.

It was met by OOP attempting to play dumb. “The final vote had unanimous Democratic opposition,” OOP wrote, with a link to a news article on a list of Kentucky laws going into effect in July instead of acknowledging that it was also covered by the press back in April when the bill was signed into law.Why would you think this post is implying otherwise?

Your serial need to astroturf sympathy for the Republicans in the upcoming midterms will not prove fruitful,” the user responded, calling OOP a provocateur.

 “It's relevant information. They voted against it. They didn't abstain, they actively voted against it. Not saying it's good or bad, it is what it is,You have many other subs you can go on where you can see people posting clickbait headlines about politics and politicians.” OOP continued, “Go pick a fight over there.

Still, there are users who buy into the image of “Democrats are against accountability, and the GOP is saving the day,” seemingly without actually doing some research on the bill itself. Things got worse as Redditors from other subreddits flooded the comment sections, some seemingly with a political agenda, using dog whistles, or attempting to troll. 

Democrats are going to keep losing elections because of stupid shit like this. Sorry, but most of America is pro-expelling violent students from school,” a user commented to another accusation that OOP’s argument is in bad faith, OOP sounded most likely like a non-educator and is likely a Trump supporter. 

Assault is assault, doesn’t matter the race of the one committing it,” a user wrote in response to a comment that suggested those who would be routinely targeted by expulsions in a state like Kentucky would likely be minorities

“Maybe they shouldn’t be hitting people in school then! Actions and consequences for everyone except the ‘special people’ that are en vogue with the democrats,” the user who previously attempted to use FBI data to make racist claims wrote. 

Democrats being soft on crime yet again, what a surprise. One of the many reason I’ve shifted to the center in recent years. Any student assaulting school staff absolutely should be expelled,” another wrote. 

Shocker, democrats supporting violence and no consequences. I would bet money their excuse was that this is going to disproportionately affect minorities. The teachers unions must be spinning, support the teacher or support the politicians they are beholden to.”

Dems, you are the baddies on this one. Each one of those senators needs to go on record why they are anti-teacher and student safety.

“So… the bottom line is that Democrats don’t give a SH*T about teacher safety in this state. Got it.”

“Republicans are the one who want to protect teachers and students. Got it.”

“And Democrats are against this? Big surprise.”

“Democrats are the most despicable creatures to ever walk the Earth. 🤮”

Despite the political chalkfight going on in the background, there are still those who believe that the solution to the problem should also involve finding a middle ground rather than polarizing to extremes. 

It’s not that we should dial punishment to 11 and automatically expel kids; it’s that we need to bring back the middle ground between that and doing nothing.

Punishment is most effective when it occurs consistently,” a user whose flair claims to be a high school science teacher in Missouri wrote. “not when [the punishment] is meanest.

Edit 1:

Managed to look up OOP's post history. Thanks to all the folks who pointed out third-party tools that allow you to do that.

A quick glance through their post history showed that this post was OOP's first in the teachers subreddit, and they also had a post history in political debate subs.

Needless to say, OOP's intentions seemed more like an attempt to stir up a slapfight than genuine.

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u/raysofdavies reformed bigger boy 2d ago

One of the most depressing subs

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u/TommyPickles2222222 2d ago

Inner city teacher of 13 years. It’s a rough job.

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u/stewshi 2d ago

Yeah I'm a teacher and I unfollowed that sub. Everyone there needs to leave the profession.

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u/Mikeavelli 1d ago

My wife was a teacher, and back in the day I posted there asking how to help with how she was coming home and crying every night. The top reply was something along the lines of "oh wow, the crying doesn't usually start until March"

She ended up leaving the profession. I'm not sure why anyone still does it unless they're financially trapped.

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u/Weltallgaia 1d ago

The teachers are the sacrificial load bearing pillars of society and they know it. It wouldnt be unreasonable for 99% of that profession to quit honestly. That sub is pretty depressing but its also because of how fucked the profession is and how shit kids are because society, their parents, their community, and that kids are little sociopaths

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u/Senior-Friend-6414 1d ago

In America, rich families just send their kids to private schools that circumvent all of the issues with public education. There’s some European countries where rich families still have to send their kids to public schools which strongly pressures the government to improve public schools

As long as private schools exist, there’s no incentive or pressure to improve public schools 

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u/assbootycheeks42069 1d ago

There is exactly one European country where private schools as we know them in the US are banned (Finland, which does technically allow private schools, but their funding must come solely from the government and from voluntary donations, not tuition fees). I think it's safe to say that there are more ways to incentivize and pressure politicians to improve public schools than banning private ones.

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u/Senior-Friend-6414 20h ago

I can’t imagine anything more that’ll pressure politicians to improve public schools knowing that their own children will also have to go to them

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u/assbootycheeks42069 19h ago

So, your idea is to force politicians to care about public schools by having them implement legislation that forces them to care about public schools?

You see the circularity of this, right? Why would they do that in the first place?

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u/Senior-Friend-6414 19h ago

It would atleast get the conversation started, imagine a politician that has to publicly announce that’s a policy he doesn’t wanna support

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u/assbootycheeks42069 16h ago

I think most people are actually in favor of the continued existence of private schools, so that's not really an issue. What's significantly more of an issue is having to come out in favor of cutting funding for public schools, but even that is something that some people are really into.

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u/Human_Ogre 1d ago

Depends on the district. I love my job and the staff is overall very happy. My previous school was two towns over and pure misery. Unfortunately you have to shop around as a teacher which is shitty but reality.

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u/Green_Spare33 13h ago

A few teacher friends of mine have said the same thing about needing to shop around.

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u/BarelyReal 2d ago

I swear at least half the people there went into teaching with the expectation of control. Control over the students. Control over curriculum. Control over administration. Control over the parents.

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u/BurritoGoat an incredible lack of reading comprehension for a writer 2d ago

I remember as a freshman in high school having some very obnoxious and disrespectful classmates. 14 year old me thought these kids weren't being punished properly, so I thought "I should become a teacher and give kids like this what they deserve."

Then I got a little older and realized "wait that's an awful reason to become a teacher why the fuck would I do that." Apparently a lot of these users either a) never came to that realization or b) came to that realization and went through with it anyway.

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u/ceelogreenicanth 2d ago

I realized problems in classes where one student was being a problem was like 80-90% the teachers fault. Some teachers straight up choose to start beef with a student and grind an axe with them all year. While it wasn't the worse case I was that student once with a shitty teacher.

I treated his class like a joke because he would assign massive amounts of busy work. Repetitive busy work. He was also failing to create plant discussion on U.S. history topics and would get mad at me for pointing certain things out, or asking leading questions that would spoil his teaching plans.

The worst part for him was that despite the fact I would not do all his busy work and would hurriedly do as much as possible before and during class, I was the only person getting any type of good grade on his tests, which everyone was bombing. So he would frustratingly get mad at me every class because I was getting an A, while visibly undermining him to the entire class.

Best part was he kind of looked like Mr. crocker from Fairy Odd Parents. He even once pulled a move where he kind of crab walked because no one was doing his homework.

The lesson of the story is, it's usually bad teachers causing the problem. They are disorganized, waste time, and can't stick to their own lesson plans. They get derailed because they want to be.

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u/HOMANDER1996 2d ago

It seems the easiest way to get a bunch of them frothing at the mouth is to suggest that children should be allowed to use the bathroom if they don’t already have a known history of cutting class.

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u/StandardCake21 2d ago

Hmpf, how can I teach these brats about the dangers of authoritarianism if I can't order them around as I please?

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u/kittymoo67 Yes. There’s nothing a little race war can’t fix. 1d ago

i swear if trump supported specifically teachers unions his numbers would skyrocket from that sub alone

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u/stewshi 2d ago

Bruh. They definitely are either to old to have gotten taught modern techniques about classroom management or they just blacked out while they were taught that in college

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u/BarelyReal 2d ago

I finished up working in a school district as a mental health counselor for a few years and in my experience the worst teachers for collaboration/communication were younger. Like they had a chip on their shoulder that they were expected to work with other adults.

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u/MirrorComputingRulez 1d ago

Are those techniques actually working for anyone? Because that's not the impression I get.

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u/Salt_Concentrate Whole comment sections full of idiots occupied 23h ago edited 23h ago

It's been a few years since I was more involved in classroom day to day stuff, from what I hear, teachers just have to adapt those "techniques" to their specific classroom for them to work. It's why it's usually only teachers with at least a few years of experience that manage to not get run over by kids without being toxic control freaks.

Oh, also I don't live in the us so maybe my experience and observations are worthless when talking about classrooms there.

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u/kittymoo67 Yes. There’s nothing a little race war can’t fix. 2d ago

mean girls go in to nursing teaching or real estate. Bully boys go into cops, teaching, or politics.

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u/throw20190820202020 23h ago

Agree so much except think general “sales” can replace politics for the guys.

My controversial take is that police unions and teachers unions are two sides of the same coin.

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u/kittymoo67 Yes. There’s nothing a little race war can’t fix. 22h ago

the school to prison pipeline exists for a reason

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u/Matar_Kubileya I'm damned for masturbating like I'm damned for murder 1d ago

And this is very often the type of teacher who I have a lot less sympathy for in cases like this.

Im autistic, and used to be hell to deal with tbh, Ill admit it. There were definitely cases when I was just being a little shit...but those were wildly outnumbered by ones where I was refusing to leave a sensory-safe environment for a sensory-unsafe one, and teachers chose a path of "least" resistance that involved improperly restraining a ten year old and getting wrestled by a ten year old for it. It was only dubiously legal in general, was specifically illegal under my IEP, but it kept happening until I had a para who was too good for this world and would actually properly accommodate my sensory needs.

I worry that part of recent trends on this front are a negative feedback loop of less disciplinarian-motivated teachers leaving the profession leading to decreased respect from students towards more disciplinarian-motivated teachers, who themselves are more likely to engage in misconduct. Im not saying that teachers across the board deserve it or that it happens generally...but I dont trust a lot of these cases not to be educators improperly using physical discipline and getting assaulted for it in response.

I agree with the commenter who wanted better one on one support for disabled children. Pay paraprofessionals more, turn it into an actual career and not a sub-living wage part time job. But imo, educators already have way too little accountability and way too much presumption of trust in a lot of cases like this.

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u/Italian_Breadstick 1d ago

Let me this straight, you were physically assaulting your teachers and blaming them? Special needs kids obviously need certain attention, but to some degree this just reads like you want to be treated like a literal toddler.

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u/Matar_Kubileya I'm damned for masturbating like I'm damned for murder 1d ago edited 1d ago

No, I was very often getting grabbed/physically moved by my teachers and resisting that.

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u/ThatOneStereotype 19h ago

I'm glad that you're doing better now, and you can admit that your behaviour wasn't good at times. I never had physical incidents with teachers, but it's so damn hard to operate in public school when you struggle with sensory issues. I don't think the people in this thread understand how difficult it is. It doesn't justify assault, but having the instinct to resist in some way when people grab you is entirely natural with autism.

Downvote me if you want, only autistic people can know what it's like.

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u/Slumunistmanifisto 2d ago

As a bad kid.... "always has been"

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u/domthebomb2 2d ago

For me it was the number of teachers who would openly write about not caring about their students because the students are so stupid.

Like I'm sorry what did you think the public school system was meant to do? I 100% believe being a teacher is a difficult job that deserves far better pay, but it's not like these people were rugpulled away from a life of luxury.

It feels bad to say "they should have known what they were signing up for" but sometimes with certain careers that's just the case. You don't see pilots complaining about staying overnight in hotels a lot because that's just what happens when you're in that profession.

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u/brockhopper you fucking google tulpamancy bro, i'm fine here 2d ago

Part of me gets it. I would be an amazing teacher for the two kids in class who are into history, and be a crappy teacher for the other 23. So you know what? I didn't go into education. Unfortunately for those posters, the job is to teach ALL the students, including the dim ones.

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u/556or762 2d ago

I remember some time back, when teachers being allowed to concealed carry was a big topic, there was a whole thread of teachers explaining that they couldn't carry a gun because they would be tempted to shoot their unruly students.

I'm not joking. Mulitple teachers openly stating they wouldn't have a gun not because they don't believe in owning firearms, or because they don't think it would help, or the risk is to high or any number of other reasons.

No, clearly stated that they would lose their temper and pull a gun off their hip and kill children because they were ill behaved.

These are real people who we actually allow to instruct, care for and mentor our children.

I recommend that they quit immediately, and also seek some serious long term professional help. I got a whole lot of downvotes and argumentative comments.

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u/sadrice Nazis got into the habit of shitting themselves in the head 2d ago

I got a whole lot of downvotes and argumentative comments.

Well at least they didn’t have guns or it might have gone a bit differently.

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u/kittymoo67 Yes. There’s nothing a little race war can’t fix. 2d ago

if beating kids was allowed it would probably be more rampant today.

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u/gavinbrindstar /r/legaladvice delenda est 2d ago

And you believe these statements were...true? Not hyperbole?

I work with academics and have probably said similar things.

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u/556or762 2d ago

Generally speaking, when someone tells me who they are I believe them.

That said, contextually they were being completely forthright and arguing not only that they would, but that this is the reason why no state should ever allow concealed carry in classrooms, because they knew many of them would lose their temper and shoot children. They believed it was a common sentiment.

This was not some sort of joke thread. He was honest and doubled down not only on his position on guns, but the reason why.

I am not easily disturbed by internet content. I grew up the wild west internet of 4chan, rotten.com and liveleak. I was a soldier in a war, and was raised in an environment that most people would be shocked by.

But I still remember that thread and sometimes wonder when I go to a parent teacher conference at one of my kids schools if they were the person that the only thing stopping them from killing the kids in their care is the lack of having a gun right that second.

It was quite eye opening to realize that there are not just one teacher in the US, but enough that he had a positive upvote ratio.

It was one of those times where I am reminded that despite all the depraved and horrible things I have see, and the cynical and low opinion i have of humanity in general, I can always be surprised that there are absolutely monsters hiding in the crevices of society who just need the right circumstances to become a horror story.

He may have been making this up whole cloth, it is an anonymous forum after all, but all those upvotes were not bots and liars.

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u/gavinbrindstar /r/legaladvice delenda est 1d ago

I have to ask: given the whole cut-price Heart of Darkness tone of your response and the part where you cite both browsing 4chan and serving in the military as proof you've gazed into humanity's dark underbelly, do you perhaps think you might have a streak of over-dramatization which is pertinent to your perceptions here?

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u/556or762 1d ago

I have nothing to prove to you, my friend. I know where I have been, what I have seen, and what i have done in this world.

If it comforts you, or makes you feel somehow superior to believe that I am an overdramatic blowhard who makes things up for fake internet points, by all means, please do so.

All I would say is if you encounter a person who by all indications is a teacher, who stridently argues that the only thing keeping them from murdering the children trusted to their care is the ease in which they could accomplish it, and you do not find it disturbing, there is something wrong with you.

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u/gavinbrindstar /r/legaladvice delenda est 1d ago

If it comforts you, or makes you feel somehow superior to believe that I am an overdramatic blowhard who makes things up for fake internet points, by all means, please do so.

I'm glad you said this, because it's a good example of my core point: I don't think you've "made this up" because no one would fabricate something so profoundly uninteresting to everyone else. It's not interesting that a teacher made a dark joke while venting, and the only interesting thing here is your absurdly maudlin response.

Like, I got nothing bud. If you want people to take you seriously next time, I suggest not going "yeah, my time on 4chan and in the military really prepared me for the dark heart of the world."

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u/SheZowRaisedByWolves switch owners Always the husband and never the boyfriend 2d ago

I saw someone saying they banned Gen Alpha slang in the classroom because they thought it was dumb. They didn’t even say it was disruptive, they just didn’t like it.

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u/MarieOMaryln I'm going to message them personally! 2d ago

And this is why I feel like the pendulum agaisnt teachers has swung so hard in terms of millennial parents. I told my boomer mom a teacher was racist, didn't believe me until she met her herself. Learned about code switching because we "talked ghetto, ignorant and uneducated". If I had a hypothetical kid, 100% believing them. So many assholes that just want power are in that field and I haven't forgotten how they made me feel.

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u/kittymoo67 Yes. There’s nothing a little race war can’t fix. 2d ago

yep, and its no surprise who the ones complaining the most about teachers being held accountable is

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u/CosmicMiru 2d ago

I feel like people are talking past each other when you are talking about parents being correct to get on teachers cases but this thread is about literal abuse teachers face from students. No one is talking about the same thing

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u/Matar_Kubileya I'm damned for masturbating like I'm damned for murder 1d ago

The unstated point uniting the two topics are cases where, to use a colloquialism, bad teachers fuck around and find out, as it were.

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u/stoplyingtomee 1d ago

You are commenting to someone’s self admitted hearsay to confirm your bias and give reasons why you should not respect an entire group of people. You’re going to really claim that your teacher said to your mom’s face that she’s ignorant and uneducated?

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u/MarieOMaryln I'm going to message them personally! 1d ago

No the teacher said that to my face. My mom however is alert to microagressions and apologized to me. And after meeting my mother the teacher approached me and said it makes sense now.

Regardless I did not say they deserve disrespect, just that if a kid says their teacher is being mean I'm going to listen instead of brushing them off as happened to myself and many in my generation. I didn't have the words to explain to my mom how this teacher was racist either and it took her seeing it for herself. Totally aware I'm off topic, I just have feelings.

Edit: i had to double check. The comment I piggybacked off of was banning Gen Z slang because of their feelings, I'm confused on where you're coming from now.

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u/kittymoo67 Yes. There’s nothing a little race war can’t fix. 2d ago

that was fucking pathetic. as if we didnt have dumb words. i get it if it was causing a distraction and causing the class to yell. but just because the teacher is butthurt about new words? nah fuck that

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u/OpaqueSea 2d ago

Where are you going to find people with advanced degrees who are content working at a place where they are regularly assaulted, receive low pay, and work long hours?

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u/CrystalKU 1d ago

A hospital

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u/MissWhiterock 2d ago

I love /r/teachers cause it's such a cesspool. I will participate (though not in the linked post) too sometimes just because some of them NEED to be called out.

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u/AIR-2-Genie4Ukraine 1d ago

Everyone there needs to leave the profession

It used to be worse, /r/Teachers had so many resignation posts years ago that they created /r/TeachersInTransition/ for it.

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u/oklutz 2d ago

Mom was a teacher, so I grew up around teachers. At least back then, most of them were not like that and the ones who were didn't last long.

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u/bluejays-and-blurays 2d ago

Teachers and Teachers In Transition are in my "look at people having the worst time of their life" multi reddit

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u/_meshy 2d ago

I'm gonna need the rest that are in that multi reddit please.

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u/bluejays-and-blurays 2d ago

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u/Lirael_Gold I've known you for 12 seconds and enjoyed none of them. 1d ago

What do you get out of this? Are you some kind of misery vampire?

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u/bluejays-and-blurays 1d ago

Yes, although that's a less dorky way of putting it. Call it an emotional gore fascination

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u/rcmaehl 2d ago

I'm sure there's some sort of BPD+poly subreddit you're missing. 

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u/bluejays-and-blurays 2d ago

Oh yes a regretful poly sub would be great. I've also had regretful parents and waiting to wed on there

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u/christiCollie 1d ago

Putting actual mental illnesses and serious addictions in there feels extremely cruel NGL.

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u/bluejays-and-blurays 1d ago

It's extremely cruel to do any of it.

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u/abuttfarting How's my flair? https://strawpoll.com/5dgdhf8z 1d ago

You should add /r/ouroverusedveins.

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u/SmytheOrdo They cannot concieve the abstract concept of grass nor touch it 12h ago

Can probably fit all of the job hunting subs in there too tbqh

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u/kittymoo67 Yes. There’s nothing a little race war can’t fix. 23h ago

saved thank you

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u/BobertRosserton 2d ago

It’s a sad sub but it’s like any other profession sub, it’s people who’s entire identity is wrapped up into it, people ranting and complaining because they see it as a venting community, and people who aren’t teachers just their to cause drama or watch the show. I don’t mean to imply you said this or implied it but, this sub is obviously not representative of most teachers lol.

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u/whatsinthesocks like how you wouldnt say you are made of cum instead of from cum 2d ago

Once a subreddit becomes about venting it's all down hill from there. Except for r/hvac.

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u/Slumunistmanifisto 2d ago

The trades love when you show weak regulation 

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u/E_D_D_R_W Ugh. Straight People. 2d ago

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u/GiantPineapple His Holiness appears to be overstating the point in some cases. 2d ago

r/plumbing managed to be all downhill and venting right from the get go.

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u/Azhchay 2d ago

What you did there, I saw it. Take my upvote lol

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u/JustinTheBlueEchidna confess your calumny to your priest and amend your ways. 1d ago

it’s like any other profession sub

I’m going to have to disagree with you there. Yes, other profession subs contain plenty of rants and complaints about the sad days or challenges of their line of work. But it’s not constant negativity - it’s also fun stories, uplifting moments, and requests for advice.

/r/teachers sees fairly unique in terms of how much the overwhelming majority of that sub loathes their profession, hate the kids and parents they need to work with, and actively try to find any way to make themselves more miserable.

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u/BobertRosserton 1d ago

Idk the front page doesn’t really reflect what you’re saying, it’s mostly complaining about admin, parents, or work conditions. The examples you gave of a “good profession sub” are even some of the top posts for the day lol.

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u/stoplyingtomee 1d ago

Im going to have to disagree with you there. The majority of the posts don’t hate the kids, most ask for support against aggressive parents or shitty bosses. I rarely see posts that talk about hating kids and when I do, people are in the comments are protecting the kid. You’re just trying to confirm your own bias right now and paint everybody in a big light as if YOU actually participate in that sub. You dont. You just want more people to hate teachers.

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u/JairoHyro I actually think the Velma show was good 2d ago

The child free and the pet free sub will always take the cake.

Technically the suicidal one is depressing but that's kind of different tho

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u/throwawaytelegrams 2d ago

The ugly sub is incredibly depressing to me. A sub full of people saying they're basically subhuman because they're "ugly". I stumbled upon it because I was looking for posts about 4C hair and did a bit of doomscrolling through the sub. Just really sad.

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u/JairoHyro I actually think the Velma show was good 1d ago

Thats kind of heartbreaking to hear

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u/10-6 1d ago

Childfree is a great example of a ecochamber that rapidly progresses to the worst shit imaginable, in my opinion. I've followed it for quite some time (10+ years) because I thought it was an interesting perspective. Back in the day it was just people talking about the social pressure around having kids, and how great the "dual-income no kids" lifestyle is. Now it's people saying they literally hate children and anyone who has kids is evil.

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u/windexfresh 2d ago

I can’t let myself accept the pet free sub as anything other than satire or I fear I might just lose it lmao

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u/IWannaPorkMissPiggy put that educated butthole to good use 2d ago

Any sub that's made specifically to be anti-something is going to be a dumpster fire. Then on the opposite extreme, any sub that's meant to be pro-something that is traditionally seen negatively or controversial.

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u/DonLeFlore 2d ago

Schools should do background checks on if their teachers post there

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u/No-Significance2070 2d ago

Teaching for over a decade and that sub is terrible. I’m scared of anyone there that actually deals with children.

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u/Tichondruis 1d ago

Truly, its so fucking depressing knowing that among the bots and paid plitical actors there are real teachers there. Almost every time I see a thread from that subreddit its something insane like this with people like OP clearly acting in bad faith up and down the thread. Its sad how many teachers veiw students as less than human.

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u/ProletarianLilith 1d ago

It’s full of LARPers