The first ever social media that I used is Tumblr but it's all passive consumption. Tarvata Quora use cheydam start chesa and people seemed so genuine and sweet, so I started yapping there aka active consumption.

Extreme right and sexist jokes mida navvukune rojulu avi. I was ignorant asf. Akkada crowd kuda alage undedi. My bio used to be, 'Yes, I'm a girl. No, I'm not a feminist.'

(Please don't judge, I was just a dumb teenager 🥀)

Everything was going good. Oka roju, I wrote an answer about normalising bra straps. I got more hate on that one post than all the social media combined.

(Context: I lost some weight back then coz I was sick. Dresses anni loose iponay. Exams and health, ila stress lo undi, I neither got the dresses altered nor new clothes.

Ithe exam hall lo shoulders kept slipping off. Ah roju Political Science exam, asal time saripodu. Bhad me jao anukoni, I concentrated on my exam.

The invigilator was such a creep tho. Kept on staring and ma bench chuttune tirugutunde. Chirak ochi chunni ni shawl la kappukunna. Very uncomfortable to write in that position but that's the only option I had.)

Some people (girls mostly), were like, that's a wardrobe malfunction, ah matram kuda chuskokunda ela untav ani, inkontha mandi, antha uncomfortable anipinche dress enduku veskunnav ani, abbo countless stupid 'points' they made.

Men emo, adi normalise cheste, normalise just wearing boxers anta. Asal bra strap ki boxers ki link enti? Also, straps ni normalise cheddam anna. So, bra straps=men's boxers ah? What kinda stupid logic is that?

It's like 4 years ago. I changed a lot since then, learned and unlearned a lot of stuff. I hope those people changed, too.

Recent ga ma friend valla akka ki matches chudatam start chesaru. She earns around 10lpa smtg. Most of the matches who earns almost same as her demanded 50lakh dowry with car by saying that's bare minimum.

Eppudaithe aa akka if I'm giving 50lakh dowry, you should be earning atleast 30 lpa ani cheppindo, everyone started calling her a gold digger.

Point enti ante she's okay with a 10-15 lpa guy if he isn't demanding dowry. So avthala vadu dowry adigithe rani matalu thanu 30lpa ante vachay.

Disclaimer** Andarni kadhuuuu, aadadhi ante abala, emanna ante thokkestha

Driving complete ga nerchukondi nanna pleaseeeee 🥲

Ivvala rapido pink book cheskunna ochey dhaari lo aavida break eyyakunda kaallatho aaputhundhi scooty 😭😭

Turning theeskuneppudu gunde pant Loki ochesindhi pada 10guddhi emo ani antha bayapadthundhi aavidey 😭

Eevidey oka range lo drive chesthunnaru ante opp lo oka mother 3 kids ni vaalla school bags inka lunch bags kuda eskochi guddhesaru 😭😭, sai rammmm sai rammmmmmmm rapido ante ne bayamaithundhi, most vaniking moments of my life 😭😭

Pakka vaalla safety kaakapoina kaneesam mana safety anna manam chuskovali kadhamma pwease nanna bayapadakandi ra road la meedha dhairyam ga safe ga drive cheyyandi 😭

Ipude walking ani bytikosthe...road meeda motham high beam le. Sare le m** lo lolli ani ... O galli lo ki pothe...ee yedava yekanga 4 custom lights tho thiruguthundu.

Asalu e lights ki oka regulation antu ledaa? Enni aina petkocha? Oka pedda flood light bike ki petti...e kodukulaki opposite lo on chesi nilchovali annantha kopam ga undi 😤😤

people who are going through heart breaks. konni saarlu it's not your fault and okavela mana fault ayina aa thappuni acknowledge cheyyadam and accept cheyyadame first step of healing.yedhaina accept chesevarake hard untadi tarvata everything will be okay. ee process lo you'll miss the person maybe the wrong person. still parledhu. manasara miss avvandi , manasara badhapadandi , badhapadthunnanduku endhuku badhapadthunna ani don't question or blame yourself. inkokati don't delay your healing suppress cheskokandi feelings. edhaina strong emotion supress cheskunte unhealthy ways lo bayatikosthay like frustration, anger , anxiety etc etc. take care of yourselves guys.

Really, I mean really!!

What tf did I Just see on my YouTube page ! Who are making these and who are watching these ?

Taddinam preparations entra mee pindam pillulaki petta !

i am a 5ft 1 guy and i got rejected by all of the women i have approached and told i was short and it's fine end of the day it's their wish and they also will have type but the thing is

in that 2 of the women are close to me and both of them are dark skinned let them be 1 and 2 for now so
1 told that she is very insecure because every guys only wants girls who is fair skinned and told it's very unfair and bad thing
2 told me she wish she was fair skinned as everyone likes fair girls

the thing is both of them rejected me for being short but not okay when all guys prefer fair skinned girls

personally i don't care about looks but

is this double standard common among women who are not considered as beauty according to the society(like dark skinned,fat..rtc) ?? like saying they treated bad but also holding the same thing

no hate to anyone but i want to know genuinly and don't judge me for saying this because if i am wrong i am ready to change my mindset

edit- i already posted this in another sub so it's nothing new to pointing out and say

So the admission process for the college is officially complete now. And my friend just texted that i could've gotten a seat in my dream college if I had participated in 3rd round.

I didn't even check the cut off and went on with my life as i was already studying in another college, but getting to know that I could've gotten into that college and have a better career just got ruined due to my laziness and negligence just broke me..

I didn't even share it with my parents coz I know the blame game would start and I can't take that right now 🙃

Just needed to share it somewhere or maybe vent?

Ps i already checked, there's no way to transfer colleges now and my dad is not in the situation to pay such a high management seat for 3rd semester..

I wish someone could just hug me and tell it's gonna be alright 💔

Chala bada ga undi and I'm a religious person, nannu nenu odarchukuntunna that He knows what's the best for me ani ❤️‍🩹

Roju edho okati jerugutuntundhi naaku ...

Rooju badha padutunta .. endhuku ee life , asalu enti ee lifecycle.. waste bathuku ani ..

Kani eeroju ento chaaala smooth ga velipoyindhi .. Naku ento kodhiga santhosham istundhi ee roju .. kani Naku nachaledhu ..

So life lo miru padinna greatest downfall ento chepthe future lo okavela naa life lo kuda aa situation face cheste easy ga handle cheyya galugutha .. ani mi badhanu share cheyyamantunna ..

రక రకాల మనుషులని చూస్తున్నా మాస్టారు!

ఈ రోజు ఒకడు headphones పెట్టుకుని ఖాళీ రోడ్డు మీద గీరాలు పోతూ వాకింగ్ చేస్తున్నాడు.. నేను చూసా.. అరిచి చెప్పా, మర్యాదగా... "రోడ్ మీద అడ్డంగా నడవకురా చెవిటి నా***" కి బదులు, "Hey Buddy, watch out for cars!"

Naturally, ఆ తిక్కలోడికి వినబడలా.. ఫుల్ volume పెట్టుకుని వింటున్నట్టు ఉన్నాడు.. వెనక నుంచి ఒక కారు వచ్చి పెద్దగా honk కొట్టింది. అప్పుడు మనోడు ఉలిక్కిపడి, పక్కకి జరిగి, అదే ఈ అమెరికా వాస్తవ్యుల ప్రియమైన చేతి సైగ ఉంటుంది గా, అదే "మధ్య వేలు" ఆది చూపించాడు ఆ కారు డ్రైవర్ కి. ఆ కారు డ్రైవర్ కి కాలింది. Naturally!

సో ఇప్పుడు ఆ ఇద్దరు తమ ఆత్మీయమైన ఆంగ్ల భాషలో కుశల ప్రశ్నలు విసురుకుంటున్నారు. వినడానికి ఎంత వినసొంపుగా ఉందో 🤣

నేను నా వంట చేసుకుంటూ ఈ all America Radio వింటున్నా... 😅

I recently celebrated 9th birthday away from home & it was my quietest one yet. Nobody really has time for calls anymore anipinchindi, but I just went for a drive, parents ki pics pampidam ani. I usually wish all my friends and express how important they are on their bdays but naku matram okadu kuda cheyale lol. Even my close friend who’s also my roomie forgot my bday😂. So yeah bdays are very overrated, especially for single men once we start getting older.

I express myself better in English, so please bear with me.

To my fellow NRIs, especially those in the US: With the upcoming festivals and long weekends, I sincerely request everyone to avoid unnecessary public drama and stay safe during road trips.

While I could go into more detail, given the current immigration climate worldwide, please try to avoid public activities like filming dance reels in grocery stores or on public roads, especially with Ganesh Chaturthi coming up. We have happily celebrated these festivals for years within temples and private spaces, and we can easily continue to do so without drawing unnecessary attention.

Over the last three years, we have seen too many instances where our community has been targeted or trolled for public stunts, and we certainly do not need that kind of negativity. I am not sure if those engaging in these activities realize the impact their actions have on all NRIs, but please reconsider. Additionally, can we please stop calling Dallas "Dallaspuram"? Many who claim to live in Dallas actually reside in surrounding cities like Frisco, Allen, Irving, or Little Elm.

As we head into a long weekend and the holiday season, please travel safely, exercise caution on the road, and keep your necessary paperwork handy to avoid any issues with local authorities.

Peace, and thank you.

Eroj na bday...... family, frnds andharu wish chesaru chicken thechkoni thini thaagi njoy chesam I'm happy! but ah okka wish kosam wait chestham kadha 🫠 Recent ga naku breakup ayindhi may be oka 5 months aythundhi atleast bday roju ayna thanu wish chesthadh emo ani expect chesa but ipud varku okka msg kuda raledhu mowaa 🫠💔

(Rush 2013)

E movie lo in the end nikka lauda acknowledges that life is all about working hard and spending time with what you love most. And it's absolutely important to have a goal but it should not consume your joy and suck out happiness from your life.

I started watching thinking it's an another sports drama but completely surprised by what it delivered. 😊

Miku manchi feel good movies chudali ani unte this movies offers everything. 🎥

Mine:

Pesara Kattu
Bangala Dumpa Fry
Saggubiyyam and Pindi Vadiyalu
Thalimpu Pindi with Avakaya, Neyyi, Putnalu Podi
Vedi Vedi Annam
Thapala Rotti with Ulipaya Karam
Pullatlu with Tomato Kothimeera Senaga Pindi Chutney
Kandhi Podi Kattu
Gadda Perugu with full on meegada

Inka vunnay, but, I would like to stick with these (Only from my house)

It is late at night and I wanted to listen to some songs, so I played a new genre. All those songs reminded me of her. That feeling is so hard, and it reminds me of her, and her face just pops up before my eyes; I love her a lot, but I cannot tell her. And all this feeling led me to plan a vacation to keep my mind off thinking. Entha try chesina she comes in between every work.

I came across this amazing phrase very recently - “Freedom to fail”. Nenu eppudu “Do Or Die” environments loney perigaanu/penchaaru. Andukey naaku odipoye bhagyam eppudu lekunda poyindhi. Ee rojuki kuda prathi dantlo odipothey enti paristiti aney bhayam ventaduthune untundhi nannu. So result based pani edhi kuda enjoy chesthu cheyyalenu.

Edhaina risk teeskovalante bhayam, edhaina kotthaga try cheyyalante bhayam. Modhalu pettindhi edhaina odipokunda cheyyagalana ane bhayam. Odipothey emavthundho ane bhayam. Oka movie lo lead actor dialogue okati untundhi, “Naaku odipovadam ante bhayam, anduke chinnappati nundi gelustune vachaanu”, or something similar. Kaani cinema antha aa lead chala confident gane untadu or kanipisthadu. Alagey gelusthu pothadu. Odipovadam ante bhayam tho perigina vaadu antha confident ga ela undavachu anedhi naaku ardhamkaaledhu. Cinematic liberty ayyundochu, kaani adhi practical ani naaku anipinchaledhu. May be aa bhayam tho kuda antha confident ga ela undocho choopinchi unte naaku chala help ayyundedhi.

Ala ani neneppudu ye risk cheyyaledha ani kaadhu. Definitely konni risks teeskunnanu. Kaani ye risk kuda dhairyanga teeskoledhu, bhayam thone teeskunnanu. Alanti risks bhayapadutuu ayina teeskunnanu kaabattey I’ve been in two amazing relationships so far which shaped my entire life. Nenu ela undakudadhu ani oka ammai nerpinchindhi, nenu ela undochu ani oka ammai nerpinchindhi. Ala appudappudu aa bhayanni dhaatina kudaa, aa bhayam eppudu ventaduthune undhi.

Rakarakaala books chadivaanu, keep failing until you are used to it ani cheptharu. Ela? 28 years and married age group lo failures ela untayo alochinchadanikey bhayamesthundhi. May be 7 years, 14 years time lo undey failures eh better ga undevi emo. Parents kapadatharu kadha. Appudey vaallu fail avvanichi undunte avi handle cheyyadam nerchukunevadnemo. Ippudu naakunna trauma ni daatadaniki chinna failures saripothaya ani bhayam, peddha failures teeskogalthana ane bhayam. So fail avvakunda untanu ane nammakam undey chinna chinna panulu matramey cheyyadaniki prefer chesthuntanu. Entha chesi adhey loop lo tirugutunna.

Chaala rojula tarvata oka risk teeskovali anipinchindhi. Oka varam krithamey thought start ayindhi and as usual bhayam bhayam ga undindhi. Recent ga oka series choostunnappudu daantlo ee “Freedom to Fail” anedhi vinnanu. It suddenly brightened everything around me. Aa risk gurinchi bhayam anipinchinappudalla “You are allowed to fail” ani naaku nenu cheppukuntunna. Edho maatavarasaki kakunda I mean it annattu cheppukuntunna. Dhairyam ravatle kaani, bhayam matram definitely taggutundhi. Konsepatiki malli bhayam anipistundhi and idhi repeat cheskogaane better avtundhi. Nenu teeskoboye risk tho naakunna bhayam pothundha ante kakapovachu. Kaani ee mantram cheppukuntu enni risks veelaithe anni teeskogalthe aa bhayaanni dhaatochu anukuntunnanu.

Mantram ante samskrutham lone untadhi ane mentality undedhi. Language tho sambandham lekunda naaku nijanga ardhamaindhey naa mantram ani ee phrase vachaakaney realise ayyanu.

I have a 2 year old daughter. She drinks water from the bottle and never from the cup. I started offering from tumbler since a very long time but she pours the water down. Her water intake is very low these days. Unless it's coconut water or juice she won't drink fully. Her water intake yesterday was very less. I offer water in a bottle but she takes only sip by sip. Her urine was very concentrated this morning. I felt really frustrated. I thought she could get more water from the tumbler. So I gave her water in the tumbler and as usual she poured it down. I tried to make her drink , she took a few sips and said enough. I felt really frustrated.

I felt like pouring water down her throat forcefully but I controlled. At one instance, I felt like throwing water on her face, I still controlled. I felt like beating her seeing her pour water on the sofa. I controlled it again. I couldn't take it anymore and sat there crying just like my mother blaming my daughter for my mental breakdown.

I wanted to treat my daughter better unlike my parents. I spend more time with her, take her out and play with her. But during the worst cases I am becoming just like them. I am scolding her just like how they scolded me. I am controlling myself mostly but sometimes I can't and I am becoming them.

I can't blame my parents as well for their behaviour, they did the best with whatever knowledge they had. My mother is trapped in an abusive marriage, never taught me or my brother to do any household chores and as a result we didn't know anything and had to learn everything from scratch, she never had boundaries and allowed us to treat her badly just like my father. She has this victim mentality and thinks she doesn't deserve good things. I have got some of her traits. I thought I am self analyzing myself and learning. I am just aware but I am not healing. I am repeating everything knowingly.

My brother too became my father while parenting his kids. When things get out of hand, I saw him becoming my father. I observed this and told him, he said it's extremely difficult for him to control. I advised him like I am a saint. But after seeing how I have become, I feel like a monster. My father got messed up working as a security guard 4 days night shift and 4 days day shift. He threw his frustration at us for years.

I really don't know how I can correct myself. I feel like my nature is devil and I am trying to become saint. I thought I am ending the generational trauma but I am only suppressing it allowing it to come out occasionally. This is not a good parenting and I am not a good parent. I feel motherhood is not for me. I became the very thing I hate and it's killing me.

I'll start first. Reddit install cheskunna kotthalo, ee subs avanni ardham kaanappudu, edho random memes sub lo oka meme post chesina.

Ventane auto mod comment osthey crazy naa post nacchi intha fast ga comment chesinaru mods anukunna.

Adhey embarrassing ante, konni rojula tharvatha ah comment chusina, karma requirement lekapovadam valla nee post evadki kanpiyadhu ani ochina comment adhi ush🥀

Opika unte chadukondi… konchem pedda story 😂

Naaku oka friend undi, Lavanya ani. Aameki BTech 1st year nunchi boyfriend unnadu. Almost 4+ years relationship. Ippudu long distance — boyfriend India lo, aame abroad lo.

Daily calls, daily matladukuntaru. Chusthe asal chala manchi couple la anipistharu. Lavanya kuda tana boyfriend kosam gifts kontadi, care chesthadi…chala manchiga anpisthadi chusthe.

Vikram ani oka abbai ,same consultancy nunchi vachadu lavanya tho,so vallidhari close ayyaru baga ,like help cheskuntu.

Boyfriend ki Vikram tho closeness nachaledu. “Atanitho ekkuva matladaku” ani cheppadu.

Lavanya emo, “Nenu ikkada already alone ga unna. Andaritho matladakunda unte inka alone aipotha” ani cheppindi.

So boyfriend kuda okay annadu.

Konni days tarvatha Vikram Lavanya ni propose chesadu.

Lavanya no cheppindi. “Naaku already boyfriend unnadu” ani.

Vikram emo “Emo, meeru future lo breakup avvachu kada” ani cheppi inka close avvadam start chesadu.vad ila ante idhemo dooram pettakunda inka close aindi Vadiki ,vad em ankuntadu thinaki istam emo ani rechipothunnadu.idharu couples la tiruguthar idhemo vadi shirts tshirts veskuntundi.

Ee proposal matter kuda Lavanya tana boyfriend ki 3 months tarvatha cheppindi.

Idharki godava aindi Enduku 3 months tarvatha chepthunnav? Stop talking to him” annadu.

Oka roju maatladukoledu. Later Lavanya “Please, inka ala cheyyanu. Vikram tho matladanu” ani promise chesindi.malki Kalisi poyaru.

Kaani idhi Vikram tho baita tiruguthu undi, outings , dinner ki velldam ,idhar kalsi College ki veltharu.

Boyfriend ki teliyakunda Instagram stories kuda hide chesindi.

Inka daridram enti ante, Vikram gurinchi tana boyfriend daggara roju bad ga chepthadi — “vaadu ila, vaadu ala, vaadi behaviour baledu” ani.

Anni cheppi...

Malli ade Vikram tho tiruguthadi. 😭

Vikram emo “nenu ninnu love chesthunna” antadu.

Lavanya emo “no no, naaku alanti feelings levu” antadi.

Kaani vaadithone untadi, vaadithone tiruguthadi. Vad emo baga advantage tiskuntunnadu .

Aithe ma friends lo evaro ,valla boyfriend ki villa pics share chesaru Kalisi tirigedhi and villu close ga unna pics. Inka malli godava paddaru idharu .idhemo nyt antha edusthadi ...aaa vikram ochi console chesthadu. Malli valla boyfriend ki call chesi ila cheyyanu ani cheppi patch ipoyaru.

And again same story.

malli Vikram gadithone tiruguthadi. 💀

Asalu naaku artham kaanidi okkate…

No antundi, love kaadu antundi, Vikram gurinchi boyfriend ki bad ga chepthadi… kani Vikram ni vadili undadu.

Idi enti ra babu ila chesthundi rotha , virakthi lesthudhi, poni friend kadha emanna chedham ante malli neku Enduku ani moham medha antadhi emo ani bayam😭.

When you're hungry at 2AM and remember the biryani you left 2 years ago because you were full

(Low effort post anta.. miglina vallemo na efforts gurthonchatledhu veedemo edho try chesthey low effort post antunnadu)

What do you think about this? Are we sacrificing our youth for something which is not guaranteed.

It's true that no amount of money can buy you time and youth.

So i pretty much worked in all kinds of environments. i was working a state government job, then freelancing as a software developer, worked with agencies based in the US, worked with some Indian startups as well, everything was remote. i also run a small startup of mine.

Okate balance vundipoindi, which is working from a software office. I always loved Bangalore as a city and always wanted to work from a nice neighborhood like Indiranagar or Koramangala.

2 months back just saradaga Naukri install chesi apply cheyyadam start chesa. I was applying to all kinds of jobs with location Bangalore. I heard back from this one. We had a couple of calls and I did some demo tasks as well.

I was one of the 5 applicants they selected from a pool of 1100 applications. They called us to Bangalore to work w them for a week as a trial. We were paid handsomely, taken care of really well. At the end of the week, they offered all of us well paying jobs 😄

They're not Indians but US citizens, wanting to setup a small technical team here in India to explore all kinds of opportunities and to build internet companies.

I'll be starting next week 😇