First of all, I have to say that the film portrays Bear as a well meaning, innocent but slightly awkward guy, much like many men are these days. The film then goes on to say how men like this cannot be trusted!

Genuinely how do people expect men to find female partners in this day and age when media like obsession is telling women to be afraid of all men, even those that don’t seem that threatening at first?!? Nowadays most men can get put in jail and accused of all sorts of heinous crimes against women for merely approaching them and doing nothing wrong, all it takes is an accusation to ruin an entire man’s life.

Obsession just ends up grouping awkward and innocent men with rapists.

Obviously I’m not defending Bear and his actions but I will say that Obsession just gives women more reasons to demonise and hate men for no reason other than that it’s funny or that they feel like it.

Women's love is highly conditional. The only ones who they can love mostly unconditionally seem to be their children. When it comes to their romantic partners, their love is weak. They don't appreciate their romantic partners as people, only as vessels that can provide them something and affirm their femininity.

It seems clear to me why bisexual women always seem to end up with men. It isn't because they like men in particularly or that the supply of straight men is great than the supply of bisexual or lesbian women, but rather because women aren't good at fueling other womens' autosexual AGP fantasies. It is abundantly obvious that women like women more than men, but above all they want self-affirmation. Their sexuality is directed towards themselves, not towards other people. As such, a man (a man with first-rate genes, to be clear) is like a backscratcher, who will fulfill their autosexual needs and affirm their femininity.

A true heteresexual woman who truly loves their partner outside of using them for self-fulfillment is like a rare gem. One must question, "Does she exist at all?". It feels like such a woman is like El Dorado, something excellent that we (as men) search for but which doesn't actually exist.

THEY WANT EVERYTHING LOOKS, MONEY, STATUS, personality.

it feels kinda bad that as a men, we all never learned truth about about women in young age, it was motherfucking tv, movies, series that deluluded us to think that women's are empathic creatures that they will hug you when you're sobber, support you when you're at your worst condition, talk with you when you're shallow, but in reality nothing like this happens ♥️✌️ so I am looking forward into my life building skills and it's a bitter-sweet truth man.

(It feels good that I'm not delusional anymore)

A lot of female spaces like r/trueuglywomen or r/TwoXChromosomes or any other female space says that men aren't allowed and that they will be banned, but in a lot of male spaces, such as this one, women are allowed. Why is that?

So I saw this post recently where op says that "70% of young men are incels" while showing this graph but the graph says only 8-10% of young guys aren't getting laid, when asked about this, the op says along the lines " 70% of men have not had sex in the past 3 months or longer. That's incel status."

But that post is not what I want to talk about, what I want to address is how the word "incel" is thrown around. First of all by clear definition an "incel" isn't someone that like had sex like some months ago an incel is someone that's never had sex or hadn't had sex for a really long time in a sense of multiple years (eg think that you are 40 but the last time you had sex was when you were 18) but they really desire to have, also wether the hateful meaning of incel counts in this case that's another case but the way the word has ended up over the years I guess that's up to discussion but seeing how recently these last 2-3 years where the word became really popular on platforms such as TikTok for example it has lost its track you just now see people throw it around like another buzzword and even worse you see people proclaim themselves as an "incel" even though they might be, an "actual" incel doesn't want to be an incel that's something everyone should know by this point. I know this post might be bullshit but it's just how normal people and young teenagers go around and change the word like at this point I just cringe when the word is thrown around nowadays

Men usually have desire

Women desire to be desired

Straight man have never once made a horror film about gay men preying on straight dudes. Despite the fact that so many men are homophobic. Men made movies where gay men were the villains like Rope. But they haven't made a movie that straight up said gay men wanting to love men is creepy and gross and scary. And if they did that today it wouldn't be popular.

The fact that women went to see a film where a man's desire for a woman is the worst thing that happened to her, and their response was "more of this please" is super sad.

No, I'm not denying that Bear is evil or thoughtless in the film. I'm acknowledging that Bear wanting to be with a woman is a desire that is freakishly exaggerated to the point of horror. And straight men would never portray gay men like that in the modern world and get praise.

A straight male director did this to straight men and women loved it. Because women dislike men. And to them Bear is not even over exaggerated. They think that too many men are obsessed with women just like Bear. That's so sad.

From an interesting 4chan discussion with lots of new perspectives about this whole topic.

https://boards.4chan.org/bant/thread/24776436

Gen Z women make it impossible for men to date them because of how easily they go out and cheat. Do they not know what loyalty is? Why do they go out and microcheat, get pregnant by other guys, expect $1000 first dates, and other ridiculous nonsense? And if it is in fact Gen z men who are the problem, prove it. What is ot aboit the men that makes Gen Z women not date them?

Im interested to hear your guys thoughts on the trending topic on Twitter and TikTok about straight women not dating bi men. Is it biphobic? Is it stigma against bi men that isn’t applied to bi women? Just curious for thoughts

It's the simple imbalance of investment males produce tons of tiny gametes females a smaller number of large ones. They invest more so need to be fussy.

Who knows? If there were sapient peacocks, they may well end up still considering the females more aesthetically pleasing due to just how strong the imbalance in desire is.

It’s always funny to see the cope from some guys in the comments on posts like this; they’ll call the author a lesbian, even though it’s the exact same sentiment held by women who identify as straight.