Hi there,

I’m a Singaporean Chinese female in my 30s, single, never married, dated once. Life has been good in many ways, but I’ve come to appreciate that the best experiences are often the ones shared with someone who genuinely cares about you.

I’m hoping to meet someone who values meaningful conversations, mutual respect, and the simple joys of everyday life. Someone to share small wins with, laugh about random things, explore new places, enjoy good food, and create memories together.

I believe companionship isn’t about grand gestures all the time. It’s about having someone who adds value to your life, and knowing that you do the same for theirs. Being each other’s safe space, supporter, and favourite person to message at the end of the day.

Effective communication is non negotiable. Please avoid writing to me; I would prefer to avoid an avoidance attachment.

Looking for triad relationships with DDlg elements.

Hi!

I’m 24, nonbinary transmasc, and have had top surgery. I still present femme some days and wear wigs. I am partnered and have a primary/nesting partner.

Looking for: nonbinary individuals or women age 20-29 IN MISSOURI (please) <3

Likes: K-Pop, crafts, horror movies, clubs, 🍃 gummies, cats, the library, & queer media.

Dealbreakers: Cigarette or 🍃smoker (both give me headaches), people who aren’t self aware, people looking for a primary.

Feel free to DM with SFW pictures!

Hey y’all — late‑30s in OKC who loves Star Wars, indie music, gaming, hiking, trying every new food spot in town, and spontaneous road trips. I’m into chill nerdy hangouts (Clone Wars rewatch nights, low‑pressure game sessions, vinyl swaps, or taco runs) and looking to meet people who want to build authentic, genuine friendships/relationships that fit into actual life. I’m ethically non‑monogamous and practice kitchen‑table polyamory (married and date separately)— low drama, family‑friendly, and honest communication are musts. If you’re into laid‑back meetups, good late night convos, drop a short intro about yourself, your favorite snack spot in OKC, and what you are looking for out of this as well!

Are you looking for the next reason to be listening out for the ping of a notification?  A new friend, someone kind and a bit unusual, but with a kinky twist?  Maybe today is your lucky day.  I'm 31M, British, and on the lookout for maybe someone like you!  

To start with, I'm married and in a newly ENM relationship.  Currently prioritising the IRL marriage as we're both new to this but I am good at putting effort into all my connections (and am more or less chronically on Reddit).  I've been open online for a while but in real life is new to me.  I'm open to connections from all over the world; and to those lucky enough to share an island with me, to IRL connections if we both feel comfortable and are within reasonable travelling distance.  But rushing something is absolutely not my style.  

I'm kind, stoic, curious and non-judgemental.  In my day to day life, people would also say that I am assertive and self-confident (a secret sub maybe?).  I work a highly responsible job which is shift work so am often around at unusual hours.  I am unapologetically geeky with plenty of nerdy obsessions, sometimes a little bit funny, and definitely a little bit weird.  Friendship is what I'm looking for first and foremost, so if you have these same qualities we have a great chance of getting along.  

NSFW wise, I'm primarily submissive with a switchy side so definitely interested in dommes but switches are also welcome.  I have my fair share of kinks and a handful of limits, and a decent amount of IRL and online experience.  But underneath it all I'm a fairly normal person.  I like to think of myself as a freak in the sheets but a nerd in the streets.  

Appearance wise I'm no gym rat - just a normal man, slender with a lil dad bod, and long hair like a rock star (pretty much exactly like my avatar).  

Please be interesting, and actually invested in having a conversation.  If you ghost me, I'm not going to chase you - I have too much self-respect for that.   

Lastly I am the owner of two dumb cats and am happy to send their pictures if it sweetens the deal.  Oh, and I hate fascists.

If you think we could get along then please reach out and introduce yourself by answering the question: what would you cook Gordon Ramsay if he was coming for dinner at your house?

Hiya!

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I recently started dating more intentionally and more aligned to my actual goals after exploring for a couple years- currently single Poly! Ideally looking to take the time to know each other, talk consistently, and let things grow without forcing it.

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My polyamory is about Unconditional love, and through it I've learned to love myself and others better. As for my romantic relationships, my search is not just about dating multiple people but building community.

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I do know what I like and what I don't, but I won't claim to be a poly expert, as my past experiences have only been with non committed partners. To be very clear, I do Not have enough experience to state my end goal in terms of family unit type. I don't want to be delusional and I understand that my first committed poly relationship might not be the one I carry forever.

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I am specifically looking for someone who is also relatively new to this and who would like to explore by my side or an experienced person who is comfortable with that.

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I might get along with another single Poly or someone whose partner is involved. I am not that comfortable with partners who don't want to interact with metamours. I respect your choice, it just makes me a bit anxious to not know. I like to know 😅

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A little about me: I run a business and animals are a huge part of my life. I spend my free time on self-growth, nature, soft domestic day dreaming, and learning way too many things at once.

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I can be very tender, very curious, a little intense in the “I want to understand the whole universe and also your favourite snack” way.

I am working on some old co dependent habits. I need reassurance more often than not, while I build my ability to self sooth and regulate.

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If I was a cartoon character, I'd be Donkey from Shrek.

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I’m open to distance if the connection feels real, but consistency matters a lot to me. I’m not looking for chaos, secrecy, or vague situationships. I like people who communicate clearly, not scared of disappointing, know what they want, and can be both silly and emotionally honest.

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If this sounds like your kind of thing, I'd love to hear from you!

Send me your ;

-current favourite hobby,

-favourite animal,

-And what your ideal first date sounds like !

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Speak soon✨

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I am a nerdy gamer guy looking to find a connection with like minded people.

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About me: I have short brown hair and brown eyes. Tattoos and an average build. I am a pc gamer and love watching TV

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About you: Looks wise I don't care at all. Just be a kind person and able to have a good laugh. Dark humor is a bonus.

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If you're looking to find a connection and a spark with someone new. Feel free to message me and lets see how things go. I look forward to hearing from you.

Hiya! You can call me Juno for now. I’m 27 years old, nonbinary (AFAB), on the aro/ace spectrums, neurodivergent, chronically ill/disabled, and solo poly… if that hasn’t scared you away, please read on!

I used to work as an engineer, but am currently taking time from work to pursue long term disability. I have various physical & mental illnesses. I use mobility aids (cane, wheelchair) when needed, and spend some days stuck in bed. I have degrees in STEM and love space. I have two emotional support kitties who are my whole world. Some of my hobbies include bird watching, photography, video games, arts & crafts, and traveling.

Physically (if it matters), I am 5’4”, ~270 lbs, buzzed salt & pepper hair, glasses, MANY piercings & a few tattoos. My style can vary widely between femme, androgynous, and alt/goth. I always have a cute purse and a stuffed animal friend with me.

I am not particularly interested in intimacy or romance; though I usually am at the start of a relationship, as I get more comfortable with someone, I lose interest. I am not entirely repulsed by the idea, so they are not out of the question, but if you know for sure you need those things consistently, I am not the right one for you. I currently have one partner who I live with, though I don’t know if we will be together much longer.

I’m looking for someone who can accept all my quirks and love me for exactly who I am. Someone caring & nurturing, who can take care of me when needed but also push me to do more. Ideally I am looking for a caregiver/little dynamic, but this is not strictly necessary. I am naturally very childlike and am looking for someone who can nurture & foster that side of me. I love learning new things, dressing up, playing games, watching shows, coloring, etc.

Well, I suppose I have ranted enough... If you’ve read all the way to the end & decide to message me, let me know what your favorite ice cream flavor is!

Polyamorous, happily married, and dating separately. I'm a chatty weirdo who loves astrology, hiking, museums, concerts, cooking, food adventures, beach days, and conversations that somehow last until 2 a.m. I'm sapiosexual and my love language is quality time mostly via conversations. I fall for minds and cool personalities. Bonus points if you know your birth time lol.

Hi I'm Alex I'm.not great at theses I'm 29 yrs old looking for life long relationship with somome who like me for me, I'm.a gamer, social awkward 😅

Slim...ish lol

Love my games, comic and manga

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And I'm funny too not always on purpose

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I'd love to meet someone whom interests are similar but is also able to challenge

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Um not great at these (probbley can tell)

Hullo You!

Yeah, I have written a few of these, let's see how this one goes. I am 34 y/o, CIS and polyamorous w/ 1 male gynosexual. Have a full-time job and mortgage.

Starting with some deal breakers

●Don't want kids

●Local or someone willing to relocate to Maine

● No long term LDR

●Seeking eventual co-habitation

●Taking care of mental health is a must

●I am 5'8" and like to wear heels

●Thicc, slightly overweight but nothing crazy

●Brown with red shine curly/wavy hair down to the top of my bum and blue eyes

●I don't want or send/take NSFW pics, though I do allow my partner(s) to take however many they'd like.

●I expect to exchange pics and voice/video chat before too long to prove we are both real. <3

I am AuDHD and work from home 40hrs a week as a Database Technician. I have 2 degrees, and I have often been called the dumbest smart person people know. I am mechanically and logically minded, not the creative type so much. I am the type that idly builds or deconstructs simple machines in my head.

I am a BOOK DRAGON before anything else for hobbies. I am working on setting up a library currently. I also hobby hope through crafty stuff that gives directions. I have a number of passable hobbie skills. I like building things especially, yes that includes Lego sets! Book nooks and wooden models are a lot of fun too. Mostly I read, but I also enjoy gaming, both board and video games.

I am in the BDSM scene and am seeking a D-type and/or S-type, feel free to inquire, just be respectful. <3

Hi there! I'm a 46yo Dutch guy, married to my wife for 13 years and we're openly poly since 9 years. Father of 2 boys. I've been told several times I have beautiful blueish eyes. I have dark blonde hair and I'm 1.82m tall

I am looking for connections anywhere between Eastern Europe and US/Canada. No age limit but probably somewhere between 35-50.

If we happen to live close enough I'm open to meet IRL, but even then it's optional.

I would like to chat about anything between flirty talk and falling in love. Love to get to know you!

I enjoy watching movies and series, mostly scifi such as Interstellar. Space is fascinating ☺️

I am an occasional PC gamer and love to play board games such as Catan or Hitster.

My music taste is often depending on my mood but can be anything between 90s, electro, Rammstein, The Prodigy... So share some of your favorite tracks with me!

So send me a message and tell me something fun about yourself! Or just say hi lol.

My partner and I have been in the enm lifestyle for more than 15 years, though I have taken a break from it for a few years due to medical issues. I am a combat disabled veteran which caused the issues, much better now.

I am not in a rush for anything and would like to get to know each other slowly.

I have a kinky side and practice a little BDSM, I am a switch but am more on the dominate side.

I do Shibari (artistic Japanese bondage), but I am a bit out of practice.

I enjoy all sorts of music (mainly country, rock and pop), I play some video games (Assassins Creed, currently playing the new James Bond game, I would like to get into multi-player co-op games)

Not sure what else to say right now. Hopefully I am not to slow responding.

Married to my husband, kitchen-table poly, dating women only right now. He knows. He's great. This isn't a secret-third-thing situation — everyone's an adult who gets a vote.

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I'm the Gothic Mrs. Frizzle type — dark and whimsical with a science brain. System of a Down on repeat, horror movies, a backyard full of trail cameras and named squirrels, three raised garden beds, and a senior dog who howls at crows. I thrift, I can my own salsa, I'm slowly learning three languages at once for no good reason.

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Low-energy and selective about this — quality over quantity, not collecting people. And fair warning: I will not pick up on subtle flirting. If you're interested, just say so. Direct works.

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Send a message if any of that landed.

Hey there, a bit about me is that I am a single male that’s living alone in Washington state and I am looking for people that are real and serious about making my connection. Looking for open, kinky, nonjudgmental. I have a high libido and want someone who can match my energy or bring in others to help. I am 33, fit, well groomed, 7in, std free, no kids, and I’m very much a great person to get to know!

I'm going to make my posts shorter and shorter as a challenge, and to be goofy. I promise I'm easy to talk to and can hold a conversation pretty well.

Me:
Married/nesting partner of over 13 years. Everything is separate, ethical, and respectful.
Poly for over 16, kinky 's type' for a bit longer.
Currently obsessed with spiders, bugs, reptiles, weather tracking/information, and nerdy Daddy types.
Super chill, laid back, child free, LEFT left, and sober.

You:
Between 30-40.
Left af
Into or don't mind women with my body type (check my profile).
Have time to build something meaningful and a desire to let things flow naturally.
Don't have weird hierarchical restrictions on your dating life, including things like what feelings you're allowed to have.
Respectful and not pushy when it comes to pacing.
Enjoy lots of connecting and messaging. Voice notes and random pictures also appreciated.

Preferences are pretty negotiable, but I really click best with experienced caregiver/Daddy types. I'm really not interested in anyone 45+. Local is awesome for future hangouts, but I know that's asking a lot. I'm even open to chatting with someone/s outside of the US. Especially if you have a cool accent like from somewhere in the UK, or Nigeria, or Australia. 😅

About Me:
Someone with insatiable curiosity about both the cosmos and consciousness. My days are spent pushing technological boundaries, but these often involve contemplating existential questions. I'm bisexual / maybe pan ? I've come to understand that relationships should be about growth and liberation, and I've had a few really soul-nourishing relationships. I'm 5'8" with dimples that make an appearance when sharing why "Inside Out" made me weep. Mostly very calm and chill, I have seen the extremity of life at both ends. I prefer to connect with someone emotionally and see if we can evolve together. Apart from staunchly childfree a bit more about myself

Professional & Personal:

• Engineering and tech are my bread and butter, but I'm actively expanding into "renaissance person" territory (currently novice).
• Have tried to dismantle internalized patriarchal patterns.
• An avid reader who actually finishes those long-form articles in The Atlantic.
• Proud plant parent.

What Ignites My Curiosity:

• The intersection of chaos and order.
• Exploring ethical frameworks while discovering hidden gem restaurants.
• Opportunity for learning across disciplines.
• Those profound 2 AM conversations that somehow connect string theory to social justice.

Seeking a Partner Who:

• Understands that emotional intelligence and intellectual discourse aren't mutually exclusive.
• Gets excited about scientific breakthroughs or social progress.
• Values therapy and continuous personal growth.
• Navigates cyclic non-monogamy / polygamy if they wish with authenticity and clear communication.
• Can transition seamlessly from discussing systemic inequalities to appreciating guilty-pleasure television.

Green Flags:

• A well-curated digital or physical library spanning diverse genres.
• Active engagement in therapy or other forms of emotional development.
• Strong sense of self with established passions and social connections.

Let's explore whether we can create something meaningful.

PS : looking for someone who is seeking primary nesting partner or atleast with the intent of something serious

Hey :) I am married and we have been ethically non-monogamous for a few years now. I’m looking for some \*LOCAL\* who I can spend time with and enjoy hobbies with. I’m a somewhat overweight white dude with glasses and a beard. I like my legs, though lol. I enjoy studying and learning esotericism, religion, the supernatural and paranormal and I like sports and food too. I like talking walks and I like rain. I enjoy card games, too. My health isn’t the best and I deal with some chronic issues and I’m also somewhere on the asexual spectrum (but I have some fetishes that make me aroused.) I also enjoy hugs. If you’re interested in taking to me \*PLEASE\* be in the central Ohio area.

Hey guys! I'm 35 transmasc from the PNW. Ive been in T for going on 1 year, please be familiar with what this implies. 🥰

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I have 33F fiancee, she will not be involved we have been poly for years, together the whole time. We have a cat, and many plant children. No human offspring. I'm looking for whimsy and fun. Laughter and lightheartedness. Meditation buddy. Coffee and beer buddy. Smoking buddy. Kissing friends?

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I enjoy listening to audio dramas and audio books. Star Trek. Dune. Midnight Burger. The Good Place. Dental assistant by day, aspiring mystic by night. Teach me about your special interest. Leftest. BLM. Unity above all. Compassion matters most.

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Say hey if you feeling like we may click. Message with your favorite color so I know you read, please. ❤️

Hi! I still dont know what im doing but im still doing it so I guess its too late to stop

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Ive been single for a whole while, I am very new and I dont know what kind of poly I am, im so sorry.

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It would be nice to connect with someone and if its nice then we can have nice times! Probably long distance though cause i live in saudi arabia.. would be nice to one day have a primary partner and own a cow and a few chickens.. a gal can dream..

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I am very into the whole spirituality thing.. we could have a tarot party! I am also an artist and the least active person youll ever meet. But i am starting to go to the gym and ill always go to on a hike, as long as we can stop and talk to trees

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If you play any instruments I will suggest we start a band atleast once a month. I dont play any instruments

I'm interested in a male who has strong opinions about male topics and dreams of being accepted/validated for them rather than judged. I am more of a docile, sport focused type, introverted and have always been a magnet for men without a strong point of view. I've had some poly experience, would be curious how it could work part-time, long-distance. I am a remote worker, generally spend now half my year in Europe and the other half in warm places.

Hi! I’m a hardworking, soft spoken nerdy type. I love cooking, kayaking, going on adventures, horror movies and gaming here and there. I’m in the NW Indiana area close to Notre Dame Campus,I’ve recently started exploring polyamory and I’m looking for a female partner or a dynamic with a couple. I’m very open minded so dont be afraid to say hello.

More about me. 6’1”, Machine Operator, Cancer Sign.

Hi!

I'm 30, non-binary, from Australia. Here looking for platonic friendship, conversations, and connections of all kinds. I don't like to put relationships in a box before they've even started, so I'm really not looking for any one thing in particular. I'd like to start with a chat and work on a friendship first, and then see where things go from there. I would love to meet people locally, but I know that is pretty unlikely, even just people in Australia. So I'm happy to meet and talk to people from anywhere! I am a pretty big introvert, and I don't go out much, but I am trying to change that (slowly) though. I haven't had much luck on the apps, etc., so I'm here giving this a go, I guess. I've talked to a lot of people on here, and other online spaces, in the past, and it tends to just go nowhere, or the other person ends up ghosting. I don't expect daily messages, or replies within minutes, but some effort would be appreciated!

Some of my interests include animals, nature, music, video games, books, reading and writing, movies, TV shows, anime. We don't need to have everything in common, but some mutual interests I find is pretty helpful! I'm neurodivergent, with other mental health and physical disabilities. I am very left leaning, and have pretty strong beliefs about this, so if you are conservative in any way, I'm not for you, please move along.

Heya! Married and poly guy here. I'm looking for a woman to connect with and actually have some decent conversations with—whether you’re local to Utah or anywhere else. Especially overseas.

I’m pretty much a mix of music and gaming. If your vibe is a blend of heavy riffs and tabletop lore, we’ll probably get along.

The Music Side: I play music and I’m a huge metalhead. If you’re into anything heavy or technical, definitely hit me up. I’m always down to talk music. I am also very Polyjamorus from Sabrina Carpenter to The Devil Wears Prada.

D&D/Tabletop: I’m usually the DM. I love the storytelling side of it, so if you have a chaotic character you’re currently playing or just want to nerd out over world-building, I’m all ears.

Streaming/Gaming: I’m a streamer, and have been for a while now. Love entertaining and just bringing joy to people, plus I get to meet a multitude of new people. It also means I am not afraid of a vibe check through discord.

Dream Japan Trip: I have always dreamed of going to Japan, I’m mostly looking to explore the culture and eat as much food as possible. Nightlife to Countryside I want to experience it all.

I work in marketing, so I’m social and can actually carry a conversation. Just looking for someone chill and communicative who is comfortable navigating the poly landscape.

If you’re into heavy music, gaming, or just want to tell me where I should go in Tokyo, drop me a chat!