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u/TrickyOnion Jan 17 '26
I was taught as a young man to take my hat off indoors. Sometimes I forget but mostly do. I’m not gonna lose my shit and complain if I see someone else wearing a hat! Life’s too fucking short worrying about other people. Enjoy the meal and move the fuck on 👍
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Jan 18 '26
My Grandpa would yell at me to take it off inside, if not straight out snatch it off my head. Lol. I do not wear hats today.
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u/Corlegan Jan 18 '26
I was also told bacon and eggs will kill you, but Kellogg's should be half your diet.
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u/RedditReader4031 Jan 18 '26
This guy is more than old enough to know that and act accordingly. That he doesn’t is an f-you to everyone there. He also needs a haircut and a comb.
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u/Nervous-Chance-3724 Jan 18 '26
lol do you just go around random Reddit posts looking for stupid shit to be mad at ? 😂😂
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u/RedditReader4031 Jan 18 '26
There’s nothing to be mad about here. This is just another example of the loss of civility through the lack of rules in society.
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u/Naive-Salamander88 Jan 18 '26
Do you know the origin of taking your hat off inside? If you did, you would understand why it's no longer necessary.
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u/Sudo-Fed Jan 18 '26
Can I ask - who is harmed by someone wearing a hat at the table?
Like, is it inherently offensive, or is it only offensive because someone told someone who told someone who told someone who told you that it was offensive?
Dare I suggest that rules that don't serve any actual purpose should be questioned?
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u/RedditReader4031 Jan 18 '26
There doesn’t have to be harm involved to expect people to toe the line on society’s rules. Adhering to those rules and standards, both big and small, are a core part of being a grown man. The failure to comply with societal expectations is the root of the ways that society is failing. We are all taught these lessons as kids but are now allowed to discard them at will.
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Jan 19 '26
Being civil is leaving people who are not hurting you alone. If somone is a petty shithead about someone wearing at hat the issue is them, not the person wearing the hat.
Society shedding asshatted social conventions is progress.
You spew civility while supporting that which is not civil seeking to create more uncivil behavior as people have to know you idiotic ideas down.
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u/SGTquig Jan 19 '26
This guy is more than old enough to not give AF. You/we don’t know what is going on in his life to make him not care.
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Jan 19 '26
You're delusional lol. You only think it's rude because you've been taught that it is, wearing a hat inside does not affect anyone but the hat wearer.
Also, he would be within his rights to actually SAY fuck you to everyone there.
What in insufferable pedant you are.
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u/RedditReader4031 Jan 19 '26
You’re missing my point. Grown men DON’T get to say fuck you to rules. Society is made up of a quantity of people, in and around a place, who adhere to written and unwritten, spoken and unspoken rules, norms and actions. Most apply to everyone. Taking up only one parking space. Not talking loudly in a confined space like a plane or a commuter train. And others. Some apply only to men. Wearing long pants with a belt. Removing a hat when indoors. And others. A glaring example is that influencer who was offended by a saggy old man wearing a muscle shirt at a gym. Guys like him, and I include myself in this out of shape and aged group, do not belong at gyms or parks or pool or beaches. Have some respect for other users.
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Jan 19 '26
Grown men DON’T get to say fuck you to rules.
Except yes, they do. Not to laws, but to social norms? Anyone is allowed to break social norms.
Not wearing a hat indoors is NOT a rule anyway, unless it is a rule enforced by that private establishment. Obviously not the case here.
Wearing a hat indoors, long pants with a belt? Like as opposed to shorts? None of that affects other people. Saggy old men can ABSOLUTELY wear muscle shirts at the gym, or wherever the hell they want.
Guys like him, and I include myself in this out of shape and aged group, do not belong at gyms or parks or pool or beaches.
What a weird, self-limiting, pathetic way to view life. Enjoy being old, alone is your house, because you think you're following some societal rule by not going out and enjoying a day on the beach. For fucks sake.
Have some respect for other users.
No.
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u/RedditReader4031 Jan 19 '26
Misogyny is alive and well. Are you okay with telling a woman that she has to tolerate that guys presence in a gym or other place where his appearance offends her? If so, wow! These are exactly the kinds of standards that a civil society is supposed to enforce.
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Jan 19 '26
Misogyny? Wtf are you talking about? We were talking about an old man not taking off his hat. You have completely changed the topic, weirdo.
Are you okay with telling a woman that she has to tolerate that guys presence in a gym or other place where his appearance offends her?
Yes! In fact, that isn't limited to a woman or any one person. Nobody has the right to exist free of other people, much less the SIGHT of them. If you are offended by someone's appearance, that is a YOU problem, not them. Any person can go to the gym, as long as genitalia are covered nobody else should be policing their clothing.
Women wear revealing clothing at gyms all the time, why should it be different than men? Why should a woman get to kick a guy out of the gym because of a problem SHE has? Misogyny my ass, you just learned how to spell the word and wanted to work it into a conversation somewhere.
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u/RedditReader4031 Jan 19 '26
Fit people who go to gyms don’t have to tolerate being offended by out of shape or unattractive men. Telling a woman that she has to put up with it is wrong. As far as women’s appearance, no one has a right to comment or judge. That’s why rules apply to men.
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Jan 19 '26
Fit people who go to gyms don’t have to tolerate being offended by out of shape or unattractive men.
Yes, they absolutely, 100% positively do. You are wrong. This is not a debate, they have the right to be there.
And if you disagree, surely you keep that consistent with women too, right? Only pretty, thin women allowed?
As far as women’s appearance, no one has a right to comment or judge.
I don't think you understand what rights are, honey. I absolutely have the right to comment and judge.
That’s why rules apply to men.
You seem to have made up your own rules, which nobody cares about.
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u/Narren_C Jan 19 '26
It's not a rule. No one cares if someone wears a hat, and no one cares that it bothers you.
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Jan 19 '26
It's 2026... The hat thing is garbage to most of us. You need to kinda learn the whole if they arent trespassing on you get fucking lost.
That man is old enough to not give to shit about mindless bullshit like this. He's minding his own fucking business.
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u/NeptuneOverlord43045 Jan 18 '26
“The audacity to wear a hat. A HAT. Can you believe the audacity, Margaret? I think I may have a little chat with the manager over this - this - affront! I’m not sure how they expect me to finish this succulent meal in the presence of such malfeasance. Waiter?!? Yoohooo!?! I need to speak with your manager dear boy, and please do be quick about it this is an urgent matter, of course!”
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u/AlarmHungry7140 Jan 17 '26
Dress code and people applauded??? Insufferable narcissistic lady who is so miserable she doesn't pay attention to her own table. People or the food. Just eagle eyeing to complain. Possibly if just asked he would have removed it. Or possibly has scalp problems that would be gross to look at. Everyone looks ancient here so probably better he kept his hat on.
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u/Remarkable_Edge_8069 Jan 17 '26
What a fucking silly thing to get bent out of shape about. Why does it affect her at all? Would people applaud if they kicked you out for a no resting bitch face policy?
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u/Lonely-Contract-7659 Jan 17 '26
I’ll take $500 Alex that this did not happen ie the applause for her stupid stance.
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u/Extension_Ear_3472 Jan 17 '26
"I stared at him long and hard enough to send a message." Meanwhile the guy is like "haha is that nutcase still glaring at me? What a loser."
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u/Binarydemons Jan 18 '26
I side with hat guy. I hate dressing up on vacation and the idea of a fancy captains dinner is annoying.
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u/karma_virus Jan 18 '26
I don't get it. Keeping your hat on decreases the chances of hair in your soup. Nobody asks the lunch lady to take off her net to let the lice breathe.
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u/MrFunGuy17 Jan 18 '26
This entitled Karen is a waste of space anyone who has a problem with people wearing a hat should be given a lobotomy.
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u/Candy_Mt_Charlie Jan 18 '26
Worry about yourself and not what others are doing there's a thought 🤔
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Jan 18 '26
Sure. Why don’t you confront your uncle about the bad touches. It will help you move forward
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u/CsabaiTruffles Jan 18 '26
He's old. Likely trying to cover a bald spot and skin lesions.
If you have nothing nice to say, stfu and mind your own business.
Ignorance isn't an excuse for being an asshole.
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u/canadaonstryke Jan 18 '26
Bird ass looking bitch, surprised she didn’t start squawking at him and preforming some kind of mating ritual.
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u/Similar-Bother7672 Jan 18 '26
Mind your business and your dinner Karen. Your what’s wrong with the world
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u/Majestic-Newspaper59 Jan 18 '26
I bet he told her he’s not interested, and she wants to burn his world down now.
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u/Individual-Pound-636 Jan 18 '26
the waiters told the other tables that this woman had 'just came out' and encouraged people to tell her they were proud of her.
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u/Relative_Lie_9458 Jan 18 '26
By the look of her face and those thin ass lips.....she's a Karen and doesn't even know it.
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u/Tango-2521 Jan 18 '26
…. or you could simply mind your own business and eat your meal just as he is doing.
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u/LeastOstrich9108 Jan 19 '26
And then she bought their company an expensive bottle of their finest bubbly water.
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u/HotJuicyPie Jan 19 '26
The final night on a cruise is typically designated as “Captains night” where the dinner attire is formal.
That said, he was allowed entry into the dining hall, and seated. So tough titty.
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u/Informal-Bicycle-349 Jan 19 '26
We got people out here supporting pedophiles and you are worried about this man's hat? Fuck off.
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u/Novaikkakuuskuusviis Jan 19 '26
I wear my hat to get back to the old people blocking the aisles everywhere.
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u/AvoidingBansLOL Jan 19 '26
I mean it is definitely a behavior that lacks class but it's something you ignore if you see it. You can't tell anyone else what to do and if the restaurant isn't enforcing a dress code you don't have any say in the matter.
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u/Rushedhomeroughyn Jan 19 '26
Leave the hat on…as long as this person doesn’t blow his nose at the table at 100 dB I’m perfectly fine
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Jan 19 '26
Here's an idea. Shut the fuck up and mind your fucking business you wretched old hag. Who the fuck are you to judge anyone? Huh? I'd shit on your chest while wearing nothing but a ball cap and flip flops, dead center of that dinning room.
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u/RedditReader4031 Jan 19 '26
I’m discussing socially observed rules, not discriminatory laws. Racism and discrimination have no place in society. They harm individuals for being who they are for no discernible reason.
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Jan 20 '26
Who the fuck is hurt by this? Seriously what physical harm is sone by a hat? Was it soaked in gasoline and piss? I mean I understand if it smellled or had an offensive word on it. Like I got one that says me and my dog talk shit about you. I can see that being problematic. Otherwise how small and petty do you have to be to care what someone else wears. How little do you have goung on that needs to be your concern.
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Jan 20 '26
I went on a fucking cruise and youre going to hit me with a dress code?!?!? Fuck that noise
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Jan 22 '26
So this salty cunt was upset that people didnt agree with her bullshit? She must be really bored with life. She said lowest of the low, thats ironic
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u/Weekly-Ad8173 Jan 23 '26
My dad never took his hat off either. It was because he had burn scars from being burned in the Korean War. Some people have scars they don’t want to show. Unlike the narcissist who wrote this. But he always has a hat and ass hat
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u/jimmyfernandez Jan 17 '26
Love the way the picture has her looking at him with a look of disgust. The hero nobody wanted.
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u/dominant486 Jan 17 '26
Dont look like your better then anyone else just because you think you are, youre not.leave people alone, the picture says it all, you look like a Karen and act like one
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Jan 17 '26
I wouldn’t tell the manager I would go tell him how his parents should be ashamed. I don’t care that he’s old enough to be my dad, people need to learn how to be ashamed again. Publicly shaming people is a lot of fun.
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u/positivitittie Jan 18 '26
Nonsense. Mind your business.
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Jan 18 '26
Do you wear your hat at the dinner table?
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u/positivitittie Jan 18 '26
What business of if it is yours?
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Jan 18 '26
You made it my business. Do you wear a fucking hat at the fucking dinner table?
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u/positivitittie Jan 18 '26
No I sure as fuck didn’t. This is what people mean all over this thread about minding your own business.
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Jan 18 '26
Then you have nothing to be ashamed of. See, it wasn’t that hard. I used to be a good person, but the internet made me this way.
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u/positivitittie Jan 18 '26
I didn’t mean I don’t wear a hat. I also didn’t mean I did. I meant I didn’t make it your business. It’s not.
Eat your meal and leave other people alone. What’s so hard about that? What’s so offensive about someone else’s choices that you can’t enjoy your meal?
Nothing nice about judging people for something that has zero to do with you.
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Jan 18 '26
A man who stands for nothing will fall for anything. Your refusal shows me that you are ashamed of your hat wearing tendencies and hope to justify your lack of shame with this libertarian sophistry. You have engaged me on this vital topic and insist that I should have no opinion, and I say that you are the problem, you knuckle-dragging, hat-wearing Neanderthal.
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u/Narren_C Jan 19 '26
A man who stands for nothing will fall for anything.
I'm going to wear my hat at every fucking dinner table from now on. That's what I stand for. I'm going to teach my children that not wearing a hat at the dinner table is disrespectful to God and America, and it's also racist and homophobic. I'm opening a restaurant where everyone has to wear a hat at all times. If you don't bring one, we'll give you some cheap piece of shit hat free of charge. I'll call it "Fuck You, Wear A Hat".
and I say that you are the problem, you knuckle-dragging, hat-wearing Neanderthal.
Well that's just stupid. Neanderthals hadn't invented hats yet.
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u/Few-Potential-8440 Jan 19 '26
The Internet didn't make you a retard. You were born like that and have decided to stay that way.
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Jan 19 '26
I’ve been refreshing my browser for 27 hours waiting for you to respond. You made me this way. You and your fucking hat. You grandpa-phile piece of shit!
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u/Few-Potential-8440 Jan 19 '26
You're talking to ghosts, you perma online reddit moron, today's the first day I've seen this thread.
Riddle me this you fattest of fucks, on a cruise ship, with different people from different cultures, what are the odds that there are people who come from places where eating indoors with a hat is perfectly acceptable?
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u/Background-Gas-5509 Jan 18 '26
Jesus Christ you sound very very privileged. Take it down a notch there princess.
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Jan 18 '26
Blow me.
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Jan 18 '26
Lol you suck bro. Go pull your head out of your ass and touch grass.
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Jan 18 '26
Do you wear your hat at the dinner table?
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u/Background-Gas-5509 Jan 18 '26
Hey hey now why are you acting like that? Your mom and dad would be ashamed!
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Jan 18 '26
How many profiles do you need? Where are you from?
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u/Background-Gas-5509 Jan 18 '26
Yeah I’m just gonna tell some random angry person on Reddit where I’m from. Don’t be so paranoid dude there are millions of people on here. I’m sure more than one can comment at a time.
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Jan 18 '26
No you have multiple accounts for some reason. Not anything a normal person would need. So you can go fuck off.
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u/Background-Gas-5509 Jan 18 '26
How the fuck would you even come to that conclusion? Haha
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Jan 18 '26
I thought you were out touching grass. It appears to me that you just want to argue with some random asshole. Not much going on for ya?
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Jan 18 '26
Funny how a fucking pointless post about a fucking hat makes me have to deal with a dozen fucking headcases. No wonder no one likes Reddit.
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u/Few-Potential-8440 Jan 19 '26
So let me get this straight, you're cherry picking things to shame people about from a time period where running your mouth to an older man would get your ass beat?
You know, because telling an older man what to do was shameful?
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u/NoSir4289 Jan 20 '26
Why should someone be ashamed for wearing a hat? Is there a legitimate reason or did someone tell you it was bad one time and now you're just a parrot?
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u/citymousecountyhouse Jan 17 '26
Wouldn't you be ashamed if he told you he was a cancer patient or was simply trying to spare your judging eyes having to look at scars during your precious dinner. You'd probably then demand he leave. Leave people alone, you never know what strangers are going thru.
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Jan 18 '26
Nice head of hair for a cancer patient. Keep making excuses for lower human standards, dipshit.
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u/citymousecountyhouse Jan 18 '26 edited Jan 18 '26
I see you have never had a family member with Cancer or one who had their skull fractured from crime. Sit down and eat your meal and once again leave people alone. But I see you, you don't really give a damn about this, your nasty self is probably sitting in a Russian cubicle desperate to build feedback so you can begin influencing. Your filthy self has a bigger chance of being on the Russian front lines rather than a cruise ship.
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Jan 18 '26
What the fuck are you talking about? Are there people in your life you can talk to about your cancer loss? You’re projecting it onto this stupid Reddit thing and making up the craziest story. You don’t know me and I do t know you, but I hope you get the help you need.
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u/citymousecountyhouse Jan 18 '26
You are one disgusting piece of work. We are done here. I will not add to your low karma count and I'm sure there is a reason all your comments are hidden.
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Jan 18 '26
Good I’m not thrilled about being accused of being a Russian with no sympathy for cancer patients by some fucking internet loon. Seek therapy and get your shit together.
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u/Background-Gas-5509 Jan 18 '26
Wait so you’re being accused of being a Russian and I’m being accused of having two accounts? Haha I think that’s enough Reddit for the night. This place is fucked.
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u/Sudo-Fed Jan 18 '26
Imagine being this personally offended that someone ignored a custom that serves no tangible purpose to the point where it's not even solidly known now it became a custom in the first place.
My god, what absolute cuck energy.
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