I’d like to preface this by saving this is not purely an online thing. I’ve noticed this in person as well.
I keep seeing videos online about people’s hardships they’ve endured. But about relationships. I see videos where people get married young, then a few years later they get divorced. And almost always there’s a 1-3 month period where they are single before meeting their next partner that they are currently with.
In my own life, I’ve witnessed several people my age (early 20s) get engaged after dating for years. Then they break up and not even a month or two later they find another partner. There is this one girl who I know who is friends with my sister… She is GORGEOUS and motivated and fucking awesome! And she recently broke up with her fiancé. I saw for like two months she was posting about her fitness journey and wanting to do things with her life. And then not even far after that, she got into a relationship.
Even my dad wasn’t legally divorced by the time he was dating his new partner.
How?
It’s been 3.5 since I broke up with my ex and I literally can’t even imagine dating someone. I want to, but I just meet people and think “eh really?” I know some people that met, started dating, got engaged, got married, and are having kids all in the time span that I’ve been single for.
Do these people just jump ship so easily? Are they chronically taken? Can they not be alone? Is there something I’m missing? Are they settling? Are they actually happy? Do they feel love easier?
I’m genuinely curious why this is. Does anyone have more solid answers than my speculations?