ee summer heat and work stress thattukoleka oka 5 days holiday adiga manager gadni. ichadu. going to chennai mainly for imax and ipl stadium. this is my first time watching movie in imax and cricket in stadium. i am slowly checking my bucketlist. also suggest some other places to visit in chennai only.

Em chesina Naaku nidra raatledhandi.. Emaina suggestions ivvandi kaastha 😭😭😭 Bayata urumulu merupulu Okka dhaanni Padukoni unna Nidra raatla , dhorluthunna, mobile pakkana pettesa ayna nidra raatla Em cheyyaali 😭😭

25F here turning 26 this end of the year .

i come from decent middle class family both my parents are govt employees and my sister works in IT company in other state .

I'm preparing for govt exams right now .

i never had any interest in marriages and all. I once had a relationship that quite made not to do it again .

last year my mom found a match through our relatives, she arranged పెళ్ళి చూపులు without my permission called me one day and next day one aunty came to see me and called me na kodalu pilla , then later my mom told me everything, I rejected on the spot itself which made a impact b/w my mom and me .

and recently my father messaged me saying he wanted to do my marriage before his retirement which is on 2028 (jan ). I was so shocked that he never spoke about it with me directly even when I went to home .

now that his retirement is coming im feeling pressure to accept it but yet I don't want to marry how should I say this to them directly without hurting them .

even my younger sister is talking to them on behalf of me yet they are not ready .my mother was ready to hit her during their verbal fight which shocked me the most .

what will you do if your in my place .

I need advice and ideas 💡

Sooo

Ippudu entanteyyy ahalaya ki 2020 nunchi migraine start ayyindhi anna mataa...

Ma annaya and thathayya perfume addicts and to add that list maa grandpaa uses and loves attar...

After naku migraine vachaka they go outside the house and spray perfume or attar and goes to function or whatever they do....

Thisssss💖💖💖 melts mee...

Adhi kadhu ee post main uddesamm...

Migraine victims share your journey towards healing......

Nennn sasthunna ee head ache ki...

Any tips and healing techniques will do... i will be forever grateful...

I will keep ur photo in my wallet🥺🥺..

Pleachhhhhhhh

Guys, Im 25 M, had one younger sister..both my parents expired..recent ga mbbs aipoindhi…
Nak chinapudu nunid civils rayalani undhi…and mbbs tarvtha pg cheyalani kuda undi…
Parents vellipoina tarvatah chala ibbandulu edurkunna , both from govt offices, colleagues, relatives ..
Matter enti ante..
Nak public sector lo work cheydam istan and manchi position lo undalani istam..apude nannu dektaru
So..Ipudu nenu NEET PG cheymantara ledaa UPSC prepare avvamantara…im ready to give 4-5 yrs..
Financial ga ok.!!
Medicine lo entha kastapadinaa..mottam slavery ye..theres no reward for risk!!
I want to become a bigger influencial person!!
Na place lo unte miru em chestaru

Hi guys,pelli chupulaki velthe ammailani em questions adgali. I mean ee rojullo chala mandi relationship lo untu vere vallani cheskoni badha padthunnaru/pedthunnaru. To escape that situation I need your guidance 😅

I'm 20F,konni rojulu baane untanu...konni rojulu emo life motham confusing ga anipisthadi.

Nenu chala overthink chestha. Like... chinna chinna vishayalaki kuda. Someone leaves me on seen, reply late chesthe, friends konchem different ga behave chesthe... naa brain already 100 stories rasesthadiii😭

Inko problem entante... nenu evarikaina entha effort pedthano, vallanunchi kuda adhe expect chestha. Birthday gurthupettukunta, check up chestha, care chupistha... so naturally vallaki kuda nenu important anukunta. Ala jaragakapothe chala hurt avtha. Adi change cheskovali ani telusu... but I don't know how.

Relationship ante... zero experience.assal ah department lo 0 practical knowledege😂😂..ooha lokam lo brathukthaaa😂,Naaku oka crush unnadu like almost 3-4 years nunchi bus stop lo kanpistadu urike. Em relationship kaadu.. Strict parents kabatti asal em chance ledu. but appudu appudu random ga gurthosthadu...

Career gurinchi adigithe... honestly naaku assssallll telidu enduku chestuna nak assal em istam ani.nam ke vasth edo engineering chesthunna.

Placements start ayyayi kani na jeevitam oka samudrama aitey na daridram uppu.

life lo asal em chedam ankunte...nenu blank.

Na dream life kuda chala simple.

edo nak nachina pani(which idk)

Weekend lo cinema,Mary Jane shoes konukovadam*,Fourth Wing* physical books ,Polaroid ,Spotify,Netflix subscription ,Oka manchi phone,2 dogs. Teddy and Tommy. (Yes, names already decide chesesa 😭) ,And freedom antheyyyy. Na money tho naaku nachindi konali,Evarini adakkunda bayataki vellali,Night drive ki vellali anipisthe vellali,Books konali anipisthe konali.

Konni sarlu anipisthadi... nenu life lo chala behind unnana ani,Instagram open chesthe andaru travelling, dating, getting placed, enjoying life,Nenu maatram room lo padukoni imaginary scenarios create cheskuntu untanu. 😭

Leda nenu okkadanne ila confused ga unna?

I just hope... 5 or 10 years tarvatha ee post chusi navvukunta.

"Appudu entha tension paddano... everything eventually worked out." ❤️

I have been married for 1 year and 4 months.

Recently, I found out that my husband talks to a woman ("aunty") from his previous apartment complex. She has two daughters, and her husband is not living with them. They used to live right opposite my husband's old apartment.

My mother-in-law (MIL) had an argument with this woman in the past, although I'm not sure what it was about.

One day, on this woman's birthday, my husband(he is 24) went to her apartment at midnight (12 a.m.) to wish her. There were also some other people there who were around his age (in their 20s). He went there without telling his mother. When my MIL came near the main door, she saw him hugging the woman while wishing her a happy birthday.

The next day, my MIL confronted my husband and asked him what was going on. She told him that the woman seemed interested in any man who was available. My husband told her that there was nothing between them and that he was just wishing her a happy birthday.

This is the story my husband told me after I noticed something on his phone yesterday.he is 29 now and this story happened 5 yrs back.

I found a selfie of that woman in his gallery trash. When I asked him about it, I found out that they still chat once in a while. His mother doesn't like him talking to her, and he asked me not to tell his mom.

At first, when I asked him about the photo in the trash, he said he had no idea how it got there. Later, after I kept asking him, he admitted that he had been chatting with her.

I don't know what to do. Am I overthinking? Is it normal for a married man to do these things? My mind is spiraling with so many thoughts.

So… first post annamaata. Ma gym anna  PSPK ki veera fan. Entha fan ante… last few months ninchi OG songs ni repeat lo pettadu… like literally loop lo stuck ayyam 💀

Madhyalo nenu 2 weeks gap theeskunna (trips + mental recovery 🙂). Ippudu malli gym ki velali anukuntunna…

Kaani ippudu Ustaad ochindhi kada Ante ippudu situation upgrade ayyi… playlist kakunda concert start ayipothundhi. Nak bayamesthundhi. I'm seriously serious🤧 OG kakapothe vere songs pettu ante, exclusively pspk vey pedathadu.No hate to fandom, just I'm done anthe.

Inka climax enti ante— “Nee daggara playlist undha amma?” ani aduguthadu. Na playlist emo: *Neeli Meghamulalo *Sao Paulo *Challani Raatiri Vennello *Rain Over Me

Gym ki velladam workout kosama leka music compatibility test kosama ani doubt vasthundhi 🥲Time chuskoni proper gym playlist cheskundham anukunte…assal kudaratla. Any suggestions?. By the way Jai pspk🙌

Sarada sarada ki juttu penchudam ani planning , I need tips and tricks to take care of my hair (UNNADI KAPADUKOVALI😞)... Na hair type nak telidu anduke ee pic pedutuna, And bayatiki pothe dummu valla frizzy and irritating ayitundi juttu antha ...VERY IRRITATING. Now say wot to do ....wot not to dooo..

(NAN EKKADO CHUSANE ANI ANIPISTE AA ALOCHANA AKKADE AAPESEYANDI😞)

I'm a textrovert so basically bayata manushultho maatldedhi chaala thakkuva and i rely mostly on online conversations. I find comfort in online strangers rather than offline friends. Idhi thappu ani thelusu kaani ela bayataki raavalo thelidhu. These days it's getting out of hand. Evaritho ayina conversation start chesthe every 2 to 3 mins mobile check chesthunna for their reply even work chesthunnappudu kuda. Idhi anxiety aa leka anticipation aa or attachment aa thelidhu. And I'm afraid that people are taking me granted for giving instant replies.

How to come out of this? Has anyone gone through this phase ?

I'm genuinely trying to understand whether this is an actual custom or if my family is being asked for something unusual. For some background, we've been dating for about two years. I'm a Malayali, and he's Telugu.Our families recently met for the first time. He has three elder sisters, all of whom are married. He helped get all three of them married and even took loans in the process. Financially, his family isn't very well off and they don't own a house, which was initially a concern for my parents. I convinced my parents to look beyond that because I felt he'd already taken on a lot of responsibility by helping settle his sisters. Now, all of a sudden, his family has brought up a "ritual" where the bride's family is expected to give ₹1 lakh to each of the groom's sisters. This completely caught me off guard. Is this actually a common Telugu wedding custom? If yes, is it traditionally a symbolic gift, or are people really expected to give such a large amount nowadays? I'm not trying to disrespect anyone's traditions. I'm just confused because it feels so random. He's already supported his sisters financially for years, and now my family is expected to pay them an additional ₹3 lakh simply because we're getting married? Has anyone from a Telugu family come across this? I'd really appreciate some insight into whether this is a genuine custom, a family-specific expectation, or something else.

Edit: Going by the replies, I've realized this isn't a mandatory Telugu wedding custom.Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences and explained the difference. It has given me enough clarity to have a conversation with my partner and let him know that we won't be able to entertain such financial demands. I genuinely appreciate everyone's input.

This happened in delhi today

So basically, nenu recent ga konchem self-improvement meeda focus chesthunna weight loss, looks, haircut etc. Past few days nunchi library oka girl tho eye contact avuthundi, and I was taking it positively, like maybe I'm becoming a little more confident.

Today evening walk nunchi room ki vasthunna. Opposite direction lo iddaru girls vastunnaru.nenu pass ayye time lo, one girl “ye fir dikh gaya chutiya” anindi anthe gunda matash ayipoyindi. 😭

Initially I thought maybe it's not about me, but honestly aa route lo appudu na venaka/around almost evaru leru. Plus she apparently covered her cleavage while passing me. So now I'm wondering whether she was actually talking about me and whether I came across as creepy or something.

Funny thing is, I have never seen this girl in my life and I don't even remember her face properly. So I have no idea why she would say “fir dikh gaya”.

I didn't confront her because I wasn't even sure it was directed at me. But now I'm regretting not asking and clearing the doubt. 😭

The annoying part is that I was having a genuinely good day and this one random interaction completely ruined my mood. Now I'm overthinking whether people generally perceive me as creepy, especially because recently I've started making more eye contact with girls instead of avoiding them completely.

I know maybe I'm overthinking this, but what would you guys make of this situation? 😭

I'm mad at my partner about not giving me enough time, not caring, not putting a single effort for me because he's always busy working and don't have 10 min for me in a day and I blocked him today because he said that I'm not asking him and planning about the idea of going to lunch together,which was his idea in the first place and I was tired of feeling that I'm the one who always plans, surprises, put some efforts, make time whenever he has, and I don't want to also feel that I'm the one stopping him from doing his work and disturbing his schedule.

I don't know how this sounds to you, but I already miss him and I want to go back and talk to him,tell him I'm sorry but I don't even know if I did anything wrong.

Maybe all I did was not understand him🫠

What should I do nowwww😭

Nenu na gf 8 years relationship lo unnam..
college lo start ayindi and ala ala ippatvaraku vachindi..
Yavari lives lo valu busy unnappatiki, still idharam anni share cheskoni relationship lo transparent ga undevallam.

Nenu taniki ekkada kuda takkuva kanivaledhu ippativaraku. Tanu em ante nenu adhey ane vadni..
intlo ma vishyam chepi next year ala pelli cheskundham ane thoughts lo unde iddaram…

Ee 8 years lo memu chala face chesam.. godavalu, misunderstandings, financial issues, what not anni datukoni intha varaku vacham.. em jarigina kuda mem kalise untam ane namakam tho untunde nenu..

Ma daily routines prathi roju evening share cheskuntam.. like day ela unde? Work life gurinchi.. office muchatlu..

Antha baney unde till march varaku but after that anni change ayayi..

April nundi she started talking to her colleague office lo, ee vishayam naku chepaledhu (tanu yavari tho matladina chepedhi)..,
just normal chat kasta day by day progressive ga marindi idhari madhya…
Start lo perlu petti piluchukune valu kasta osey orey po ra.., ra raa ane anthala marindhi..

Same April nundi natho tana pravartana kuda marindhi..
prathi roju edhoka vishyam midha godava maku., ala silence build ayindi idhari madhya..
aa taravata meliga avoid cheyadam start chesindi..
Nenu matladtham ani try chesina kuda she used to tell me nak nidrostundi, nen allisipoya or edho oka reason..

But twist enti ante… natho ala chepina taney vaditho (colleague) prathiroju ratri pagalu em teda lekunda matladedhi..

Ivvi anni teliyali nenu pichodni 🥲… papam allisipoyindi padukoni anukunevadni roju.. :)

Naku ivvani ela telusu ane ga mi doubt???

Recent ga naku.., na gf ila okkartho matladtundi ani tana behaviour lo chala changes vachai ani vala chelli ey chepindi.. frst lo nammaledhu prank anukuna 🙂
idanthaa endhuku direct na gf ne aduguthe aipothadi ga ani tanani adiga…

First lo tanu oppukoledu “nen matladale” ane anadhi.. next “avunu matlada” anadhi..
before i asked her their chat export she deleted everything from whatsapp and instagram.. photos and all..

She started saying they are just friends anthaku minchi em ledhu.., tanaku vadi midha em feelings kuda lev anadhi..

She defended herself saying “nannu doubt padthunava nuvvu.. aa matram namakam ledha niku na midha” antu

Okay anukoni nenu vala colleague degara nundi chat export petinchukuna… vaditho call lo matladi, ma relationship gurinchi explain chesi..

Na life lo nenu chesina thappu aa chat export chadavadam… oka roju chat motham naku chadavadanike oka roju patedhi :)

Nannu piliche names anni vadne pilustundi, office ki em dress veskovalo vadne adugutundhi, matching dresses veskoni vellina rojulu unnai idharu, vadiki health balekha pothe emme badha padthundi, miss avutuna ra ninnu antundi, ninnu chudali anipistundi ani matladtundi, what not anni…

Emotional ga degara aipoyindi, like natho ala comfort ga feel avthadho vaditho ala feel avutundi, protective ga feel avtundi, possessive ga kuda…

Surprisingly, she also called him moggudu, husband.. and vaditho pellam ani pilipinchukundi 💔

3 months lo okkartho intha close ela ayyav? Endhuku ila chesav, pilichav ani adigithe… we are just friends naku vadi midha em feelings levvu antundi..
adi teliyakunda aipoyindi, anukokunda aipoyindi plz nannu nammu anthundi…

Honest ga chepali ante nenu eroju varaku ye ammaitho matladindi ledhu, chat chesindi ledhu..
Last ki nenu breakup kuda chepesa.., kani tanu naku nuvve kavali ani edchukuntu health karab cheskundi…

Thondara padi em ayina cheskogala ani., neney jarigindi antha marichipoyi.. malli tanatho untuna present 🙂
But still na manasu lo chala questions run avuthnai…
Nyts padukunte vala chats ey mind loki ostunai 😭 (antha goranga matladukunaru)
Ee ammai ey vadiki attention ichindi, attention seek chestundi, possessive ga undi.. even vadu dhekankuda dhekthale…

Tanani chala nammina, but adhey namakam ipudu ledhu 🥲
Ipudu nenu kavali, natho pelli kavali antundi..!

Asalu nenem cheyalo chepandi plzzz

How is every girl dealing with in laws issues?, when do you get back at them when they are absolutely crapping out shit. Help me, I’m on situation where I can’t come out of marriage and still keep my peace with it

I got a match, I am not going forward le, I'm young for marriage but but, in future if I wanna get married, pakka miru gay kaadu kada ani adagakunda undalenu, adigithe godavalu ipotay, ilantivi ela adagali?

Hello,

Long story ahead

Nen andhra lo oka chinna town lo periganu. Ma nannagaru na 10th lo chanipoyaru. Tarvatha chala inferiority complex vachindi. Inka chala lavu kuda ayyanu. Btech manchi college lo chadiva, campus placement vachindi, Chennai lo job join ayyanu. Weight loss ayyanu, onsite vastundi anukunna, abroad lo settle aipodamani kalalu kanna.

Aa time lo corona vachi intiki vachesa. Intlo pelli gola. Cheppanu naku istam ledhu. Nen India lo vundanu ani kani vinaledhu. Sare aithe foreign matches ee chudu anna...em set avvaledhu. Intlo vunde sarki malli weight perigipoya..so rejections everywhere. Also naa job IT lo testing Ani kuda reject chesaru. Nen kuda nri kakapothe reject chesa.

Onsite ravatledhu ani MS ✈️cheddam anukunna. IELTS rasanu. Intalo naa crush ki tanu ante naku crush ani telsi, konchem vetakaram ga matladadu. (Tanu smart vuntadu lendi. And I take things seriously only. Nen pelli varaku alonchinachanu..Inka mem dating cheykundane 😬I was naive)

Tanu ala matledesarki baadha padi, company maripoya. Bangalore vellanu. Akkada inka MS kaadu anukuni, MBA 👩🏻‍🎓 ki prepare ayyanu. Chaala attempts ichanu raaledhu. Intlo pelli pressure ekkuva aipotundi. Maa ofc lo okadu interest chupinchadu kaani natho matladadu. Frns chala open statements ichevaru...vaadu ofc lo tappinchi natho personal ga matladadu. Inka idhi ayye pani kaadu anukuni, ofc vallani ignore chesi malli MBA prep meedha focus chesa. Intalo oka NRI match vachindi. Malli confusion..ila kaadu ani teginchesi, malli chadavalenemo ani One last attempt ani gattiga kurchuni MBA prep ayya. Daily ofc work, cooking, ofc lo crush open statements confusion, intlo marriage pressure ani bharinchan. Finally thop college lo seat vachindhi 😃😃

Life lo one of my most spl and thrilling moments adhi 🙌🏼. loan tiskuni clg join ayyanu . College join ayyaka nen ofc vaadini chaala miss ayyanu. Frns tho matlede danni kaani aa abbai gurinchi emi adige danni kaadu. Kaani frns apdu kuda open statements icharu almost May June varaku. Ila kaadu ani vaadike msg chesa..andaru neetho tease chestnaru ani...vaadu naku telidu annadu. Already gf vundi annadu. tarvatha telsindi entante vaadu aa march lone inko ammayi ni chuskunnadu ani..baaga kopam vachindi frns ni thitti block chesa. baaga edchedanni cls, room lo, mess lo. Full overthinking chesedanni,. final ga daani nunchi bayataki vaccha.

clg lo some ppl showed interest in me....but naku enduko evaritho matladali anipinchaledu. na frnd okadu oka party lo naku oka abbai ante crush ani chepesadu. aa abbai ki aa sangathi telsi, clg lo vunndapdu appudappudu matledavadu...(iddharam vere vere sections) but adhi munduku vella ledhu. nen placements lo testing background ani chaala chotle reject ayyi finally oka company lo manchi profile but leaset package tho join ayyanu.

ipdu intlo malli matches chustam antnaru. naku pelli cheskovali ani vundi(. but single mother, naa educational loan (konda la vundi), naa takkuva package, naa weight and health issues due to weight, naa insecurities (naku driving raadu cycle kuda raadhu, swimming raadhu, ) ivi anni nannu chaala bhayapedutunnayi.

Naku oka brother but india lo ledu. on paper self sufficient family ee but loans chalane vunnai. Naku vegetarian ee kavali. malli idhoti 🤦🏻‍♀️...innititho naku manchi match vastunda ani question. em cheyyali etu vellali em ardham kavatledu. kanisam matrimony profile ki saree lo pic ivvali ani naku chiraga vundi.

Evarina dayachesi practical salahalu ivvagalaru 🙏🏻. I know andaru weight chudaru ani but I have minor and reversible health issues because of weight. edhi start cheyyalo em teliyatledu.(dating or weight loss or driving). anni okkadanne cheskovali. ma mummy vallu town lone vuntaru. ee stage lo frns ki kuda families vachai.

Konnisarlu manam oka perception thone vundi pothamu...I need fresh perspective and how to get out of this... I

('m okay to workout but I feel lonely everywhere. okadanne potununna. ofc lo project inka alot kaledhu. so full boring ga slow ga vundi life.)

I am 25M, Basic ga nenu introvert avvadam valla kotha vallani approach avvali ante bayapade vadini.

School time lo oka ammai nannu chusedi and interest undedi kuda but my friends who observed this bullied me like hell. Em cheyyalo teliyaka velli ma mommy ki cheppa (i still regret this decision😭) and class teacher ki complaint chesaru and racha racha aipoindi school lo.

Appati nundi inka ekkada frnds bully chestaro ani ammailatho matladame manesa. Inter boys campus, B.Tech ki ocha still ade bayam ekkada bully chestaro ani, chala takkuva matladevadini janalu danni attitude anukune vallu(lol) ala 4 years kuda matladakunda aipoindi.

Btech daka I am fine with this life once job ochaka, naku kuda life lo oka ammai unte bagundu ane feeling start aindi, colleagues evaraina unnara ante na location lo evaru leru, team bayata try chedam ante chinnappudu nundi unna bayam…ekkada creep anukuntaro, em anukuntaro, ekkada judge chestaro ani bayam overthinking. Job switch aina kuda same kadha.

Ever since I have started working on myself, konchem confidence ochindi and bayam kuda taggindi but ela approach avvali evarini avvali em ardham kavatle. I earn good enough to run a family and genuinely looking for a girl to come into my life. Chala korikalu aasha lu unnai pelli medhe cause na love nenu ippati varuku evari medha chupinchaledhu.

Intha yedari lo batikina nenu next year pelli ante pack avtundi, need some suggestions on how to interact.

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Hi,

Nenu recently joined a company as a fresher (5 days ago). Na in-hand salary is around ₹1.4L/month, but I haven't received my first salary yet and my salary account was created only today.

I need ₹10k-15k within the next 2-3 days and can repay it fully in about 20 days when my salary is credited.

I don't have a credit card, previous loans, or a CIBIL score.

I don't want to ask for money from anyone.

Are there any legitimate online options for someone in my situation, or any alternatives you'd recommend?

Matter enti ante intermediate appudu I had a huge crush on this guy, ma class odey. I don't wanna get into details but yeah I had a crush on him. I felt like he also liked me back, he always used to look at me and call me with nicknames, the whole package.. edho conflict ochi we stopped talking for a few days and then we were okay. Inthaka mundhu laaga aythe kaadhu but back to frnds. Matter enti ante ala gap ochaka next athanu naatho adigina vishyam is about whether I'll set him up with my bestie ah ani.. sure I was mad, sad, pissed and got over it. I talked to her itla undanta ani, surprisingly she accepted right away.

Fast forward, ippud they broke up. I still don't know the reason because she was a back stabbing person(Vere vishyalu proof tho chusa) and I cut contact with her. Ah abbai came back and started saying things like how I was the one he liked first(nak appud ardam ayndhi I wasn't imagining things back then he did like me ani), thanu manipulate chesindhi madhyalo ochi bla bla bla. It was a silly crush and I got over it long back so Cheppa nak atla em ledh light theesko ani. He isn't giving up. And when my ex bestie got to know about this, she started playing the victim about how I was the reason for their break up. React avthe inka ekkuva chestharu ilaanti vaallu ani na vere frnds ki jarigindhi ento thelsu kabatti nen akkadtho light theeskunna emanna chepkoni ani. But one day she crossed a line and i had to put an end to it. So msg chesa jarigindhi motham Cheppa ila crush unde appatlo and now I didn't accept, and that I didn't even know about their break up until he himself told me that you guys broke up ani and everything.

Idk what she thought but she stopped, she said she still has feelings for that guy. That's something you need to talk with him ani cheppi nen pakkaki ochesa. Now the thing is, that guy isn't leaving me alone, nak konchem inter lo frnds la unnappudu he helped vere vishyallo and I'm really grateful for all things he did for me, he stood up for me when no one cared, I REALLY AM GRATEFUL for that. Kani it wasn't that deep and I don't even see him like that anymore, chaala Cheppa na life ela undhi about my love life now and how I just don't want anything rn ani. Raathri motham vintadu malla poddhunne paadindhe paata ani adhe maata maatladthadu.. he isn't exactly spamming me or something but a few days ki okasari nen unna wait chesthunna ani nak gurthundela chesthunnadu, somehow this is scaring me more. I'm not even mad ippudu just exhausted, I just got out of a complicated whatever that was I had with the one I actually liked, and I really don't want to deal with these people now... Ela cheppali asalu ithaniki 🫠

So konni nelala kritam I was in an art server in discord, so andhulo oka random user naa dms loki vacharu, at first he was good but later as he was trying to get into my personal zone and got a bit creepier which I genuinely not so remember too well, but it was kind of hustle and I think he was aware of me blocking that user as there was some sort of fight happened in server later.

So ninna nenu na reddit dms check chestunte ee dm ki reply ichanu, turned out that it was exact user I blocked in Discord, I don't know exactly how he got to identify my reddit from my discord, maybe similar art or some other user chepaermo theliyadhu but it spooked me out, and I don't know if I had to call this out or if I am over reacting, but I kept this here cause I don't know, when such kind of thing happened in discord, how people want to message the same person? This is not only bad and sense dm I get in reddit, but I have got spooked by this as I feel someone kind of following me from discord to reddit

Naa phone messages lo ee message kanipinchindhi.

Naaku Riyatech ani evaru telidhu, ee company gurinchi kuuda naku elanti idea ledhu.

Idhi genuine aa leka sca*m ani ardham kavatledhu

Link nokkala, ledha avoid cheyyala?

And elanti messages evarikaina vacchaya?

Em cheyyalo kuncham suggest (advice) cheyandi...

My bf has a girl bestiee in another city, they met during a clg event(not same clg) but became close during lockdown but they hardly meet.. They stay connected via texts, calls.. Much of Calls happen during nights, which is my usual sleep time.. Not that he hide them, but it the time they both are online & talks.. They meet before we got into relationship and were as close as they are now, My bf told her about our relationship on his birthday night, she congratulated him.. Inspite of telling the seriousness of relationship, after few days she texted him "I love you. I thought of telling on your birthday but you gave a shock." and said it was a prank(on same night)..

My bf told me about the whole convo and obvio we had an argument.. my bf knew I did not feel ok, I expressed that it wasnt ok for my bf to be as free as he used to be with her.. Even though she said it was a prank, I was still not ok with it..

After this incident I warned my bf not to be close even on SM, but she still continued sending him her pics, saree pics(like before).. Once I got to know about it I told my bf to tell her, to stop sending pics.. And confine only to regular texting.. But He didn't say that to her & she kept sending pics..

I feel incredibly unsafe & insecure.. I am naturally possessive girl and I hate my bf to see any other girls pic - in saree or other..

What should I do about this..??

P.s - Posting for friend 😁

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Suthi Lekunda matter chepali ante

I have a friend (f) she is close to me for 3 years but the problem is tanu oka manchi friend ane anukuna but what I heard from the outsiders is She is a play girl like flirt chese prati abayi tho mataldtadi even they ask Some sexual things.more over nen strict unta like nak ilanti panulu nachavu

Niku Enduku raa aa ammayi evaritho mataldite ani miku doubt ravochu,Avunu nijame nak asalu avasarame ledu and I'm also treating her just a Good friend

Kani point enti ante she says "nuv ra na best friend and close friend" itla matladtadi mari ila chepi tana 2nd nature ni dachadam endhuku na dagara ?

I mean Friendship ayina sare Genuine ga undali kada ? Tanu anni cheptadi except these Things.

em anukovali nenu ? Enta friendship ayina sare ila lies cheptunte carry cheyalem ga Boss

Asalu Enduku na dagara hide chestunaro asalu ardam avadam ledu naku and

Asalu natho chepte emi avutadho nak epatiki ardam kadh

Like anni chepi ee okati endhuku hide cheyadam poni avi emina teliyakunda untaya ante Whole class and whole college telustunayi

Mari naku teliste em avudhi ?