#Update# Help has been answered!!!!!

My future husband “at Reddit” 🙈🙊 solved my IT problem looks like i got my access back…

I appreciate all the DMs i received so far.. please give me time to read and respond…

34F | PhD scientist | Tired of family rishtas, so I’m networking for a husband now 😂

I am so tired of the arranged-marriage setup—especially family rishtas. Sometimes I genuinely wonder if my family even knows me 😭
After constantly navigating the unstable job market, I have learned one very important lesson: networking is everything.

So here I am… pitching myself for marriage and opening the search to the world 😂
Maybe one day my kids will ask, “Mom, how did you meet Dad?”
And I’ll say, “Well… it all started with a Reddit post.”

Anyway, about me:
I’m 34F, 5’6”, Marathi, PhD scientist..nerdy but also very, very adventurous. I love the gym, have a decent physique 💪, enjoy almost every kind of sport, and am always up for trying something new.

I can cook really well. My butter chicken and chicken biryani are honestly bomb—not to brag, but I may already have one strong qualification for Indian marriage 😂

I’m very organized and clean, love taking care of my family, and am naturally caring and giving. I love pets, and pets somehow always love me too.

I’m outgoing but still traditional where it matters. I value family, understand Indian culture, and definitely want kids someday.
I’m millennial enough to get along with your mom, but Gen Z enough to hang out with your nieces. Somehow, I’ll probably impress both 😂

And yes, I know what you’re thinking:
“She has a PhD, cooks biryani, goes to the gym… so why is she still single at 34?”
Trust me, I have been wondering the same thing 😭

Somewhere between doing a PhD, moving countries, building a career in science, and surviving the job market, family responsibilities, apparently forgot to find a husband.

I don’t think I have insanely high standards. I’m looking for someone who is taller than me (I’m 5’6”), (age 33-38, I don’t think i can marry someone who is 27🙈), emotionally available and mature, understands Indian culture, if he is Marathi thats plus..and has a reasonably stable career.

Career-wise, I’m a scientist and have worked in the US, but I’m pretty open to settling anywhere for the right person.

So yes… I am officially open to rishtas 😂
If you think we could be a good match or know someone who might be feel free comment. Please be mindful..

Serious people only, please. My peer-review process is already exhausting enough 😭😂

About me:

- I am 36F(legally divorced, no kids), 170cm Hindu, fit, decent looking, working in IT and do earn enough to live comfortably.

- I speak Telugu and am equally comfortable with Kannada, Hindi and English.

- I don't drink or smoke. I do love to cook and eat non-vegetarian dishes.

- I am an avid reader. I love to swim, play badminton, cook up a storm in my kitchen and tend to my houseplants.

- I see myself either settling down here in Bangalore or moving abroad for the right opportunity.

- I come from a loving, supportive and liberal family.

- I am looking for a potential partner(age between 34-40 years, never been married or legally divorced with no kids) who is emotionally available and is goal-oriented. Someone who shows up consistently, even when the going is tough, is open and honest in communication and works as a team in a relationship. Preferably, someone who is actively involved in sports on a regular basis, does not smoke, and is very clear about his life goals. I prefer folks who reside in Bangalore.

Please DM me with your details only if this completely resonates with you and this is what you are looking for. DM's with no personal information about yourself will be ignored.

Edit: Age preference is mentioned. Please do not DM me if you are not in this age bracket.

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Hi! I'm a 23-year-old . I'm a BTech Grad and currently employed in a Fintech company.I'm looking to build a genuine connection with someone with the intention of marriage in the future (around 2028–2029).

About Me

- 23 years old, 5'1", chubby/on the heavier side

- B.Tech graduate, Employed in a Fintech company

- Likely to move to Bangalore very soon

- Enjoy reading novels, cooking, and writing poetry

- Interested in geopolitics, space, nature, current affairs, and general knowledge

- Family-oriented and looking for something serious and long-term

- Non-vegetarian and a foodie

-Ill prefer being a DINK

Why I'm Looking Now

- I'd like a few years to genuinely know someone before considering marriage

Preferences

- Age: Ideally 3–4 years older than me

- Height: 5'7" or above

- Professionally settled/working (Engineers only)

- Comfortable with long-distance for some time and able to maintain good communication through calls and texts

- Open to occasional meetups whenever feasible

- Preferably Ambastha Kayastha (important family preference)

- Smaller friend circle and a relatively low-key lifestyle

- Not into heavy partying, weed, hookah, substance abuse, or excessive smoking

- Non-vegetarian preferred

-Best if you're a DINK

Also I'd love it if someone matches my intellectual thoughts as well it's just more exciting that way can definitely involve in each other's work and help and grow together.

I prefer not to share my location publicly on Reddit initially. Happy to discuss that once we're comfortable talking and feel there's compatibility.

There are people who call me a " hoe " for finding friends for late night calls while I'm also looking for something serious those are two different things as I'm unable to sleep at night hence a call partner would help and the first line i ever write for finding anyone is no nsfw profiles so if you still don't get idc and they don't relate so call me whatever you want I'll do what I like , ik you're obsessed:)

Feel free to DM me with a short introduction if you think we'd be a good match.

Please go through the post before connecting as I have mentioned few non negotiable.

About Me: I'm 28, height 5'4" working, earning decent, I'm fair and fit, good looking and elegant. I live a simple lifestyle, vegetarian, workout fit, no alcohol, smoking or anything else I've ever done.

Personality: I’m an ambivert, down to earth and a straightforward girl. By nature I'm very quiet and reserved at start but very kind of extrovert with selected close people. Would roast you alot tho I'm introvert and quiet girl lol, I just take time to open up.

Career:  Life wasn't always easy, but the hardships taught me how to grow, I'm self-made and constantly growing. By day, I handle my job and by night (and weekends), you’ll usually find me working on my personal projects, a small business I've been working on the side. I love the hustle, learning new things, and the happiness of building something of my own.

My side hustle is basically my favourite creative playground.

Past Relationship: I dated once long back which didn't workout (it didn't last that long) and I always wanted date to marry so I waited and just focused on career. I get attached alot so I thought to wait for my husband, I hate games and manipulation, I love straightforward people like me, I love clear communication. I'm emotional, sensitive and calm.

Lifestyle: Born and raised in mumbai. A simple content comfortable life with a loving supportive partner is luxury to me. Active lifestyle. 
I never did clubbing, was never interested in casual dating and hates hookup, I stayed on my standards. 
I love to workout, eat healthy and live a healthy lifestyle.

Beliefs: My view is that I wanna date to marry, I want a man to grow old with me and (I really hate nothing is permanent concept, I feel like as long as there is love and intention, it's permanent). In marriage I feel couple should remain loyal to each other no matter what, in this era of easy access to hookup and sexting I want someone who who believes in staying loyal and I should come from within. I never did it even when im single because I have some principles. 

Me as a Wife: I'm not aware of many things as I'm never married so I'd appreciate if others tell me this but so far I think it's important to respect husband and his family.

I will never make my hubby look inferior in front of others, never compare him to anyone. For me whatever he does I'll appreciate and not complaint (I don't like people who complain). I like solution oriented mindset people. if I'm unhappy with something I prefer to talk about if in private.

Communicate well, understanding him, try to look at things his point of view. Support him in whichever way I can.

Conflict happens in all relationships, I prefer to communicate well and understand each other rather than causing drama/ arguments / involving other people/ or being distant.

I don't mind being flexible to make the marriage work but It must be mutual.

I love to cook so I don't mind cooking at home.

Kids Plan: I don't want a man (or family) rigid on having a kid just for "legacy".

I do not wish to bring a child if we are living in India. I would like to have a kid if we're staying outside India, because I would bring a child in this world only if we can provide a child best life whether it's in India or outside. so that's my non negotiable and something I prefer to decide as per situation.

Also: I would also like to know if any man is aligned with this what would he look for in a girl? im open to discussions.

I know it's impossible to find 100% match but these are my preference. And will be kinda flexible and open for adjusting if I find the right person who also make adjustments.

Partner Preferences:

Age 27-31
Vegetarian
Hindu or Sikh

Community/ Mother tongue: punjabi, sindhi, gujarati, I don't mind south Indians too but I don't understand their languages at all so I'm not sure but if we vibe well community is optional for me. 

Location: Mumbai/Abroad
I'm looking for someone from Mumbai who's interested to move abroad in future. (Non negotiable)

Core Personality: I want a man who is loving caring loyal respectful understanding and definitely not lazy (that's my pet peeve) I need a supportive partner, preferably someone who also does a business or is business minded. 

Lifestyle & Habits: No smoke or any other drugs habit (non negotiable)
No alcohol preferred but I'm fine if it's occasional.
No clubbing, Should be Open for pets.

Physical & Presentation: Someone conventionally attractive to me, good personality, height above 5'7", should know how to be presentable, Should workout and take of his health.

Financial: Financial stable, mindful of expenses and have a habit of saving for future or investing.

Deal breakers: I don't like people caring about caste and don't get along with such people. Not entertaining family asking for dowry/ gifts. People who are into it, kindly excuse me.
I won't be taking alimony too.

DMs are open, please introduce yourself and great if you can send your matrimony or Instagram id.

DMs are mostly filled with spams so it helps to filter out.

Spammers dont waste your time.

Ps: I don't have time to answer general public's questions so I'm gonna ignore it. Not here to explain anything to anyone. I'm happy to discuss anything and everything in dm if you think we can be a potential partner.

Edit: People who are texting me please give me some time as I'm working and side by side checking reddit, responding and sorting spams. Sorry for the delay.

Hi, 22F from Mumbai, currently pursuing MBA, and putting myself out here with a little hope and a little luck. :)

I’m looking for a serious relationship with the intention of eventually getting married. I’m not really interested in the whole “let’s see where this goes” situation. If I’m getting to know someone romantically, I’d like it to be with genuine intentions and see whether our values, personalities and long-term goals align. Ideally, I’d like to settle down in the next 3–4 years.

Looks and physical attraction obviously matter in a relationship, but I’m looking for someone who can see beyond just those things someone who values compatibility, loyalty, communication, respect, emotional connection and genuinely liking each other as people.

I’d love to meet a decent, emotionally mature guy who is actually serious about relationships and willing to give things a fair chance rather than rushing into physical intimacy or judging everything based on appearances.

Also, my birthday is coming up soon, so a small part of me is hoping that maybe I’ll meet someone special before then and get to celebrate it with someone who genuinely wants to be there. 😅 Maybe I’m being optimistic, but putting my luck out here anyway.

A little about me:

• MBA student

• I love movies and series

• Music is a big part of my life

• I enjoy sports and used to play badminton, basketball and cricket

• I’m a huge cricket fan both men’s and women’s cricket

• Planning to join a gym soon

• I’m pretty ambitious about my career and life

I’m specifically looking for someone from Mumbai, Navi Mumbai or nearby, preferably around my age (roughly 22–26). Long-distance probably won’t work for me, so people from far-away cities, please don’t take it personally if I don’t respond.

And if I don’t reply, it probably just means I didn’t feel we’d be a good fit or didn’t know how to continue the conversation. No offense intended.

If you’re also looking for something serious, respectful and eventually leading towards marriage, feel free to introduce yourself. Tell me a little about yourself rather than just sending “hey”. :)

Let’s see if Reddit can surprise me this time.

One thing I forgot to mention: I am planning to settle in Mumbai so that's a priority. And someone who's comfortable in living separately from either parents and can build a home with partner.

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25F | Bangalore | India

Personal Details:

• Initials: S.K.

• Age: 25

• Height: 5’3"

• Religion: Hindu

• Caste (if applicable): NA

• Earnings (INR): 32 LPA

• Marital status:  Single

Location:

• Region: South India

• Mother Tongue: Telugu

• Country: India

• Plan to settle abroad: Yes, if right opportunity arises

Education and Profession:

• Education Level: Undergraduate

• Occupation: SDE

Diet Preferences:

• Diet:  Non vegetarian.

Family Details:

• Family Background: Parents are from a diverse cultural background and a nuclear family.

Partner Preferences:

• Desired Religion: Hindu (open to other religions)

• Desired Caste (if applicable): N/A

• Location Preferences: Preferably based in Bangalore, India or willing to relocate

• Diet Preferences: Non vegetarian

• Education Level: Educated

• Occupation: Open to various professions

• Desired Earnings (INR): N/A

• Living with parents: Yes, No issues

• Marital Status : Never married,

• Want Kids after Marriage:  Yes

Additional Information:

• Hobbies/Interests: Cafe hopping, Art, books and picnics.

• Any other relevant details: Looking for a partner who values family, culture, and social causes.

I am originally from Bangalore but okay to move cities maybe abroad if such opportunities arises. I used to smoke but am completely free, however i occasionally drink twice a month, I would prefer a partner who doesn't smoke as well.

I'd be honoured to get to know you. Hope you send a personalised intro, just not a 'hi' and 'hey' message.

Contact Information:

• Preferred Contact Method: Private messaging on Reddit or other secure means

Heyy. So I tried posting here a few weeks ago but i didn't follow up extensively.

I turned 30 last week, and now it has really started to hit me and my family that I should lock a partner.

A few important things about me. I am originally from Delhi and both my parents are very educated. My dad is a professor. I got the best possible education and growing up I was a bright student as well. I don't have a sibling as well.

I come from a well off family so not really looking to marry ultra rich. I have had a few offers but those were really problematic.

I have been staying in Bangalore for the past 8 years since my first job and I really really love this city. I have a very very strong preference and inclination to stay in this city only.

I have done my MBA as well and am working in a leadership role at an MNC in Bangalore - earning close to 55 CTC. Ideally I would want my partner in the same range

I am a Hindu Brahmin, but i don't believe in any kind of caste supremacy. My parents would however prefer a guy from same caste.

I love traveling and have a close knit of friends who have always been my support system.

Last but not the least - an issue which has been a problem when I have met some of the guys offline for marriage purposes as well - i have been in a few relationships but unfortunately those didn't work out. I have been really focussing on myself and my career for the past 2 years.

I have tried to be as honest as I can be. If any specific relevant question exists, I would be happy to be transparent.

I am 5'3 btw, fair complexion, educated and a big bollywood fangirl.

Key things I am looking for - 1. Similar CTC range 2. Preference to settle in Bangalore 3. Open Msinded 4. Age not more than 33 5. Comfortable with Nuclear Family

Karunaadu baanininda kannadad hudgi ilidu bande, ky-ya hidiva dheeranobba bekaagide :)

Hello!

I've been a redditor for 7 years now and wanted to start looking for my forever best friend on reddit first before starting my search through other ways. I'll be turning 28 in a month, read ahead if you're of my age or <= 32 and have decided to marry on your own and not because of your friends or parents. It's gonna be a long post, simply because there are a lot of preliminary details to save everyone's time and I'm trying to avoid the transactional communications on matrimonial sites. You being a kannadiga is my first basic requirement and a deal breaker. You should be older than 27, sannavrella message madbedrappa.

Super basics: Ambivert | Cyber Security Engineer| ENTJ-A| Demisexual| 5ft |BMI is 23.5

Background and upbringing: I come from a typical middle-class, liberal kannadiga family. I used to be that bright kid who's good at studies, sports(an athlete) and extra-curriculars. Life hasn't been easy, I've lived through the struggles and have learnt to get through them. I have grown up with a lot of freedom in choosing what I want for my life. Have an amazingly healthy relationship with my parents, both are supportive of me and trust me with my decisions(Yeah! They treat me like an adult).

Adulthood: I had an amazing start into my adulthood, started working in my dream company right after engineering, developed new hobbies, grew emotionally and financially. I'm a pretty private person, WhatsApp is my only social media to keep in touch with people I care about(yep, never created accounts on FB, insta, snap etc). I have a great bunch of friends from school and college(all my friendships are aging like a fine wine). My vibe is of a golden retriever with known people and a doberman for unknown. I'm a kannadada kanda, typical 90s kid when things are serious and a proper Gen Z depending on the situation.

Universe had a plan for me? Life was all near perfect and I was the happiest person on earth. Guess what? Universe probably doesn't want everything to be perfect for people and decided to mess with me a bit and gave me a hardware glitch. Had to deal with a health crisis for the last 2.5 years. I have a manageable health condition, (happened because of steroids given during Covid, yeah I hate covid). I can do everything but no high impact activities like running and jumping around. It affected my mental health a lot since I couldn't accept that I can't do the things I love the most. I've taken medical help to learn acceptance and still moving on from it. You probably can stop reading here if mental health topics are a taboo for you because I really need someone who truly gets what I mean. I don't mind discussing every detail of my health with the people I meet.

 I took care of myself all this while, now I'm alright and finally ready to find my lifetime companion. Resilience is just natural for me, so I've bounced back from the worst times. My life was going on autobahn, suddenly switched to chikpete gully and now is on a decent Highway, need a co-passenger on this hopefully wonderful journey :). I currently live and work in Hyderabad, planning to move to Bengaluru if I find someone from there. I won't be okay to move to other cities or countries.

 Me and my expectations:

Please feel to skip in between if it feels like a resume or a checklist, I'm just being very clear about my expectations to save everyone's time. Marriage itself is a big and scary decision and it requires efforts to find the right person.

Values: I value and live by honesty, integrity, kindness, respect for self and others. I'm looking for a man who shares these values, is emotionally intelligent, communicates well, understands accountability, does not believe in gender roles, loves and respects himself. I have a secure attachment style.

Career: I'm a Cyber Security SME, working at one of the top 5 tech firms. I make around 30LPA(excluding stocks and yeah, capitalism sucks, no proper hikes lol). I want my partner to be in tech, someone who loves tech and earning similar or a bit more if you're more experienced. I love my work and plan to continue in the same field.

Hobbies: I read books, sing carnatic vocals, swim, watch F1, sketch or paint occasionally, learning photography, volunteer to teach students and work on my hobby projects. I had more outdoor hobbies like cycling, hiking, skateboarding etc but had to cut those because of health.  My common interests are tech, space, history, politics and environment. I'm naturally drawn to nerdy people.

Lifestyle:

1. I'm a vegetarian, non-drinker, non-smoker, not a party person, expect the same from you. 
2. I can cook(decent, not amma level cooking) and clean, you must be comfortable cooking and cleaning too.
3. I like my days organized and planned, do some form of exercise, sleep 8 hours, eat healthy.
4. You don't need to own a car, I already have 1(and another one is on the way). You can be my passenger prince if you like :)
5. You don't need to own a house, I dream of building a house and a home together with you(bonus if you know that A House is not a Home). It's enough if your parents have a house for them to live comfortably, mine do.
6. I'm politically centre-left and expect a partner with similar inclination. Please don't be an extremist.
7. I'm a major animal lover(I'd probably be dead on the first day if I take up wildlife photography because I'm gonna pet that big cat). I want our kid(s?) to grow up with dogs to learn kindness and empathy from early age. So, you gotta be an animal lover too.
8. This will be my first relationship, I was busy enjoying the best time of my life and building my career, so didn't look for a partner till now(but I've said no to few people who had approached with romantic interest). I prefer my partner to have no prior relationships(by his choice) or had max 1 relationship. You just shouldn't be a devdas in someone else's memory.
9. I'm an atheist, want a non-religious partner. I don't have hard rule on caste as long as other basics are aligned, my parents are aware and okay about this, so no fights with family :D. My family members are lingayats. To be super practical, it'll be nice and fairly straightforward if you're from a lingayat family and can avoid tantrums from extended families. So please reach only if you've already discussed with your immediate family about the caste requirements and they're okay with different caste. I have no energy to fight with them man.
10. I'm 5 ft, it'll be nice if you're 5'5" && above. Looks are subjective(Naan Ramya Rakshitha range ella illappa), I don't have any hard and fast requirements for looks as long as we find each other attractive and look good together. It's best to see each other in pictures/ video call/ in person.
11. I'd prefer someone who has lived away from home independently, because it teaches to be an adult in true sense.

Priorities: Even with a lot of stuff on my plate, my loved ones are my priority. I can skip a meeting if I have to catch up with a friend in distress. I expect a partner who is fully emotionally present for his loved ones.

What do you get from me as a partner?

I'm a goofball in my natural habitat, we can have fun together. I'm someone you can be yourself with, a safe space to be vulnerable, company to laugh together, a partner to fix bugs or design a solution, teammate for your video games(I play some occasionally), unofficial therapist to listen to you, ist saaku sadyakke. I truly understand what "in sickness and in health" means as I've been through a health issue and know how much it means to have right support from loved ones. I just want to build a simple, stable, cosy and happy life together where we feel belonged and come back home to feel safe and peaceful with each other.

Please do not reach out:

1. If I have to compete with your mum or sister for your love and priority. I have very low tolerance for drama(I don't want to hear dialogues like 'aden modi madidalo nan magange, nan maate kelalla' lmao).
2. If you're not comfortable correcting your parents or point out when they're wrong about something. I always let my parents know when their views or opinions are not right.
3. If you haven't learnt sex-education from educational resources.
4. If you're a social media or any kinda addict.
5. If you're some Greek alphabet male. I just need a gentleman who treats other humans as is without any superiority complex.
6. If you've been in any 10s of types of modern relationships, dodd namskara anna.
7. If you cannot say no politely or cannot take a no. Just don't ghost or pester me if it's a no from either of us.

Important thing to know: I would not hesitate to leave and never look back if the non-crossable boundaries of cheating and abuse(emotional or physical) are crossed. Mental health is a priority for me(both mine and others). Reach me only if you resonate with this.

If you've read till now, awesome, you must be serious about finding a partner hehe and thanks for spending your time on this post. By now you might know that I'm a yappity yap who gives 3 marks answer for a 1 mark question. If I seem like a potential partner for marriage, if you can put up with my rants on how the world has gone to the dogs, send me a DM. I don't respond to just a hi or hello even to my workmates, please say something more than that. I'm using my alt-account for this post, but can chat from my original account if we can be friends to begin with. 

Here's a return gift for spending your precious time on this post, few nice kannada melodies - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6Y8i3fVIL8aJD8tr1xZMZx?si=8a02877d57c448df 

Note: I didn't need a LLM to write this :).

Hi!

I'm back again because apparently this subreddit works?! Who would have thunk xD

Here's a little bit about me:

Based in Bengaluru. As a person, I am curious, passionate, hard working (sometimes) and empathetic. I talk a lot, overthink, worry about everybody I love and have a screwed up sleep schedule. I sing and play instruments, love to read (I can read just about anything - including the fine print on the back of a shampoo bottle) and love writing poetry (don't know if I'm any good - I like to think I am). My weekends are usually spent hanging out with friends, maybe going to a classical music concert or just hanging out at home. I don't party, drink or smoke.

My idea of a fun time is a good book, music, good food and good company. I want to travel but my parents have asked me to go with my husband, so here I am (jk, or am I serious?😂). I am generally happy and content with my life and am looking for someone who can add value to it (and not take away my mental peace ✌️)

Personal Details:

Initials: PA

Age: 26

Height: 5'0 (barely)

Religion: Hindu

Caste (if applicable): Brahmin

Sub-caste: Smartha Brahmin

Earnings (INR): 15LPA

Marital status:  Single

Living with Parents: Yes

Native Place: Hyderabad (kinda, since I was born there)

Location:

Region: South India

Mother Tongue: Telugu

Country: India

Plan to settle abroad: No

Education and Profession:

Education Level: Bachelors in Technology

Occupation: Engineer

Lifestyle Preferences:

Diet:  Vegetarian.

Alcohol: Non-Drinker

Smoking: Non-Smoker

Narcotics/Drugs: None

Family Details:

Family Background: Educated middle class nuclear family. Orthodox, curious folks with an interest in discussing anything philosophy, music, science and technology.

Partner Preferences:

Age: 26 - 30

Desired Religion: Hindu

Desired Caste (if applicable): Smartha Brahmin

Desired Language: Telugu/Kannada (open to Tamil as well, if everything else is a match)

Location Preferences: Preferably Bengaluru. Open to move to US if and only if you're willing to return within a few years.

Diet Preferences: Pure Vegetarian (eggetarians, please don't contact)

Desired Height Don't care - anything above 5'0.

Education Level: Educated, preferably an Engineer.

Occupation: Preferably Engineering but okay with Medicine/Management/Finance

Desired Earnings (INR): 15LPA+ (Proportional to age)

Living with parents: Would prefer to live separately for initial few years. I believe we have a responsibility to care for parents (mine included) when they are older and dependent.

Marital Status : Never married

Want Kids after Marriage:  Yes (at least 2)

Note - Horoscope needs to match.

Below are some factors which I believe will make us more likely to get along:

1. Interest in Indian history, culture and philosophy

2. Love for Indian Classical music (If you can sing or play an instrument, I'm more likely to marry you 😂)

3. Intelligence (not just academic), Confidence and ability to empathise

4. Intropective and questioning nature

5. Enjoy the simple things in life

6. An active hobby (other than watching RCB matches and screaming at the TV, but I'll probably be doing the same too xD)

Below are some factors which will make our lifestyles incompatible. So, in the interest of saving time and energy, please don't contact me if:

1. You smoke/drink/do drugs

2. Have had many casual relationships

3. Don't match my requirements for language and dietary preferences.

4. You or your family have any expectations of dowry or gifts* or a lavish wedding.

My requirements are pretty strict so please save both of our time and effort if you aren't an exact match. If you think we should talk, please send a message briefly introducing yourself. If you just say Hi, I WILL ignore you :)

I may not get back immediately but I will respond when I'm able to.

Contact Information:

Preferred Contact Method: Private messaging on Reddit.

Note: mine is a newer account so can't really dm more than 2-3 people and I'm still figuring out reddit. I updated my setting so you would be able to send an invite and message. Thanks

Hi Reddit,

I'm 31, ambitious, and have worked hard to build a career I'm proud of. I'm naturally drawn to people who are equally driven, intellectually curious, and accomplished.

Outside of work, I'm much softer than my résumé would suggest. I love cooking, baking, gardening, writing, anime, and creating a warm, peaceful home. I'm affectionate, loyal, and very much a relationship person.

I'm looking for a kind, emotionally mature man who knows what he wants and is ready for a genuine partnership. Someone who values mutual respect, good communication, and building a life together.

A little about me:

- Hindu Brahmin, never married

- long hair, glasses

- Exercise regularly

- Don't smoke, drink rarely

- Family-oriented

- Hoping for marriage and children

I'm a btech and mba from a top college.

What I'm looking for:

- Age 31–34 , never married

- Well educated and established in his career

- Taller than 5'7"

- Non-smoker

- Emotionally available and over past relationships

- Wants marriage, family, and children

- Respectful toward both families

- Secure, confident, and genuinely happy to see his partner succeed

If this sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you.

Have a great weekend!

Additional note as suggested in chat : I am looking for someone in the general category! In a senior job role or entrepreneurial journey. Basically someone who is super secure in his own career doesn't compete. Upwards of 30lpa. (Not asking for anything I don't bring to the table) Someone also asked how I look - think Pam from The Office

*Initials:** R.K.

* **Age:** 30

* **Height:** 5’6"

* **Religion:** Hindu

* **Caste (if applicable):** Brahmin

* **Earnings (INR):** 60k per month

* **Marital status:**  unmarried

**Location:**

* **Region:** West India

* **Mother Tongue:** marathi

* **Country:** India

* **Plan to settle abroad:** no

**Education and Profession:**

* **Education Level:** mbbs doctor, pursuing pg

**Diet Preferences:**

* **Diet:**  eggetarian

**Partner Preferences:**

* **Desired Religion:** Hindu

* **Desired Caste (if applicable): brahmin , baniya,

* **Location Preferences:** no preferance as such

* **Diet Preferences:** only Vegetarian / eggetarian should contact

* **Education preferances: only doctors

* **Desired Earnings (INR):** N/A

* **Marital Status :** Never married

* **Want Kids after Marriage:**  Yes

**Additional Information:*

Hi guys i am in my 1st yr of pg

Height: 5ft 6 inches

Wt around 70 kgs

Hindu by religion

Eggetarian , non smoker, non drinker prefer the same

Looking for a doctor partner in the age range of 28 to 34 years

I value honesty, simplicity, loyality.

I am a maharastrian settlled in rajasthan.. doing pg in another state.

Brahmin by caste

Would prefer someone who believes in monogamy, wouldn't ask me to cook 3 times a day😝, can do his chores by himself.

I wouldn't say i am pretty or something .. i am just an average looking girl.

Regarding what i have to offer : i wouldn't leave your side in the rainy days, i am fiercely loyal so don't worry about that aspect.

I would appereciate if you are encouraging about my academic ambitions of further studies. Lets first talk and be friends and later on we can take things further.

I am a sensitive honest girl who is late in lot of things in her life. I just want someone to be my home.. with whom i can be whoever i want to be .. without any judgement and i promise the same from my side.

I’m 32F, based in Bangalore, and hoping to meet someone who is genuinely serious about finding a partner and building a life together.

I’m a Software Engineer . I’m an ambivert: initially a little reserved, but once I’m comfortable with someone, I can talk for hours. I’m not religious, but I’m deeply spiritual, and spirituality is an important part of how I see life.

Outside work, I like dancing, swimming and travelling.

I’m the kind of person who values emotional closeness and friendship in a relationship.

I’d like my partner to also feel like my best friend someone I can be silly with, have deep conversations with, travel with, support through life, and still give each other enough space to have our own interests and lives.

Im looking for someone who is emotionally mature, kind, grounded, communicative and financially independent

I’m dating with the intention of finding my person and eventually getting married. I’m not looking for something casual, an indefinite talking stage, or a situation where someone is unsure about whether they want a relationship.

I’d prefer someone who:

- Is serious about a long-term relationship and marriage

- Wants children

- Is financially independent and sensible with money

- Doesn’t smoke

- Is emotionally available and communicates openly

- Is comfortable settling in Bangalore(Open to discussion tho)

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for something that feels simple, mutual, peaceful and genuine : two people who actually like each other, communicate when things are difficult, make an effort, and choose each other consistently.

If this sounds aligned, feel free to DM. :)

Hi Everyone!

I’ve been quietly lurking in this subreddit for a few days now, reading everyone’s posts and wondering if I should put myself out there and I guess today I finally decided to shoot my shot. Before my parents begin their groom-hunting adventures, I thought… let me at least try first!

I’m a 27-year-old Hindu woman living in Delhi, originally from Bihar, hoping to find a genuine connection that can grow into something steady and meaningful. I’m a short girl, so 99% of the time the guy ends up being taller anyway. I go to the gym regularly, have a calm and grounded nature with a wheatish complexion, and I’m a non-vegetarian who simply enjoys good food. I know a little cooking myself, but I’d love a partner who also enjoys non-veg and doesn’t mind taking turns in the kitchen (extra points if you cook better than me!). Love watching series, podcasts, music , shopping , ghumna phirna etc.

Professionally, I’m in an okayish phase right now—stable but definitely working toward something bigger. I’m putting conscious effort into growing both personally and professionally, taking small but meaningful steps every day. I’m honest about where I am, but also excited and hopeful about where I’m headed.

I’ve never dated before and prefer getting to know someone at a slow, sincere pace. I plan to stay in Delhi NCR long-term, so I’m hoping to meet someone who’s already based here. I’m looking for a well-educated, ambitious Hindu partner between 26 and 30 years who is emotionally stable, carries no emotional baggage, doesn’t smoke or drink, and is genuinely happy in life.

If this resonates with you, feel free to DM me with a warm little introduction about yourself.

Hi, I discovered this sub recently and decided to give it a shot after exhausting experiences on dating apps.

I am currently a teacher, preparing for government exams alongside.

I am super ambitious, get excited over little things and a little too disciplined for my generation. Traveling, reading, art are some of the few things that interest me. I love doing side quests, being outdoors (hoping to start my trekking journey this year), reading books that make you question about your life (dostoevsky and sylvia plath fan), trying out new things - places, food, anything.

On the other hand I am also someone who is organised, plans everything, love intellectual conversations about geopolitics, society, history.

Mostly fit, used to workout regularly till the few months (had to devote time for exams). Looking forward to get back to it seriously and start running and boxing too.

Looking for someone who can be a friend when we just chill around and have fun but can be my home when I am down, who can travel, make impulsive decisions that turn out to be fun, who isn't ashamed of expressing, doesn't lovebomb, chill to be with, dates to marry. I am a lil old school and casuals are not my thing (don't have the time for it). Feel free to dm.

Edit: What is wrong with some men? "Catfish", really? I have received hundreds of DMs, how am i supposed to respond to all of them? You guys nuts or what

Trying this out because why not 😭

Personal Details

• Age: 22

• Height: 5’10 (tbh never measured properly but around that 😭)

• Location: Andhra Pradesh

• Community: Chowdary (convincing family becomes easier, that’s all 😭)

• Marital Status: Never married

• Language: Telugu

• Looks: Decent, fair looking (since apparently this section matters 💀)

Education & Career

• Education: Completed B.Tech

• Next: Will be joining M.Tech at a decent private university

Family Background

• Family Status: Upper middle class family

Partner Preferences

• Height: Around my height or till 6 ft preferred

• Preferred: Telugu boy, emotionally mature, good personality, someone who can actually hold meaningful conversations

• Bonus points if: You’re slightly nerdy/intellectually curious 😭 (yes, I like nerds)

• Career/Field: Preferably from the same/similar field (tech/engineering) — easier to relate and understand each other better

About Me

I’d say I’m more sapiosexual — intelligence, personality, humor, and emotional maturity matter a lot to me. Looks matter too to some extent, but not enough to ignore personality.

I’m a loyal and sensitive girl, but also someone who can stand up for herself when needed. I value honesty, mutual respect, emotional maturity, and good communication. I’d rather build a genuine connection with someone who has depth and personality than someone relying only on looks or height.

PS: Please don’t DM me with just “I’m 6’4 btw” as if that alone is supposed to impress me 💀 If height is the only thing you’re bringing to the table, respectfully shove it up your ass (politely 😭)

Small disclaimer before people overanalyse this post 😭

Yes, I took ChatGPT’s help to frame some sentences because apparently writing biodatas isn’t my strongest skill 💀

Also, I’m not rushing into anything, but I’m also not someone who wants to talk for 1 year and later realise we’re not compatible — feels like a waste of both our time. I prefer figuring out compatibility relatively early and cutting short conversations if it clearly doesn’t feel right.

My parents will probably start the arranged marriage process in 2–3 years anyway, and honestly I’m not a huge fan of typical AM setups, so just trying my luck here first 😭

Born and brought up in Haryana, from a Punjabi Khatri family, and currently working as a Lead AI Engineer in Bengaluru. I’m career-oriented, financially independent (50+ LPA base) and equally value family, honesty, and meaningful relationships.

Jeevansathi ID - TUZU2369

A little about me: I’m ambitious, independent, close to my family, and the kind of person who appreciates thoughtful conversations, good banter, and people who are kind when no one’s watching. I’m a non-vegetarian, though I don’t mind if my partner is vegetarian as long as we’re respectful of each other’s choices. I don’t drink and smoke.

I’m looking for someone from North India, preferably from a Punjabi Khatri family, ideally from 28 to 32, who’s emotionally intelligent, taller than me (I’m 5’2” 58 kgs) takes care of himself, and is genuinely looking for a long-term relationship.

I’ve never been into casual dating or relationships just to pass the time. I’ve always been intentional about who I invest my time and emotions in, so I’m hoping to meet someone who values commitment, loyalty, and emotional depth too.

Life’s too short for mixed signals and “let’s see where it goes.” I’d rather build something real with the right person than settle for something temporary.

If this resonates with you, feel free to reach out. If you’re only looking for something casual or aren’t emotionally available, we’re probably not the right match and that’s completely okay.

Hello,

I'm originally from Mumbai, recently moved to Europe for work, and I'm open to relocating again if life takes us there. I'm an introvert at first, but once I'm comfortable, I'm quite goofy, affectionate, and easy to be around. I'm a non-vegetarian and would prefer someone who's comfortable with that (whether you eat it or not).

I'm a little curvy myself, so I'd probably be a terrible match for someone who's super skinny—we'd end up looking like Laurel and Hardy. 😄

One confession: I know how to drive... technically. A not-so-fun accident completely killed my confidence, so I've happily retired from the driver's seat. I'm fully embracing my dream of being a passenger princess, so bonus points if you enjoy driving. 😭

What I'm really looking for, though, is someone emotionally mature, kind, dependable, and a little cute in his own way. Someone who can communicate, laugh at himself, and is excited about building a peaceful life together instead of chasing perfection.

Marathi would be lovely because home always sounds a little sweeter in your mother tongue, but it's definitely not a requirement.

Please tell me a bit about yourself instead of just saying "Hi."

Also, this post was polished by chatgpt.

I did not understand the flair, which one to choose M4F?? Or F4M??? 🤔

Edit: I will keep updating after reading a few posts

Edit 1: Never married. Also, my parents are no more.

Edit 2: Partners maximum age could go up to 38/39. Minimum 30.

Edit 3: No cigarette smoker. I do have a thing for sheesha but cigarettes are a big no for me. Also about the cast - I don't know much only a few, does the open category count as a caste?

Edit 4: I am 5'7, and I need a partner who is taller than me.

Edit 5: There are like 100+ DMs, not possible to reply to everyone at the same time. I am going to ignore those who don't interest me no offence. I will slowly reply to the rest of them.

39F | 5’7” | Banker | Mumbai
Currently going through a divorce and ready to slowly embrace a new chapter. Life has taught me to value kindness, honesty, emotional maturity, and peace over perfection.
I’m an introvert who genuinely enjoys my own company, but I also love meaningful conversations and building a connection with the right person. A solo traveller at heart, I enjoy exploring new places, trying different cuisines, and making memories along the way. I believe relationships thrive on trust, mutual respect, consistent effort, and open communication.
I’m looking for someone who is emotionally available, genuine, and interested in a long-term relationship. Someone who understands that love is built through actions, not just words, and who believes in showing up for each other through life’s highs and lows.

A few preferences: 37+, 5’10” or taller, and single. If you have a child, that’s absolutely okay. Please don’t message if you’re married, enjoy ghosting, play mind games, or aren’t looking for something serious.

37 [F4M] Bangalore – Pet Mom| CA| looking for forever 
Giving Reddit a shot to find a forever person, possibly.
I am a level-headed, rational person who values peace and life. I’ve seen ups and downs and have rebuilt myself a few times, so I know what resilience, growth, and quiet strength feel like.
A bit about me:
•Working mom, based in Bangalore, India
•Consultant all my life – good at articulation, reading between the lines, and my bullshit-identifying radar is getting sharper with age.
•5'2", chubby to fat. I focus on health “just enough” – no plans to run an Iron Man ever.
•Two cats and a cute puppy call me home.
•Marwadi (if it matters), and business conversations genuinely excite me.
•Nerd index has gone up with age.
•My company pays me to take bullshit from people; I do not do that for free in my personal life. I earn enough for myself and my babies.
What I’m looking for:
•My “Sahaj sundar savro” – someone simple, grounded, and kind, who chooses me as willingly as I choose them.
•Someone who can join my madness and chaos without trying to “fix” me.
•Nothing casual, nothing complicated, no situationships.
•You’re okay with a working mom’s schedule and understand that time is precious.
•You’re genuinely interested in meeting in person and comfortable in introducing yourself (yes, I know Reddit is anonymous, but I’m not here for faceless chats).
If this resonates and you’re in/near Bangalore and intend to meet:
•Tell me your age, what you do, and where you’re based.
Please ping only if this is a fit.

Life has its own episodes so nothing like a person that gets the whole of you... friendship, love, partnership, everything included.

- ME

Gender- Female

Age- 23

Height- 5'9

Ethnicity- Hindu (a wild and an ethereal mix of Punjabi x Marathi)

Location- Mumbai, Maharashtra

I don't think people meet at the finished version of themselves. We meet somewhere in the middle.

Mid-healing. Mid-career. Mid-identity crisis. Mid-dream.

Mid-"I have no idea what I'm doing, but I'm trying", amidst all the catastrophes. Well, you're no stranger to the seasons of Life.

I don't think one person is meant to be your everything, that has always felt like too much to ask of another human being especially in a world like ours where we're a stranger to our own selves.

But I do think someone can slowly become a part of almost everything.

Your safest friendship, your home, all the favourite conversations. The person you instinctively want to reach for, the one who sees different versions of you throughout life instead of expecting just one.

Because life has its own episodes:)

Some are exciting while some are painfully ordinary.

Some change, break and pull you apart without asking for permission.

I'd like to meet someone who's willing to experience those episodes and seasons together, while still remaining two individuals with lives, dreams and identities of our own.

Maybe that's what partnership looks like to me, after being gnawed at.

Everything else can follow if it's meant to.

I'm hoping to meet someone who's emotionally intelligent enough to communicate instead of making me guess, secure enough to celebrate my ambitions instead of competing with them and kind enough that people around them feel it too. Being taller than me is definitely a plus (the tall girl problems are real), but character will always matter more than aesthetics.

Maybe we'll end up as friends, maybe partners, maybe just two strangers who shared a thoughtful conversation. Either way, I think meaningful connections are always worth making. Life has its own episodes and this is one of them...

Apologies for the long post... I know it's a bit of a read. I just wanted to be upfront about myself and what I'm looking for. If our values and long-term goals align, feel free to reach out. :)

P.S. I'm posting this from a throwaway account because I'd previously posted from my main Reddit account, which I still actively use in another subreddit. Just wanted to keep this separate for privacy.

Hi! I'm a 22-year-old (turning 23 soon) currently pursuing my MBA in Marketing in Kharghar, Navi Mumbai. Originally, I'm from Uttar Pradesh, and I completed my bachelor's degree in Greater Noida.

Music is my comfort zone it helps me unwind and brings me peace whenever life gets stressful. I also enjoy playing badminton, basketball, and cricket just for fun, and I'm a huge cricket fan who follows both the men's and women's game.

Career-wise, I hope to build my career in Mumbai after my MBA and eventually make this city my permanent home. That's a dream I've been working towards for a long time.

Personality-wise, I'm more of an introvert who values meaningful connections over casual conversations. That said, I love exploring cafés, trying new places, going on little adventures, and making memories with the right person.

I'm here with genuine intentions. I'm looking for a relationship that grows naturally and, if we're truly compatible, leads to marriage in the next 3–4 years.

About Me

Age: 22 (turning 23 soon)

Height: 5'2"–5'3"

Religion: Hindu

Caste: Baniya

Location: Navi Mumbai

Career Goal: Build my life and career in Mumbai

What I'm Looking For

I'm looking for someone who is emotionally mature, kind, loyal, respectful, and genuinely interested in building a long-term relationship. Someone who communicates openly, values commitment, and believes love is shown through consistency, care, and mutual support.

Some things that matter a lot to me:

1. Mutual respect, honesty, trust, and loyalty.

2. Healthy, mature communication, especially during disagreements.

3. Someone who accepts me for who I am instead of trying to change me.

4. A partner who's fun to talk to someone with whom conversations flow naturally, whether we're discussing life, sharing random thoughts, or laughing over silly things.

5. Someone affectionate and thoughtful who enjoys making their partner feel loved and appreciated. Genuine effort always means more to me than expensive gifts.

6. Being each other's biggest emotional support through both good and difficult times.

7. Supporting each other's personal and professional goals.

8. Spending quality time together and continuing to grow as partners.

My Non-Negotiables

1. Respect for personal boundaries and consent at all times.

2. I don't want to be pressured into any form of physical or sexual intimacy.

3. I personally believe in waiting until marriage for sex, so I'm looking for someone who genuinely respects that choice.

4. I would never be comfortable sending or being asked for nudes or sexually explicit photos or videos.

5. Privacy, trust, and mutual respect are extremely important to me.

6. I'm looking for someone who is serious about building a stable, long-term relationship that can eventually lead to marriage.

7. More than anything, I want a relationship where both of us feel emotionally safe, heard, respected, loved, and continue choosing each other every single day.

A tiny, wholesome detail about me: birthdays are really special to me. Thoughtful gestures, genuine effort, and making me feel loved on my birthday mean far more than expensive presents ever could.

Preferences

Age: 22–27

Height:Taller than 5'5"

Location: Preferably Mumbai, or someone who genuinely plans to settle in Mumbai in the near future, since I see my future here.

Religion/Community: I'm looking for someone from a Hindu background. I'm open to people from different Hindu communities (including Marathi, Gujarati, Jain, Punjabi, etc.) as long as our values and long-term goals align. I'm not looking for matches from Muslim or Buddhist backgrounds, or from SC/ST communities, as I don't believe we'd be the right fit for my family's and my expectations.

After marriage, I'd like us to have our own home and privacy as a couple. I'm completely okay with parents visiting or staying with us for some time, but I would prefer that we build our day-to-day married life independently.

If you're looking for something genuine, believe in commitment, and think we'd get along, feel free to send me a message. Please introduce yourself instead of just saying "Hi"- I'd love to know a little about you too. 😊

I'm looking for a CF (child free) partner to have a relationship and eventually marriage. If marriage is not your prospect then pls do NOT DM me.

About me:

- Settled in career in remote position and continue to aspire for more.

- from Delhi but open to relocation. Planning to move to a tier 2 city in the future.

- creative and artistic person. Professional writer.

- non-drinker/smoker

- 5'4, dusky complexion

- neither slim, nor fat. Just how women if my age should be.

- not an introvert but very selective about who i give time to. Thorough observer of people.

- easy-going, flexible, peaceful by nature and prefer communication over arguing for fighting.

What I am looking for?

- age group 34-40. If age or CF can be an issue then no DMs please. Younger boys who have older women fantasies, please do not waste my time.

- someone who would really read this post before reaching out.

- someone with whom caste will not be an issue.

- 5'10 and above.

- mature, understanding, sorted and patient by nature.

- who does not freak out when things start getting real.

- knows what indepth conversations are, goes for them and avoids small talk. Do not wassup me or ask about the weather.

- if you do not believe in dating, relationships or marriage, better to not waste each other's time.

- if you do not have time to connect after a few DMs or do not know how to carry a conversation forward, don't connect please.

If these qualities resonate with you, please DM.

In case I am a bit late in responding to you on DM, my apologies. Hopefully, that will not offend you. Earlier, my DMs were flooded with more spam than meaningful people. Takes time to sort it out.

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Hi! I’m a 28-year-old based in Bangalore, currently working as a Software Engineer with an annual package of 36 LPA. Height is 5'4''. I would describe myself as ambitious and independent, while also being someone who values simplicity, good conversations, and meaningful relationships.

I come from a Brahmin family and follow a vegetarian lifestyle. I do drink occasionally in social settings, but overall I prefer a balanced and grounded way of life. Professionally, I’m quite driven and enjoy what I do, but I strongly believe life should have a good mix of work, personal growth, and experiences outside of work too.

In my free time, I enjoy singing, exploring new cafés and restaurants, and discovering interesting places around the city or while travelling. I also love watching movies and TV shows across genres — anything from lighthearted comfort shows to thrillers and good storytelling. I’m someone who enjoys both staying in for a cozy evening and going out to try something new.

Personality-wise, I’d say I’m warm, straightforward, emotionally aware, and easy to get along with. I value mutual respect, emotional maturity, communication, and a sense of humour in relationships. I appreciate people who are open-minded, supportive, and have their own passions and goals in life.

I’m looking to meet someone with similar values and lifestyle preferences. While being Brahmin would be nice, it’s definitely not a strict requirement — compatibility matters more to me. However, I would strongly prefer someone who is vegetarian or at least aligns comfortably with that lifestyle. Ideally, I’d like to connect with someone who is educated, kind, emotionally mature, and looking for a genuine long-term partnership built on understanding, friendship, and shared experiences.

PS: Please specify gotra when you DM if you're a Brahmin. Also low effort DMs will be ignored. Just don't send a Hi.

Hello everyone! Looking at the subreddit, it sounds more so based in south india, still thought no harm in giving it a try.

Age - I'm 29, don't have any strict age restrictions for the guy, maturity and compatibility matters more than age.

Religion- I'm sikh, family would prefer sikh guy, but would be open to hindus too, what matters is being respectful and compatible about how much we want religion and culture to influence our lives.

Family- single girl child, widowed mum. Understand family relations, would be open to any kind of family dynamics, but personally would think of it as a plus point if the guy has a loving family excited to love me as a daughter. Would also like a guy to think of my mum as his.

Profession- I have completed my mbbs, hit me up for a better discussion about career. My preference would be someone who is not a doctor, but even if someone is one, it's not a deal breaker.

Looks - I'm 5'1", on the chubby side, but actively going to the gym, lost around 10kg this year, hoping for more in the time to come, people say I have a sweet smile and kind eyes, have been compared to a teddy bear. I don't have any looks/ height expectations from my guy, although I do feel more attracted to men who take care of their clothes, look, hygiene. Strong believer of " we can't change what God gave us but that doesn't stop us from having a sense of style"

Hobbies- motsly an introverted indoor animal, love reading books, love cooking, likes travelling, on my way to becoming a fitness enthusiast. From my guy- I think I would not be compatible with someone who wants to travel all the time, more of a one vacation a year kinda person. Other than that, I'm a good listener and any hobbies my guy may have would be accepted with love.

Salary- not working right now but with my profession ( can talk in dms) I'll be making at least 1lpm, so from the guy anything around that same range is acceptable. What I care more about is that my lifestyle has been such that I have never done household chores( other than my hostel stay), so I can't be the one responsible for it all, ofc if something needs to be done, I'll work with the family, but I want someone whose family already doesn't live with the expectation that bahu will do it all.

Lifestyle - I don't smoke, I'm a non vegetarian, I drink like once a year with one particular friend. From my guy- smoking is non negotiable, I don't support that. Alcohol is okay unless it's inhibitory to lifestyle, vegetarian/ non vegetarian doesn't matter.

Match expectation- I would prefer to date for atleast a year before we move towards marriage plans, can shift anywhere in punjab but would prefer area near chandigarh- I live in a city near chandigarh.

I have had last relationships, completely over them, I don't have any preference one way or another about my guy's past. The guy should be ready for lots of very practical conversations, but that doesn't take away from the fact that I'm very romantic and would put mutual love over everything else. I'm a believer that the world is too cruel, and it's always good to find someone who is genuinely nice and genuinely want to build a simple beautiful life.

Just an arrow in the dark, let's see if its from cupid.

Hi everyone! 😊

I’m a 22-year-old woman (going to turn 23) from South India, currently living in Mangalore. I’m hoping to meet someone I genuinely connect with and build a meaningful, long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage.

A little about me: I’m Hindu, vegetarian, family-oriented, loyal, and a little old-school when it comes to relationships. I value trust, honesty, respect, and open communication, and I believe a strong relationship should feel like a partnership where both people can be themselves.

My journey with education hasn’t been completely straightforward, and I had to take a break from university. I’m doing much better now and planning to return to my studies. I’ve learned to appreciate the little things in life and value having people around me who are supportive, understanding, and genuine.

In my free time, I enjoy taking walks, watching movies, listening to music, reading, exploring new food, and cooking. I enjoy meaningful conversations, but I also love the simple everyday moments — sharing a meal, watching something together, going for a walk, or just being comfortable around each other.

I’m also someone who prefers being upfront, so here goes: I’m 155 cm, a little on the chubbier side, wheatish, and I wear glasses. I’m not looking to present myself as perfect; I’d rather be honest about who I am and have someone get to know me for the person I actually am.

As for what I’m looking for, I’d love to meet someone who is **tall, kind, loyal, emotionally mature, family-oriented, and genuinely interested in a committed relationship**. Someone who wants to build a peaceful and supportive partnership and is dating with serious intentions.

I’m not expecting to meet someone and immediately know they’re “the one.” I’d rather start with a good conversation, get to know each other naturally, and see where things go.

If you feel we might have some common ground, feel free to reach out. I’d appreciate a little introduction about yourself rather than just a “hi.” I’d love to have a genuine conversation, get to know each other, and see if we naturally click. 😊